The Worst & Best First Dates According To Women
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A video featuring other women sharing their input, this should be a fun and informative video! Bravo Courtney and Have Happy New Year!
Enjoy! Happy new year! π₯°
She should ask older women.
These womens answers surprised me in a good way, I need to meet more women like these
It was a great group of ladies!
Eh, wait until conroversial, contradicting answers are shared, for certain questions.
@@CourtneyRyan I agree, we need more,
They donβt exist π
I miss these kinda videos. I remember your last series like this went viral and other channels were covering them. Always worth a watch
Haha these are definitely much less controversial which I prefer π it was a lot of fun and a great group of girls
@@TCR2025 better than everything fresh and fit put out π
β@@CourtneyRyan Most of the other “manosphere” influencers would have liked the controversy and rode the wave of millions of views and thousands of angry comments on the old videos just for the engagement. It takes a lot of integrity to refuse the clicks solely because it doesn’t help anyone and that’s not the energy you are trying to put out with your channel.
β@@CourtneyRyan I hope you ask these women the same questions you asked the previous group.. because while controversial, they’re very important conversations to have.
β@NexWalkthrough no they’re not important, they’re redundant and no longer needed
I remember when these vids were around back in 2022, good to see you’re bringing them back.
“Especially if they are paying. ” π€
Love these videosβ€οΈ
If a fancy date is preferred for first date… huge red flag.
Lead by the wallet, lose by the wallet.
Have you worked out how to include piping during a first date?
Live by the wallet, die by the wallet
Something inexpensive and easier to get out of if it goes badly is always the best option.
Yeah I donβt do those. Red flag and not the type of girl I am interested in. I do it on like a 4th date or something
@@Shah-of-the-ShineboxA wallet that is thick enough can double as a shield.
So I’m a guy that doesn’t always get out as much as I should. I really like these videos because I just don’t get to hear women’s options in real life. I appreciate these girls coming on the episode, and I hope we can all be nice in the comments.
Sit down coffee dates suck. Grab a coffee and go for a walkβ¦ much better. Can physically escalate and are more likely to have something βcome upβ for you to talk about
My local park has a Starbucks among the walking path, itβs the best of all worlds
Yes, they are boring and it is a bad idea especially if the place is noisy and crowded.
β@@birdie.21. I don’t agree, they’re only boring if YOU or her are boring. If you two are compatible you can literally make anything fun regardless what it is.
@@LeeEverett1 Dates are supposed to be fun, not like some high-pressure job interview. Also, the noise and the people walking in and out of a cafΓ© can be distracting and take the attention off you.
I’ve heard Cheesecake Factory is a good first date.
It’s a good way to filter out the bad ones lmao
Specifically the Cheesecake Factory. It has its own meaning, like a branded test!
We need more of these interview style videos, Courtney. Thanks!
I think it was interesting to hear their perspective on first dates . As a guy I donβt think we think about the safety aspect of a first date like women do . Guys really need to keep that in mind when setting up a date . The otherthing I do is ask if they would prefer to meet me where we are going or if they would like me to drive . Just so they are comfortable and feel safe just for a first date especially we donβt know each other yet . It was refreshing to hear them not putting much emphasis on how much the date cost or how fancy it is and more about getting to know each other.
I like this type of video, it seems more authentic, they all seem very genuine, especially the gal that even said she kind of perferred a coffee date over a fancy restaurant. Their responses were also refreshing and you could see they put a lot of thought into their answers. I would never ask a woman I’ve never met to go on a hike in the middle of nowhere nor wouldn I invite them over to my place on the first date.
As a young guy dating, I wonβt let her pay regardless but hearing the one say a dinner would be nice as a free meal annoys me. I can get down with everything else they are saying but thatβs just annoying. Especially when they donβt even offer to pay, like I will NOT let you pay but at least offer. My time is just as valuable as yours so that grinds my gears.
Yea, it’s like, they see their time/appearance as something that the guy has to pay for to get. If anything, that’s pretty degrading to women, cause they commoditize themselves. And.. this behaviour usually carries on to other stuff further in dating, basically selling themselves, whether they realize it or not.
The exposed herself and many others who like going on a dinner date because they get a free meal. Even if the date doesnβt lead to any more. At least she got a free meal.
I did it hilarious when a woman says sheβs independent and doesnβt need a man because she makes her own money but yet wants the man to pay for dinner lol. Thatβs not very feminist of her.
@Yanay_AΒ Β i dont wanna be seen as an ATMΒ im not here to Provide for you , in This Economy im happy to Provide for myself xD go ask you dad ot mom to provide … i rather date woman who can provide for themself,… listenΒ if i know she is interested in me as Person i am very happy to pay for dates i like to give i really do !Β The difference is expecting the Men to pay and asking for the men to pay !! One is a Red flag one is a HUGE green Flag !Β If i get asked if i pay for the date or Cover a certain part i feel respected and seen as a human not an ATM ! Its 2024 … dont woman want to be Strong and independent ? When it comes to dating old Rolemodels suddenly come to play again ?
This format is perfect for the topic, it gives us more than one opinion. It would be nice to see more of these if you can match schedules with your selected ladies. Solid opinions from them, I’d be nice to hear more, perhaps second-third date options, or behaviours and traits that stand out? Conversations that they would like to discuss or feel comfortable having on first dates? For example, would asking what they’re looking for in a relationship and having a talk about boundaries and such be too serious?
*The best first dates are simple and conversational β coffee or a walk sets the stage for genuine connection without unnecessary pressure.*
Such a good video! All the women you interviewed are beautiful, intelligent, honest, and grounded. Basically, the kind of person that any good man would want to date, and it was very insightful to hear their perspectives.
π₯°π€ it was a great group. Thanks for the lovely comment!
Indeed. All the ladies liked really beautiful and intelligent to me, the kind of ladies Iβd like to ask for a date too.
Summary –
Best First Dates:
Coffee date (preferably at a local coffee shop)
Guided exhibits (museums, aquariums, art galleries)
Informal meals (casual but cute restaurants)
Drinks (quiet bars or wineries, not clubs)
Worst First Dates:
Walks (especially isolated or non-public settings)
Movies (unless combined with another activity)
Their house
Family functions
Group dates/friend gatherings (especially with their friends)
Coffee dates, walks in the park, ice cream + walk, and grabbing a drink at a nice lounge/pub are king. They’re cheap, simple, and don’t put pressure on either of you. If a woman declines any of those date ideas kick her to the curb. Those ones care more about how you’ll impress her and “win” her over rather than genuinely get to know you.
Most women are very entitled these days, I’m a firm believer that you should be minimal on the first meet so you can see what type of woman she is. If she knocks a coffee or ice cream date, she wants you to spend money on her. Stay away from them, nothing you do will keep them happy.
I 100% agree with what you said here. Self value and self respect should work both ways.
Light-hearted episode π
π amusing
great work!
Happy new year! π