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Despite how much you did and gave to the narcissist, they will still play the victim. Even if you sacrificed everything for them. They will hold on to you with their arrogance and entitlement. They will run smear campaigns and try to destroy you. Because really, from the moment they targeted you, they just wanted to be you. They wanted your life. They wanted everything you have.
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So much truth here.
“the devil you know is better the devil you dont” I’ve been saying sooooo many times, and still trying to get out of this absolute sh1t hole!!!!
Same happening to me
@NarcSurvivor Perfectly stated. Thank you
This hit me so hard. I have said this to my doctor, who told me my labs were perfect and it was all in my head.
They DON’T LEAVE. YOU ALONE.
Happy New Year!
Everything you want, is on the other side of FEAR!
Narcs aren’t 😉
You were right,they dont care.
I see myself in what Dr. Ramini said. In particular, waiting for my ex-husband to get into therapy in hope that once he felt better – that he would heal – then his abuse would stop. And his saying that he was treating me the same way his parents had treated him and that the abuse would stop at that time. No. Instead the abuse got much worse.
Please work on your own plan to get out!! It doesn’t get better! As long as you stay you are letting him think you accept his abuse! I stayed in my Toxic relationship for five years. The longer I stayed the more controlling my ex became and the final straw was when he punched me my stomach. I have been out for 2 and 1/2 years now. I still watch my surroundings, but I come home to Peace!
I did get out. My divorce was final this past July. Dr. Ramani’s podcast is helping me to understand what happened – what I did. This is a form of clarity for me and allows me to look back and understand why I stayed too long. I’m growing and developing mental strength by educating myself to help know who I am and to not repeat the same mistakes going forward.
I’m feeling like I am losing ground in therapy because of that same attitude.
Now he won’t say he is going to the next. He says we don’t learn anything. He doesn’t even remember what we talk about. I reminded him, the man who can’t sleep just went to sleep. 😒
@@MegaRose1958🫂
No amount of therapy can “help” them. One could argue they don’t need/want help. They’re perfectly happy the way they are. But you know what? We have issues too. We didn’t turn into psychopaths. So it’s a choice. You weren’t born to sign up as anyone’s therapist or punching bag! ❤
Thanks, Doc. for the new proverb of “The Devils, you know NOWADAYS are as worst as those you had ALREADY known..”..Period..😂😅..
“Familiarity is a sucker bet.” That was an arrow 🏹 of needed truth. Thank you
People who stay in an abusive marriage because they fear they will not find a new partner. So what if you don’t? It’s still better by far than being in an abusive marriage. I left after 23 years. I was approaching 60. I had been out of the workforce for most of my marriage and he bullied me in to waiving my rights to half his pension. I still left. And I do NOT regret it. I never remarried and I am not looking for a new partner. I have freedom. I have a job. I am in a better place now than I ever was with him.
Inspiring story. ❤
I feel very lucky that I just escaped the latest of an embarrassingly long string of narcissists. I am grateful to you Dr Ramani for helping me learn about and identify a vulnerable narcissist.
Now I need to find out what it is in me that attracts or gets attracted to narcissists. Fortunately I already spotted a few DoctorRamani video titles that are right down this alley. Time to do my homework. Thank you, Dr Ramani, ma’am.
Good intentions without boundaries
This one gets saved in my library. I need to replay it when I start slipping…again. Thanks and I wish you a pleasant New Year full of health, prosperity, and love.
Living with a narcissist is being Alone , quote Robin Williams , I always thought living alone is the worst thing that could happen to you , it’s not , living with people that make you feel alone is
@@danarchambault8723 yes, so true! 🙏🏼 Sending love and light your way ✨❤️✨
I can hear his voice saying that. Thank you for the memory of Robin Williams, he brought laughter to so many.
@@well_weathered yeah, he was my favorite ❤️ but little did we know of his pain 😞
@Dr.DorisTorres Yes, a lot of people don’t say what they are going through. 🫂
@ yes, I can definitely relate. I’ve done the same for too many years. Finally had the courage to walk away. 🙏🏼✨💫
I have also been told and read..you can’t run away from people , you shouldn’t avoid them, you need to face them..yes to a point but after a point I have no problem now with no contact or avoiding very toxic manipulative people.
Avoid Ignore Escape
I have no expectations anymore from that person anymore just blame shame, guilt cussing, not talking to you being mad angry. All is your fault. You need to apologize and then maybe they’ll be fine again with you. Just tell you what your problems are and what you need to do to fix them since you’re the one who is so screwed up. And that you’re causing all the problems in your attitude is not right and you’re ruining their mood and the list goes on because they’re never ever happy. They always want more just like the devil.
They do, and there’s only one way out…
Fear is the main culprit. My brain is tired 😪
Fears is subsided now for resolution. Do not see it anytime soon. This person thinks I’m going to crawl back for more of the same poison hell NO!!😅
It gets better. It’s like jumping in cold water (or from a plane!). You’re never ready for it… Waiting doesn’t help getting ready. Take it from someone who lost three decades to a parasite: the sooner the better.
It’s insecurity 😉 solve that & you’re like Teflon
This is suddenly making me smile. Thank you, Dr Ramani, I will always love you.
Blood is thicker than water was a proverb I had completely wrong for 6 decades. Further research led me to the truth, the original saying “blood of the covenant, is thicker than the water of the womb”. The exact opposite of what I believed! The blood is the connection of friends , the water, the family, so the chosen family is far stronger bond than that of the family. This leads me to one of my favourite sayings, “so old so soon so wise so late”. Stay strong my lovely narc survivors.
Great explanation 2:44
He love bombed, I loved it. He was sooo fun, attentive until…he wasn’t. The switch, a no show date, a voice change, drama, mask fell. Classic.
Lucky 🍀
A piece of advice as we start 2025: Recovering from narcissistic abuse is a very long, grueling process. The sooner you leave, the sooner you recover. “This” doesn’t have to be your life forever. There’s another one waiting for you beyond fears and doubts. Go after it! Do not let the Narc define who you will be for the rest of your life. Take things in your hands and make a better tomorrow for yourself. Find your voice back. Find your light. It’s there, waiting for you just of out the darkness. Peace, strength and love to all. ❤️
Calm peaceful confidence is on the other side of no contact
3 New Years Eves ago my dog had just escaped with our lives. We watched the fireworks from pier over the ocean. The 2 following new years eves I did everything to make it exciting. This time I fell asleep early. Best New Years Eve in a long time.