What is THE LIGHT at the end of the narcissistic relationship?
Is there a light at the end of the tunnel in a narcissistic relationship? For so many, that light is the hope that things will change — that the relationship will get better, that the narcissistic person will suddenly become self-aware, or that life will feel normal again. But what if that light isn’t about them at all? In this video, we’ll explore what the light at the end of the tunnel really looks like, why it might not be what you’re hoping for, and how the light you find may come from shifts you make within yourself.
Thank you dr ramani saving many people from going insane .
The light is realising that it wasn’t you all alone. They manipulated and gaslit you into doubting yourself. You are more than enough.
In a narcissistic relationship, walking through the darkness is all that there is. The light is outside of the tunnel. And there is light elsewhere, but not with these people.
sadly the only light at the end of the tunnel is when they are gone for good.
I honestly think you saved my life. My partner was arrested a week ago for coercive control and financial domestic abuse and I am one week free of him. He again was arrested today for harassment for messaging me and breaking his bail conditions. The house was searched and 11 guns and other weapons removed and I think I am so lucky to get out alive. I’m now in a secret location far away from everyone I know but also more importantly away from him. It took me 8 years to realize what he was doing and a year to leave him. I did leave 6 months ago but I didn’t have support in place or have the support of the Police so I ended up not being able to cope as I am disabled and I went back. It’s so strange being alone and being able to think for myself but I’m taking it one day at a time. So good to be free!
So happy you are safe. You will get through this and be better for it ❤
Glad you are safe ! Well done escaping ! ❤take care of yourself ❤
This was me, but I have no support of the police or the family courts. How did you achieve this? Pm me, please 🙏
Good for you!!!!!
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Family Courts don’t often believe you.. been there.. been through so much.. stick it out.. keep your wits about you. It’s not easy.. not at all.. do many friends were worried sick about me, as I went undercover..
Hugzzz
Took me 5 years to get my life together after a narc relationship. Good things in life take a long time
Realizing this in a 38 year marriage. 57 with MS arthritis and herniated disk from lifting and manual labor managing his responsibilities. Just too late. Won’t even let me get sleep when absolutely needed. This is awful. I pray that younger people listen and understand to do what’s right for themselves. This information is so on point and powerful for the smart people. I’ve continued to not be smart. I love our children and grandchildren and yes the dream. I’ve been shown he gets worse weekly. The bs, even though I get it. I’m too tired and in pain and it’s just too late for me. Please people. Save yourself. Don’t live for hope of comfort they aren’t able to give unless it’s for them first and under their control and demands😘🙏
Best wishes.
Never too late, I am 64.
@@teresacastanedacastaneda6555, it is NEVER TOO LATE! Set yourself free from the bondage you are in! Will it be easy? NO! If you want to get there, to a place of peace, you will have to surrender yourself to God! You will probably lose all of your material possessions, but in the end, it is WORTH IT!
The light is when the narcissistic relationship ends and you become who you are again.
Hopelessness is by far the worst emotion.
The light 💡 is when you realise what they are and in your mind you set yourself free. At that moment, even before you’ve left them, their manipulation techniques stop working, you no longer believe what they say, you know if they’re saying bad things about what you do, that it’s a solid indicator you’re doing the right thing. Then threats to leave you no longer work because that feels like a win win too.
You are the light at the end of the tunnel. We have figured out what narcisism is. It’s a life changer!
I couldn’t help laughing when I read this title. After 4 years no contact I know that for me, the light at the end came after going no contact with every toxic person in my life. No contact equals freedom. This was at times a messy, painful, lonely, stressful and mourning-process freedom… But it DOES get better every year. Ever increasing clarity and peace of mind. Enjoying new, safe relationships. Enjoying ME I like and appreciate life and myself so much now. The dark cloud that surrounded me has lifted. After 55 years. Keep going and growing. It’s worth the challenges. I don’t miss my family, 3 former best friends and lovers🎉🎉🎉
For months, maybe years, I have been praying for one thing – the truth. Dr. Ramani has provided that truth albeit at times it has been very difficult to hear. The truth is and has always been my light at the end of the tunnel. The truth will set you free. I think for many decades I did not know that was the case. As always, thank you so much.
The light comes back when you see the lies, manipulation, gaslighting, etc and Finally realize you need to take care of you first. You need to get out so you can once again see your light.
It does happen. Please believe life is better especially when the narcissist is no longer pulling the strings
When we are in survival mode, just getting through these relationships without fully understanding it, we are in the dark. The light at the end of the tunnel is gaining the knowledge, healing & then thriving after narcissistic abuse.
My light was the complete removal of this person. It was incredibly painful and disorienting but years later I feel so much better without all that stress and negativity. I’m myself again and that was the true light!
@@sarahdawson975 praise God.
The light at the end of my tunnel became my acknowledgement and acceptance that my relationship with the narcissist would never be what I wanted, what was promised. Once my eyes were opened, I was able to focus on myself and make decisions that were best for me.
The light … is being able to breathe again without having to look behind your shoulders with fear and anxiety !
This video seems like a walk through your healing program. Doing the walk was like coming to terms as to what we found the light to mean for ourselves and it can and will changes in our healing and living process. I am amazed as to how Dr. Ramani changed in her own growth and her presentations. I listened on the beginning of the healing program and even now I glean more from her. Her presentations, at this time are polished and bring more depth for me to polish my self and healing. It is a journey.
The light is when I understood what he was, went to therapy and now see everything so clear. Aware of my own power over me.
After a very long road I’m starting to feel the light. ❤