This Is Why So Many Women & Men Are Chronically Single
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It’s crazy how there are women who just don’t get these things. So thank God for the women who do.
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If they don’t get it by now, just let em be and leave em alone
@@tommygunn6901 True. Make first date questions as detailed as possible. Don’t waste more time than needed (unless you want her only as a bed buddy).
I am dating a very wealthy friend. It’s not about either one of us having more wealth than the other. We both have very strong Christian values. It’s all about what we see in each other. It has been absolutely wonderful.
@@tommygunn6901 Yeah, some of them, you just have to let their delusions and arrogance be their undoing. Some will even learn without it coming to that.
Ive been binging on your videos earlier today and you truely are a blessing….I really like your unbiased view on things
Keep it up court🙌
Aww thank you so much. I’m glad you’re here 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan no worries💯
That’s why I think women that say “I want him at my level” are a joke. Just because we aren’t making half a million, doesn’t mean we suck. And they need to quit saying we’re intimidated by success. That’s been debunked for a long time!
Just like men dating women just for looks and just being an ATM are a joke as well. Have some freaking self respect! Just have integrity and do what you say you’re gonna do!
*400k girl has entered the chat*
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If you want to look at a man based on his wealth, don’t be mad when you’re looked at as a sex and beauty object. Unless you’re both very traditional and bring traditional behaviors, sure.
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Exactly. Also, men should be very aware when gold diggers fake their bedroom pleasure. Heck, even if they enjoy it, they’ll fake love.
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It’s true because outside of men who have never spoken to women outside of their immediate family, there is no intimidation. We are either discussed it, annoyed or not impressed.
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Simping. Straight up simping. The moment you give away your power for approval, you show emasculinity.
Then the woman won’t respect you and either leave because they are not happy or just cheat. Traditional roles evolved for a reason, ignore them at your peril.
Even if men aren’t simps many women will eventually bail. Our disposable, social media, upgrade to the newest version of what they think is better is real.
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Hey Courtney! Men are generally inclined to share and provide—it’s ingrained in our nature to support the family. On the other hand, modern women often prefer to keep what they earn and are less likely to share. If a woman adopts a fully independent mindset, that will likely define her approach to life. There’s nothing wrong with that if she’s content with being on her own.
P.S. A secure man isn’t intimidated by anyone, including a successful woman. What truly matters is how she carries herself and treats others. You’re successful, and people admire the way you present yourself. Ultimately, it’s about finding and embracing your true self
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How much money a woman makes doesn’t matter to a man who doesn’t value it all that much. The same goes for men as well. Money is just a way to help sustain your life, not a way to define who you are or your worth in this world.
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True, but I prefer a woman have a career. If not, she’s a liability.
Exactly! But yet, ALL social media glorifies and specifies that money and status are ALL that matters and women consume social media nonstop. This has become the sad truth. It’s sickening.
Exactly. I wouldn’t care if a woman made more money, is taller than me, or weighs more than me (I’m 220 pounds). What matters the most is loving me for who I am, being faithful, and having respect there.
She said it……….you emasculate a man when you make him feel “ less than” he was before you met him. You are supposed to build up a person you are with, not knock them down
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What emasculates a man? I lost track how many times my ex-wife told me “you don’t make enough money for a man in this town (for the record I was working in the biggest factory in town at one of the highest paying jobs and pulling down overtime). But then she also told me so many times that I was “worthless” “useless” or I wasn’t” any kind of man” when I didn’t have the skills to do anything/everything she wanted. That’s what emasculates a man.😶
I am so sorry you had that experience. Thanks for sharing ❤️
At times I wonder why slapping rude people fell out of usage.
I am sad to say that because of these stories online and experiences in the real world some men are leaving USA for other countries with more traditional women. I plan to do this after I retire.
my ex fiancee when breaking up with me made it a point that my deadend job (BUT FLEXIBLE that allowed me to actually spend a lot of time with her and travel) is one of the reasons she lost attraction to me because I have no “ambition”. Girl I have this job because of you.
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Women get away with murder nowadays, zero accountability and reprimand.
On the ultra wealthy end of the spectrum, the majority of women billionaires inherited their wealth or gained it in divorce and they struggle to find a mate afterwards, as billionaire men go for the young girls, because they don’t care about your money. In the lower income tiers, self-made women are going to adopt male characteristics to succeed in business, including being disagreeable and not deferring to men being leaders in a relationship, everything becomes a negotiation. I meet a lot of these self-made woman and they are frankly insufferable and will not bring peace to a relationship, offer support or willingly adopt a traditional role. This is why 40% of women either are single or will be. You want to put career ahead of marriage, family and children, then enjoy your “equality” with it’s reward of cats, box wine and dying alone. Guys are choosing to stay single or go abroad to find wives and that trend is going to continue. Not being mean or bitter, just being honest.
You look identical to I guy I used to know called Joe.
Another reason might be that they have no interest in being an unpaid domestic servant.
Strong successful men usually believe in themselves and their abilities. Strong successful w-m-n want a strong successful man, but the w-m-n want to control everything in the relationship. Sorry, but successful men don’t need a mother they want a fun ,fit, and feminine w-m-n that compliments his life.
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I’m 46. I’ve played the trumpet since I was 7. Just bought a guitar and a bass, amps/pedals, signed up for lessons.
I can’t remember the last time a woman told me she started learning a new skill that isn’t yoga. Boring
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Two things for the guys.
Coffee dates. They’re an amazingly good filter for which women will waste your time and your money. A woman that won’t go on one just wasn’t in to you.
Money should only be a discussion deeper than casual conversation once the relationship is moving toward “The Serious” any woman that rushes to talk about it should be regarded the *EXACT SAME WAY* she would regard you if you were rushing her into bed — the same standards apply.
I also like going for walks when first getting to know someone. My man is an ecologist and for our first date, he invited me on a nature walk at a beautiful state park near us. He shared interesting eco facts. The exercise felt good and highlighted how active he is. It cost $0 but was my favorite 1st date. We barely spend money on shared activities without noticing
@@MonessaLeigh Wife and my first date was a blind date — just going out for ice cream.
How did she win me over as wife material???
Glad you asked. She treated me like she wanted to be there. She made it a point to actively have fun on the date rather than waiting for me to impress her.
This is literally all that Men want. Really!
WHAT A REFRESHING EXPERIENCE!!!!!
35 years later, I still think this and it is among my fondest memories
Oh yeah Ive been asked my credit score really fast before by a women. I ended it right there and said thats it sorry. My credit score is far from low but now a 1st conversation subject.
Mu wife and it’s first date was over lemonade that I made 🤣
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Honestly I am grateful that on youtube, we got someone who does unbiased analytics on relationship/dating issues, like you do.
Lets not forget she married a millionaire.
As a hard working blue collar man, I get sickened when women always judge a guy based on income.
👍🏻same here, I’m a plumber and that seems to be a turn off for most. Would there point of view change if I say I have a job that pays me over 100k
I agree
Women always judge a guy? Is that all women? Do all men judge women based on their physical appearance? Wisdom is understanding that women nor men are a monolith. That there are malicious men and women out there. But there is also a lot of good people…good-hearted men and women too. Why do we let the bad apples spoil the bunch? Why do we not learn from our mistakes and ignore or fail to identify the red flags that some people present that screams “this person is toxic and will manipulate, exploit, and hurt you”? Nah, let’s just blame all women! Put them all in the same basket! Take no accountability from our end. Let’s just blame all men! Let’s continue to be enslaved by our pain, our trauma, and our ego! Let’s continue this cycle of hate!
I think it’s sickening with these lazy white collar workers that judge blue collar workers as lazy/ stupid based on income.
@@alanyuan8565 True, but what they don’t know is that life isn’t fair. People have different results, regardless of how much or little effort is put in.
I’m an old guy. My parents were born just after the first world war. What seems to be missing in today’s conversation in relation to money is the two aspects of it. The offensive part (the getting the money), and the defensive part of it (the stretching the money). Making money doesn’t give you anything if you can’t use it properly. This can be with investing, not buying stuff when it can be made at home or repaired. If you see the couple as a team, things are fine. If you fix your expectations of who does what, there will be problems on the horizon.
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The pitfall that so many women fall into is they assume men want the same things in a partner as women and in order to show off those things (money, status, security), they neglect the things that men actually look for (personality, affection, support, etc)
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Thank you Courtney. My wife has a PhD in Engineering from Harvard, and it was a tough road for me accepting her higher earning potential. She has been nothing but gracious about it, and there were a few years in our 35 year marriage where I earned more.
I met up with a professional cuddler that was 22, recent college grad. Paid her $50 to hold her hand at a park for 2 hours, lol, was worth it. But, we had a 2 hour conversation and anything we disagreed on, she acted like i was kinda stupid and ignorant, because shes a college grad. When I have 10+ years extra life experience, and am naturally intelligent, some of it was just silly, like “ok, kid”. She was great, not knocking her too much. But yeah, it ain’t the money that irritates us, it’s the acting like we’re less than part. Disregarding our intellect.
Any guy that isn’t naive or has any experience with women knows that if she makes significantly more money than him, the countdown to the end of the relationship has begun. It doesn’t matter whether or not she’s openly emasculating him or not. In over 4 decades I’ve never seen a relationship survive a woman making a lot or money or if she has a big glowup like losing a lot of weight. People need to start being honest about the nature of relationships between men and women.