Hallee: @hallee_smith
Lexie: @alexxismxx
Kseniia: @iamxenax
Sophia: @sophiabfisher
Melody: @miller_melody22
Bella: @bella.perrotta
CONTACT/ FOLLOW ME:
SUBSCRIBE To My Second Channel:
Instagram: @courtneycristineryan
BUSINESS INQUIRES: courtneycristineryan@gmail.com
AMAZON STOREFRONT:
I make a small commission on items purchased with my link. Thank you for the support, I appreciate it!
Things Grown Men Should NEVER Wear (According To Women)
🕵️♂️4 Instant Attraction Killers Guys Miss (Expert Reveals)🥱
If a Woman Touches Your Arm, It Means THIS (Most Men Don’t Realise) Psychology Facts
What is stonewalling? #datingcoachformen #relationshipcoachformen #shorts
Most Men Miss THIS Difference Between Intimate Touch and Friendly Touch From a Woman…
😍5 Body Language Cues (That Scream She’s Attracted)🕺
😇What Her Flirting Style Reveals About Her😈
😘😍Let The “Sweet Spots” Make Her Feel Things😘😍
Session expired
Please log in again. The login page will open in a new tab. After logging in you can close it and return to this page.
If I’m gonna pay for the first date, then I expect them to at least say thank you.
Yeah, it would be a red flag to me if she didn’t say thank you lol
If you ask her out, you gotta pay for the first date. If she asks you out, she has to.
Haha I have been on the receiving end of this. My problem in the past is I don’t pay attention to these little things. But yes I completely agree this is a big flag for sure, something that needs to be addressed earlier than later.
@@CourtneyRyanyou’d be shocked at how often that happens
@@supernotnatural Men do the asking 90% of the time.
If “whoever asks should pay” then I should remind everyone that men unanimously (99%) ask women out, so men have the rougher end of the deal in that regard.
Exactly. I always pay but that response is a cop out given the real world statistics.
Yeah, that ‘rationale’ is such a cop-out, and they know it (but still repeat it).
Since women usually expect the man to pay on the first date, I think a casual coffee or drinks date is perfectly fine. Dinner dates as first dates add up over time in terms of cost.
Not only that, a casual date like coffee leads to a more relaxed outing. A dinner date can be a bit intense as a first date. Plus if you want to cut it short it’s less of an investment.
Coffee is okay just to meet, but if I was serious it would be a nice date and I’d pay. If you think she’s a foodie user then don’t take her out.
It’s also a good test. If she can’t accept anything less than a full dinner date, she’s not for me.
After 30 years of dating I’ve found that the best first date is casually meeting up at a bar that has live entertainment. The last couple of times I did this the women left before the show was over, and you know what – I had a great time after they left! That’s the beauty of it; I have a good time whether or not I am compatible with them. The experience was no worse than going downtown alone, meeting a single woman, and buying her a drink. The only difference is the encounter was planned ahead of time. Compare that to an awkward dinner with a stranger that quickly turns into a job interview that isn’t particularly fun and costs 5x as much.
@@garypierce7380 It depends on the circumstances, but as a rule men should not be “serious” on a first date. The only situation in which “seriousness” is appropriate is when you have known the person very well for some time. Otherwise the first date is really for finding out whether you even want to become serious about her.
If he’s attractive and does a turnoff, it’s not a dealbreaker for women. If he’s mid and does same turnoff, she will ghost him.
Bohoo man, life is unfair. Nothing as unattractive as selfpity.
If he’s rich unattractive and does everything wrong, he’s still all good
Guys, pay for (most of) the dates. It puts you into the frame of leadership.
If she wants to pay sometime later, that a great sign as she wants to treat you and is a good signal of reciprocation.
Usually, their husbands’ credit cards pay for everything when the women and I go out to dinner. That way, she and I have a healthy, non-conflict relationship.
Oh funny@@alwaysemployed656 ! 😀
@@alwaysemployed656 not “healthy” if you’re dating another mans wife.
Bull, if women cannot put in reciprocate effort or appreciation from the get go then she doesn’t actually like you or deserve your time & effort. We know this to be true.
When women actually are attracted to a man they literally have zero compunctions about approaching or putting in effort from the get go. Just watch how they bend over backwards to get the attention of a chad while they expect average guys to put in a crap ton of effort up front.
If she actually finds you attractive she won’t balk at paying her way or at least showing appreciation & gratitude for your efforts & look for ways to reciprocate everyday.
People in general don’t like it when a person talks about themselves and brags about his or her accomplishment.
The flip side is someone who doesn’t say anything about themself. A convo is two people talking, not a speech and a nodding woman.
You know, turning something off and then on again has been a well-known fix in the IT crowd for a long time now.
The button placement can be a bit tricky to find at times. It’s not in the same place between models. Bad design
How about the guy who wants to be the hero but screws it up worse? Don’t be that guy.
“Women say one thing, Do completely different thing”
Pick better women. In my experience, women have generally acted like mature adults.
💯 Things that turn them off can & will be overlooked or become a sudden turn on when chad does it. Not always but with alarming regularity this tends to be true.
0:44 Now ask, “How many times have you asked a man out on the first date (and expected to pay for him)?”
I suspect the answer is a low, low number.
That’s true, but you seem angry.
@@garypierce7380 You’re projecting. There’s no anger in that statement.
@@garypierce7380 Not angry, just wondering how they would answer if the shoe was on the other foot, so to speak.
@@jcharles8801 In and of itself there is no anger in the statement. But the fact that @pace1195 has posted a dozen comments, each starting with a time link and the words, “Now ask [etc]” suggests he may not have an entirely easygoing view toward women and dating.
From my experience the number is ZERO.
How many men in the comments section have had women use them for free meals?
Most of my dates been this
🙋🏻♂️
First mistake is you taking them out for meals .
the russian one is insufferable
I thought she was ukrainian
Yes, the majority of them are. I’m really amazed what foreigners find good in them. Guys, the Russian women are not like they used to be 20 years ago. Pretty often they’re even worse than the American women nowadays.
24:30 he’s a gay LMAOOOO
There is no chivalry without grace. When chivalry is an expectation, that’s simply entitlement.
Chivalry is dead & women killed it. Nuff said.
Modern people are unaware that the man ordering doesn’t mean choosing her meal, but conveying her choice to the server? Wow, I’m old.
Some modern female waitresses get nasty about it. 🤣
As a young lady myself thank you for that tip❤, I figured it meant something similar to what you said, I don’t really see how it’s controlling.if you’re telling your date what you would like to order and he tells the waitress I think that’s perfectly fine.
They made a distinction between choosing and ordering multiple times in the video.
Here’s my list of turn offs
1. If she doesn’t thank me for paying for her.
2 if she had an entitled attitude
3 if she isn’t willing to take accountability for her own failures
4 if she isn’t willing 50lbs heavier than her profile pictures (this has happened to me before)
5 if she shows up to the date looking not much better than a homeless person. (This has happened to me)
6. if she can’t hold a conversation (this has happened to me)
7. If she only talks about herself and doesn’t ask me any questions about myself. ( the conversation should be a two way street)
8. If she says she’s going to do something and then doesn’t do it. (Ladies, be women of your word)
#7 is very common right now. #9- Acting interested and chatting online but then ghosting or making excuses when the man wants to meet her in the real world.
I kinda gave up on this about 8 mins in. There are many guys these days who don’t care what women think much less what turns them on or off. They checked out for good reason and these petty questions belong in a women’s magazine.
I mean, the gentleman’s code is pretty straightforward:
1) Offer your coat if she’s cold.
2) Be humble.
3) Offer your arm, particularly if there’s good rapport and you’re walking around. It’s a fun, classy gesture.
4) Be cool – don’t talk about your ex. The past is what defines us, not what we need to talk about.
5) Be confidant – smile genuinely. If you do it right, it’ll show in your eyes. Confidence means also keeping good eye contact.
6) Be prepared to challenge her views. Counterpoints give people food for thought, demonstrating you’re not an automaton or simp.
7) Shower. Often.
8) Work out. Often.
9) Read. Often.
10) Tease – particularly if you’ve got some good zingers.
11) Plan, make decisions, and do the thing. You lead, not her.
and lastly:
12) Don’t tolerate bs. Walk away as appropriate. Have dignity via self-respect.
All that is great after a couple dates in but just getting the date is hard enough. Then trying to make it past the first few minutes is the next part. Women love to act interested, either in person or online, but then flake and make excuses.
That was standard masculinity back in the day but masculinity was deemed toxic by feminism remember. Chivalry & the
gentlemen mindset should be out the window at this point. If women cannot uphold their end of the equality social contract, that they & their foremothers have spent the last century fighting for then they don’t deserve our time or effort. That means adjusting to the mindset they created.
@ The last one I omitted, but should be said:
12) Don’t tolerate bs. Walk away as appropriate. Have dignity via self-respect.
They say that the person who asks for the date should pay ,but we know that women rarely ask for a first date because they have many options. Some even accept dates just for the free meals, even one gal said it in this channel in other video. In the end is a double standard that benefits women, yet they are not willing to accept it exists.
The argument that women use which is: Whoever asked somebody out, should pay , is quite funny. Because most of the women would never ask somebody out for a first date anyway which makes said argument not have any significant weight / value because they will not be in said situation therefor it is easy to say what they say. Everybody / society knows the man must ask the woman out and if they don’t, it’s “his loss”. On top of that, I have heard many stories about the extremely few women that did ask somebody out and the man was still expected to pay. Just an observation.
Louder for the folks in the nosebleeds. This needs pinned & repeated ad nauseum until they actually understand this a bs argument or until they finally realize we’re right & actually start overcoming their own biology & start holding up their end of the equality contract they & their foremothers have spent the last century fighting for. They can’t have it both ways.
Exactly. If men weren’t asking women out on dates, there would be little to no dating going on. So show some appreciation. I’m divorced and have been single off and on for over a decade. With well over 100 first dates I estimate I’ve spent over $5,000 on women I see only one time, and never again. That’s just two drinks and an appetizer. Not to mention the thousands more spent in relationships, who I’m no longer in contact with. That money should have gone to my kids. And some of these women make as much or more than me. Granted, that’s all on me, so I now date inexpensively. I think it’s time for the feelings of entitlement to change.
5:38 “worried he’s dating me for my looks”. She does realize that physical attraction is what initially attracts people right?