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They fantasize that we are thinking about them. I’m not. 😊
Sam Vatkin says this too
😢 There is such a thing as sexual abuse from a narcissist.
They’re autoerotic
They are very abusive! The narcissist men I’ve been with.
My ex was a narcissist and he SAd me. It was horrible but he was determined to get what he wanted.
It’s Patrick Bateman looking at himself in the mirror flexing his muscle.
my first thought
These observations of consciousness structures are key. I feel I’ve come a long way towards healing from narcissist trauma (I hope). But the structures have to do with human perceptions beyond narcissism. Our perception and reaction is our human experience.
Dr. Ramani, your comment about the Survey Monkey after sex made me laugh out loud. I almost choked on my veggie dog. 🤣
Sex but just not with their spouse. Well, this is my situation 🙄
I can see the dynamics. Narcissist girlfriends come on very strong in many ways during the love bombing. The sex seems very strange. Like you don’t really reach them. Like you’ve been alone. Like they weren’t really there even if you drive them to extreme orgasms etc. But real intimacy isn’t there except for the physical. It’s a strange and troubling feeling.
Dr Ramani I used to feel so lost in love. I kept making the same mistakes, falling for the wrong people and getting frustrated. Then I read Red Vibration by Keezano and everything clicked. I started moving differently, setting boundaries and truly understanding attraction. Not long after, I met my husband. It’s crazy how much this book changed my mindset and my life
thank you so much🙏
I honestly clicked on this, hoping for the non- sexual fantasy explanation. I was wondering why it was only two minutes long…pun intended. 😅
They don’t care about what you are and are not comfortable with. They will coerce you and make you feel like if you’re not doing what they want you to do, then you don’t accept who they are and they’ll use that as an excuse to cheat so when you catch them they’ll say “I just wanted to feel accepted by someone..”
Yes, one male narcissistic partner of mine was actually ar0used by his ability to get me pregnant, though he was middle aged. I flatly refused from day one to let him impregnate me. I did not even want to joke about such an occurrence, and he claimed that by protesting, I was stifling his ability to get enjoyment out if the relationship. So it was all about him. Like with all else.
Narcissist accuses you that you are flirting but visa versa and blame you and he plays the victim. They like to flirt with other woman and do not think that is wrong😡😡😡😡 and if you do not take part then you are the one flirting
This is great. It makes sense. I can see the sex situation after 50 yrs of marriage. Since my husband is at the age of ED, there hasn’t been anything between us anymore. Not a kiss or hug. Only very rarely. Mostly in front of others. I put a stop to that though recently. To me it’s only about the show.
Oh Wow! Mind blowing! Cheating from day one!
Boy you said IT!
There is a line in a Tori Amos song off of her first album Little Earthquakes that always stuck with me. “So you made me come. That doesn’t make you Jesus!” Ouch! 😂 I would’ve hated to be the guy on the receiving end of that line! Although he probably deserved it if she felt the need to say it. 😂
Good discussion
I think of the other person. ❤
Dr. Ramani, I just finished reading your book, It’s Not You. Soooo good! I’ve never felt so seen and heard. I’m recommending it to all my friends who are suffering with narcissistic relationships. 😊🙌