What Does Great Sex Mean To An Avoidant Man?
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Awesome show Johnathan! Great show! Great Guest! Fantastic topic!!
Thanks, buddy, happy to hear…
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The hallmark of a healthy relationship is the lack of anxiety and a feeling of being safe. Learned it the hard way, and trust me you’ll love feeling safe and grounded. You’re attracting a different type of woman now that you have done so much inner work. You’re on your way! ❤
Exactly
Love this woman ! Amazing , wise !!
Can she stop grinning challenge.
Wow, thank you!
I had a friend who had a relationship with a FWB and after a few years man ended up faking in love with her. So anything and everything is possible. Nothing is written on stone. And nothing can ever be the exact way as the other. Why? Bcz this is not a perfect world, therefore, not all things will be the same.
@@HermelindaJennyI’m curious as to how you realized he was faking being in love??? Very interesting.
Guessing thats a typo might be “falling?”
Idk, I think reading the Bible is the best book to have and know in healing and peace about life. Just keep God in my life and He will guide me in finding my way and direction in all life aspect.
May be true for you but not others. I rely on dialectic materialism to explain our perceptions of and responses to the world.
God also creates humans who are writing books not covered in the Bible, which is one thought of mine.
@@MegInASheathDressactually THE ONE TRUE GOD, JESUS CHRIST of NAZARETH is the DIALECTIC and is NOT materialistic but holds and reveals the wisdom of WHO you are if you renew your mind in his word
Johnathon I love what you journaled about the driving force . That’s what I felt as an anxious attachment when I met my hubby. Also described as easy calm kind and warm also recovering anxious attachment.. it’s WHAT YOU NEED IN LIFE -the foreign to help you heal. This relationship has allowed me to heal as well. And to be MYSELF!!
I don’t like titling people, but it’s good to know that there are different types to work with and stay away from. Thank you
You’re welcome 😊
Great show! I’m with an avoidant man. He has trouble kissing me but will have sex. It’s more transactional less vulnerable.
Yikes. Is that what you want? Does he have sex with sex workers? The no kissing reminds me of men I’ve known who pay for sex – no kissing.
Thanks
Dump him
Wow! I like the test😊 secure attachment 60%, 30% dismissive avoidant, 10% fearful avoidant. The descriptions are spot on.
Glad you liked it!
Good luck with new person! Jonathan !!! 🤞🙏🏼🕯️
I met someone who too last October who made me feel secure and calm and peaceful. Totally different to what I’m used to so I totally understand it.
Thank you for sharing your journal sharing and your honesty!
Thank you 😊
I loved your guest, Bev. Interesting topic. I’m sooo glad she told you to ‘hold on’ when you were interrupting her and she finished her thoughts which I found fascinating!!! Gee, I feel like I’m dismissive, avoidant and anxious…..no fearful though, lol.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I gave up on dating. Impossible to find somebody real, honest, vulnerable and really interesting in a relationship. It is all about sex and their fantasies.
Yes!
In some cases, yes.
It’s definitely not easy.. yet probably not a good idea to be a complete cynic over it
Fascinating information today!
Glad you think so!
Great content Jonathon and Bev!
Thanks
I find this fascinating! I’m a previous co-dependant ( or that’s what I like to call myself 😂). I understand the nature of being anxious and the consequences to sex, however, I found myself having a type of sex that avoids intimacy as that’s what “ scares” me.
Her eyebrows are very expressive in this video I was noticing the whole time.
Interesting 👀
Jonathan, thanks for the badge 💕🦋🙏
❤️
I took Bev’s test. 33%FA, 33% DA, and bom bom bom bom (as JA does), 33% Secure. Been doing the work. Glad to see the Secure is in there.😄
Great video – more please
More to come!
Dear one…i would have LOVED to HEAR Bev talk without interruption. This conversation from my perspective felt like it hit home for Jonathan. Therefore, the closed arms across heart & many interruptions. And…I do understand that this is a new conversation to this forum…however…it felt chaotic.
Much grace & ease moving forward. I appreciate that you desire to bring this conversation forward.
With indepth convos like this…perhaps as a coach…keeping your own need to understand your current relationship at bay could serve us best. And then… have a private 1:1 with Bev to understand more of your anxious attachment with a secure woman.
(And…did you gain her permission to share this intimate relationship publicly…curious;)
It wasn’t as “pleasurable” to watch.
Speaking as a secure woman…
I’m praying your new relationship will thrive and that deep healing takes place for you both. I’m certain this is part of a greater picture were it enhances your gifts as a Coach. And…maybe ask the audience if we wanna hear about your private relationships?
Anika Ray question was the most grounding part of the video.