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Question; What do men normally mean on dating apps when they say casual and why do lot of them say long term but only want a hookup
Because that gets them laid
I have money so not looking for a mans money and dont mind paying my way on a date
Sorry maby you answered my question while i was trying to figure out if i was on right video
I believe a person needs to know what they want and be ready for relationship before they look for relationship.
I don’t need him to support me money wise. I have My own. Could Care less if he owns his House. I want us to do It together.
I got laid off along with 2,500 others at my company worldwide at the end of 2008, & I never worked again. I looked for a job for several years & finally decided that I was “retired”. I was only 48!
Yes its sinking in. Thank you!
I’m glad!
Watching the replay , I found this episode very interesting. Thank you
I’m glad you found it helpful.
I think you’re going through a seasonal change. It will be okay. Stay you
Will do
In this day and age men should not feel that they have to “take off women”. A relationship is a partnership. We take care of each other.
Exactly
Money, Pink Floyd, 1973
…Money
It’s a crime
Share it fairly, but don’t take a slice of my pie
Money
So they say
Is the root of all evil today
But if you ask for a rise
It’s no surprise that they’re giving none away
Away, away, away
Away, away, away….🥂💵🎶
Jonathon: Can talk about the fragility of the male ego & how it’s to be optimally negotiated?😁
When I was growing up, living together was not respectable. IDK how it’s perceived nowadays–still “shacking up” I presume. Anyway, growing up, I remember my grandma saying that the majority of folks living together were seniors bc they lost money if they married. I think she mean social security. Wonder if it still holds true …
If a man wants to start as ‘friends’, splitting all costs, no romance—that’s fine if the other person agrees, but NO sex during this friend building phase.
Of course…
I hope the Sound Bath was fantastic, Jonathon! May you receive deep transformational attunement 🙏🥰.
It was great. 🙏
I found you this morning and I’m a fan. It’s refreshing to hear a logical clear explanation on this topic. I am 48 years old, I am a woman. I work in an industrial electricity engineering, which is very a predominately male field. I make good money. I have raised my kids. I am perfectly happy being alone, in fact I have been alone for over 6 years. I was thinking about exploring the dating field- (mine field) 😂
Can you please do an episode on red flags to look out for? My friends have said in the past I pick the worst men. I think my job, busy work schedule and need for independence might intimidate some men. Also I think I’ve bought several ‘family queen truckster’ thinking they were decent. I am attractive, I get asked out often, but my knee jerk reaction is to say no. And lie that I’m in a relationship. I agree with what you said about not wanting to be someone’s nurse or purse. Women get taken advantage of in that way too- and that scares me.
Also if you know of a good place to meet intelligent , decent men, please advise. I do not belong to any church, I do not go out to bars, in fact I detest meat markets like that. I work with men. Lots of them. I have a strict no dating co-workers policy, so that’s not a viable option.
You seem like you might have some on-site on what when where and a reality check on what I may be seeing out there in the dating field today. Thank you, Cori.
It sounds like you’ve got a lot of great things going for you. I’m working on a video about red flags to look out for, so stay tuned!
I would suggest a round of therapy to figure out why you’re saying no and making a false excuse as to why you can’t go out with a man. It could also help you learn to trust yourself.
Apologies as you have an interesting channel, however you’re mistaken bro.
Attraction is not a choice – be a lover then maybe a provider- once friend zoned it is not possible to be the lover – chemical reaction
Gold moment advice you gave about being sincere from the heart can not be wrong- A+men
Thanks for watching and for the feedback!
COMMENT AND QUESTION – JA Absolutely agree it is better to develop a strong friendship connection first. So during this process would this mean there is no commitment of intimacy, so we can meet others and not commit to one person as we are considered “friends”.
💯! No sex or kissing or anything other than a friendly peck on the cheek and sweet hug.
Amen 🤗glad you go for gongbath
You remind me of one nearby comming up
Will try never done😊
Resonating so much with this episode. LOVE THE Friend zone!
For me, it comes down to his values. ??? Does he recognize his role of provider /protector ,even if he is struggling. Would he provide even a very basic life if that is all he can afford?
It’s the desire more than the ability…
If a man were able to express the sincere desire to protect and provide for me there would be nothing I would not do to help him…
The problem is there are so many men with the 50/50 attitude who clearly could provide but don’t. It’s an attitude.
We all go through struggles and need to understand and support each other. I believe these experiences refine and grow us. This would not scare me away. If he were able to communicate this,it would demonstrate maturity for me. Honesty, fosters trust and intimacy…
Ultimately, we want a life partner who loves and supports us.