This Is Why So Many People Are Chronically Single
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Being single by choice to cultivate the completion of personal development goals has been quite nice in the last year.
Self improvement is Masturbation 😊
You’re not single by choice. The truth is, no one’s showing any interest, so you choose to act like it’s your choice and not theirs. You never see handsome men being “single by choice”.
@fluzzerr The truth is I show no interest. Maybe learn to understand what was said before opting for an idiotic opinion.
@@SuperBadwilly Of course bro 😂
I agree what a stupid thing to say. I know plenty of good looking guys single by choice so they can focus on growing/goals
Living overseas like a king has opened my eyes to these wetern women. No, thank you, Ryan
Where did you move from & to?
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm Montenegro. Says it in his name. lol
Ya…eastern European woman are probably easier to date.
@@VL1975 How do we know that’s not his surname?
@@VL1975 you know that mean Black mountain?
Woman: “He sipped his drink not the right way, it’s over!”
Woman: Oh my God he has an android! ICKKKK
You’re good friends, dont worry about it, shes a walking ickk. Her true form will come out in her 30’s. Lets grab some beers and talk to more classy ladies
He didn’t use organic lemon in his iced tea! RED FLAG!
@@LeeEverett1 literally been told that multiple times
Summation – video from the perspective of a conventionally attractive woman who finds the hottest man she can find and can’t get him to date her.
Us men have checked out. We like our peace!
Are you sure? Why are you watching /this/ video?
@@CallMeVexed because some of us don’t thrive in the incel bubble and are interested by other people’s take on dating culture.
@@SuperBadwilly as long as you know your answer, man. Being lied to sucks, double so when you do it to yourself.
@@CallMeVexedim with OP on the peace. I’m here because of her husband Teddy, and originally Courtney did fragrance blind reviews. Teddy knows his watches.
@@CallMeVexedopposition research
A game changer for me has been minimal texting in the early stages of dating. Only communicating through phone calls or in person allows for so much more clarity throughout the process. Definitely would recommend
Good luck with that. If she’s not texting you she’s texting plenty of other guys
Most of this just stems from the reality there is a massive market mismatch in which average women are only interested in very above average men. So it’s a lot of wheel spinning and most guys would be better to focus on other aspects of life. Running around hoping to catch a woman that is throwing in the towel on finding someone she actually wants is just asking to end up in a situation in which you’re being financially exploited.
Facts. You’ve literally got single moms out there who are slightly overweight thinking they deserve a top tier 6’2 fit dude who makes good money
I completely disagree with abundance thing. That is something that affects women almost exclusively, almost no man is being swarmed with dates, online or otherwise. Most guys are so desperate that they will take pretty much whatever they can get.
You got to famous,very popular or really good looking as a man to get women online to message you first
I think a lot of guys would but then a lot of guys are indeed waking up as well.
Indeed. Unless you are in the top 1% of men in terms of appearance and personality. Sad when you reflect on that imo
I agree with you. For a men getting a date is really hard. Even one date.
Most men are just invisible. And that is just how it is.
@@MasticinaAkicta That’s why we just work on ourselves first. Imo.
Just another modern woman complaining about being pumped and dumped by Chad, nothing new to see here really
Completely agree
Indeed. I have noticed they complain about the problems that they themselves create….
Nailed it. Who cares about these modern women? Men who are just coming into the real world and keep getting destroyed by these modern women are dedicating their most fertile and youthful years to building their wealth and learning the value of having their mental peace and tranquility. Message to these young men: Stand your ground and develop lifelong friendships. I am 48 and divorced; I rebuilt my wealth in 5 years after the divorce to retire with a diamond nest egg within the next 5 years. My younger brothers do not give in to the manipulations of these women. If they don’t treat you like a king, then just pump and dump.
yeah her annoying attempt to pretend this is a flawed market because of equal contributions from both sexes gives her a blind spot to the truth.
They usually ghost you after a couple of days
Let me paint you a picture: this woman is absolutely beautiful and she knows that. Therefore, she does have tons of guys chasing after her. Why does this happen to her anyway? Because she ALWAYS goes for the guys who also have tons of options and therefore don’t want to settle for her. To go out then and complain that there are “no more committing men” out there is laughable.
You definitely hit the nail on the head. It’s not just women that are attractive like her doing it, even average women are chasing the top 20% of men now also.
90 -120 days before the vanity effect fades away. Then her true self will reveal and men will run for the hills with full gear on to disappear.
As someone who enthusiastically plans dates, my experience has been the inverse: Women don’t follow through.
I give dates, times, places, accommodate schedules, try to pick fun places/events, sometimes I even spend money beforehand (like for a ‘make dinner’ date), *THEY SAY OKAY*…and I just get stood up and ghosted. It’s happened so many times over the last couple years that it’s quite demoralizing.
What’s worse is that the women who show the most interest in me are already in a relationship or just want something casual. A lot of these women are not serious and I don’t take any of their “men don’t plan dates anymore” talk seriously either.
That’s usually because she made date plans with 5 people and at the last minute chose her best option. When women flake its becase someone offered them a better option ( in her eyes).
Curious how are you meeting these women?
Yeah, save all that planning for later. Like Courtney says, go on a simple coffee date or something that doesn’t require a lot of expense or commitment. Save that fancy stuff for a girl you know is serious. If she doesn’t agree to something safe and easy, you know she’s not worth your time.
These days women just want to go on dates for fun and slept with Chad, they have no intention of being in a serious relationship until they can no longer slept with Chad. If they sleep with a regular guy is just to string them along or get something expensive from them. My cousin has been dating a single mom for 5 months and she hasn’t slept with him yet nor let him know that she’s been married before with a kid. The family knows, but don’t want to tell him, because he’s stubborn and doesn’t want the family to get involved. She’s trying to marry him to stay in the US.
@@SamuelJ888 Mostly dating apps and some IRL.
Men are chronically single, not women. Women can get a relationship literally ANY time she chooses, it’s entirely up to her when she decides to be single or not. Too many women today have outpriced themselves out of the dating scene since they all want that perfect top tier man and will disqualify you for the slightest thing due to entitlement. Men aren’t the ones doing this.
That clip at the beginning perfectly describes what men go through where we’re the ones trying to initiate a second date to see her again, and she’s just playing games due to all the other guys she can pick from.
There are many women who can’t buy a date. Most of the rest are not dating who they want. It’s delusion mixed with ego = constant dissatisfaction. Both men and women want to date ‘up’ instead of ‘over’. Where the problem lies.
Facts
“Men are chronically single, not women.” If the worlds pop is 50/50 male/female, assuming you are talking about hetero, how is that possible?
Women do not even know what singlehood really is. When a woman says she’s single what she means is she’s still looking for her man. The guys who she’s sleeping around and the guys on her friendzone who are waiting for their turn do not count for her.
Not quite accurate; women control sex, and men control relationships. Think about it and let it sink.
Just had something happen to me where I was completely upfront with a woman about what my intentions were. The whole reason I asked for her number was to plan a date, I told her this.
She did so willingly with what I thought was enthusiasm…..But then she flaked on me super quickly. Had a date and time at a casual coffee shop I know and everything. I feel like she maybe got intimated because I was so honest with what I was wanting. She should have told me she wasn’t interested in me. Instead of acting like she liked me back, to somehow get me to leave her alone?
These games are getting old.
You saved a lot of time.
Give a woman multiple social media & dating app outlets and there’s a 1% chance she stays loyal.. This is reality unfortunately
In 1998, Apple was on the brink of going bankrupt; their stock was at $3-$4. Bill Gates invested $150 million in Apple to bail them out. Three years later, Apple released the iPod that was specifically designed and marketed to women. That led to the beginning of the era of the electronic revolution. Apple built on that success and released the iPhone in 2007, which led to the social media revolution. Which gender is the biggest user of social media? No prize for guessing. 25 years from the release of the first iPhone, you will see the majority of women will be single, bitter, alcoholic cat ladies bar hopping to scratch that itch. If you don’t want to believe me, just do the data analysis of what women are purchasing online and getting delivered as gift-wrapped items. Hint: Who is the biggest online retailer? Hint #2 –> Nowadays it comes with Li batteries. Data science and analytics are awesome. 🤫🤫🤐🤐
At this point in life, I’m not looking for anything new to “enrich” my life. I just don’t want to deal with hassles anymore, and dating is a big hassle – and for a reward that’s overrated.
I do want a relationship with someone but I’ve reached a point where if she doesn’t reciprocate then I just move on in a split second. Don’t waste your time with someone you have to keep second guessing on.
If I get the “I’ll let you know” I’m like, “aight I’m out.” I was working 50-60 hrs. a week and doing school full time and could still make time and for women to give that vague excuse, I’ll dip out. No need to waste each others time.
Modern womens standards these days are absurd, just for context, im an attractive guy and fit. Im over 6ft tall, good career etc and I have had some average looking women call me ugly, talk down to me hahaha, also I have had some cougars chasing me. From observations, most modern women are really swinging for the fences.