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Keep on keeping on. Important work you do as always.
Thank you.
We are talking about pure evil. This must be exercised from the human race. This is spiritual corruption that is a deadly and destructive growing cancr .
If it’s true that now 1 in 6 people are narcissists I think it shows prophecy unfolding, (2nd Timothy, for instance).
The work you do is so helpful, more than you know. Thank you for everything you have taught so many. ❤
My ex wife is also a local therapist (LCSW). I came home from therapy one day and she used to call me after every session and pry what we talked about out of me. I vaguely suggested her behavior seemed intentionally hurtful. When I got home she had a suicide note waiting for me. She stared at me the whole time while I read it. Then told me that it was my fault she felt this way. Wanted my damn feedback. I went to the kitchen and just sat there. I came back into the bedroom and she had hid the letter. I feel so damn crazy. She took the kids from me this week and I feel like I’m up against an army of therapists and flying monkeys. Some people saw through her but she just cuts them out. I wish I could say that was the first time that happened but it happened often when I wanted to leave or I reached out for help.
They Narcs love to create a spectacle to humilate
Very sorry for all the strife , keep going! !
Don’t give up
Prayers sent !
This is the scariest sh*t for me – when someone with psychology education is also pathological personality. They become self-aware narc, psychos so they have to know all the techniques and mechanism not only intuitively, but also cognitively. They can’t help to abuse and also know how to abuse, so their modus operandi can be much more covert, sophisticated and harder to spot (at least how I imagine it) … I was once in a not that long (6 months) relationship with what I actually never tell publicly but would call a psychopatic dynamic and daamn, it really leaves scars. Being in a marriage and having kids with them and so on has to be really hard. Wish you all the best, you are in a boss fight.
One of the most horrific scenarios is when narcs and psycos have knowledge in psychology. They then weaponise this knowledge instead of using it for healing!
Report her to the licensing board!!
I did…still under investigation.
It’s not you because the narcissist is insecure so they want everyone else to feel insecure
The worst thing they do is when they try to play the victim afterwards and project their narcissism on you and blame you the same way they blamed their exes before and even blame their new dates after leaving you and complain why they are always stuck with bad partners! They simply never reflect on themselves and see what is wrong with them..
This is really helpful. I’d love more videos on how to work with a narcissistic boss or colleague ❤
My ex planted himself into my life like a tree-not a seed to be nurtured to grow. He completely blocked my vision, deprived me of my freedom to enjoy time with my family and friends and then when he had isolated me, he became violent and sadistic. He actually became s….lly aroused and pleasured himself whilst I was physically wounded. Then he taunted me and called me pathetic.
Thanks to you Dr Ramani, I’m beginning to understand that he was mentally unstable and extremely dangerous.
I was groomed while in bereavement. It wasn’t love bombing. It was an old acquaintance I knew for years who just capitalized on my listening. He was consistent and available. He matched interests.
I think these videos are extremely relevant to the current narcissistic-fueled abuses and scandals that are being revealed across the world. Thank you for your content.
We need too educate high schools about this .
Agreed 👍
They would, if there were mostly male victims.
This video will save the world
I feel like it will never end.
Those, who come from dysfunctional families or already have some low self esteem, are especially vulnerable and can easily fall victim to narcissist. Only because there is already foundation laid for the narcissist to build on.
4:55 oh damn, that really highlights my current relationship 😭
these people are cold blooded. They are like sharks in the sea of life. They are vengeful and dangerous and a divorce or separation from a narcissist is a real life nightmare! they don’t just want to separate from you, they want to destroy you so they can feel like without them, your life falls apart. Thank you dr Ramani for sharing these support videos!
They blame you for everything. It’s total insanity! Once you stop taking their blame, you are almost out of it … run now while you still have legs. They don’t change!
it’s soo true. thank you so much. i have had narcissist wife, 7 years of my life….
with grandiose narcissists, its like being addicted to a fruit machine. You occasionally get a small win and you’re afraid to walk away because if you do, someone else might hit the jackpot. But the house always wins.
Im glad the emphasis in these last videos is also put on chronic victimhood as a way of “lovebombing/traumabombing” and how it makes people put their guard down faster and be blindsided and distracted from all the important flags the person would be showing from time to time. Be very careful for excessive sob stories where the intend is to let you skip being cautious.