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Thank you Courtney!!
I wish, but shipping rates to the Netherlands are INSANE 😖
Oh wow, @CourtneyRyan censored my post because I called her out on her hypocrisy. Funny, I thought she liked men who stood up and voiced their opinions. @CourtneyRyan will tell you attractiveness is not earned, but in the next breath she is grifting Tiege Hanley products to get women to like you. Your lack of self-awareness and hypocrisy is noted.
Just recently, I had two different women flake on me. I’m proud to say that I handled those annoying situations maturely and respectfully. Gentlemen, don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself, and move on to better moments. I know my value, so here’s to a new week of opportunities!
Why did you have two women flake on you? Did you arrange and pay them before or after they did it? Weird.
To be fair, it’s not like it’s that hard. You don’t contact them anymore
@@riproar11 Who knows, and quite frankly, it’s not my problem. I’m just thankful to say that I did not waste my time, energy, and pennies on two people who were not emotionally available.
@@moufou4life For context, one messaged me to cancel last minute. I simply said something along the lines of “Thanks for letting me know. Good luck!” The ball is in their court if they choose to play, but I know they won’t, and that’s okay. At the end of the day, I ended up finding other fun ways to enjoy the rest of my free time after getting flaked.
Keep going bro, it’s not you that’s the issue
I can’t stand that notion that guys have to totally submit to women just to gain their approval.
A lot of Men are Genuinely Nice and Have Success.
It’s not a Strategy for them. It’s Part of their Personality.
Just Like There are Women who are nice, polite, not stuck up, not conceited.
Success with women, yes. Success with friends and family, yes. But not success in the business world. Nice guys get trucked in business.
Problem is, women feel entitled to having a man act nice to them, while also wanting the bad boy. They want to fool around and still get a butler to give them Princess treatment.
Double standard much?
Guess that’s why a lot of women love me. I have the bad boy appearance but I’m a big old softie. But I’m not a doormat. I’m not a “nice guy”. Nice guy means fucken doormat who worships her, and that is pathetic.
Thank you, spot on 100%. The irony is @CourtneyRyan claims she likes men who challenge her, but we all know she would not dare engage in any conversation with you, me or anyone who destroys her grifting.
Modern women have become unnecessarily too complicated… being a nice man is a bad thing now? You can be nice and not a pushover
I don’t think she means that. And you are right at some point. When you open a dating app or ask women what they want , they say ‘I want someone kind, caring etc’. They blame man to be plandidly nice but they also hide the fact that they actually want a nice man among the ones that they are attracted to haha I think it’s better to learn the attraction dynamics and learn how to be nice not for women or anyone else, just for your own self image.
You are right that we can be nice, but not a pushover. Actually, this video agrees with you on that point.
@@ibrahimyildiran5028Precisely. The unspoken part is that once you satisfy the attraction prerequisites, *then* they want you to be nice in addition. It won’t help you much otherwise.
I would say it’s a nice vs kindness issue. Become kind and don’t allow others to mistake it for weakness.
@@mstutzzzzNice versus kind is a matter of opinion and is completely subjective.
A lot of good men in this world are simply nice but they can’t usually be someone’s doormat. one day the nice guy will stop doing it and end up just ignoring all women in fact and will focus on himself.
There’s a difference between being nice, and being overly nice. You can be nice to people, but still build your confidence, be charming, and have character, and be firm if anyone trys to be rude. But then some people are nice to people who try to use them, when they need to be firm, that’s where they’re going wrong a lot of the time.
@@ItMustBeAPrivilegeBand Yup. It all comes down to boundaries and what you allow.
I party disagree with Courtney on this topic. Most of us men were told since we were young that women just want nice guys. Heck, even many women claim they want nice guys. So as we grow up we men show niceness and are on our best behavior only to get rejected by most women which understandably makes men bitter and confused because we are being told that if we are nice we will eventually get the girl. And women are guilty because they take advantage of nice guys for dinners and favors knowing they will walk away when it’s expedient for them. So again, once men start to catch on to the game and realize they were misled and used they become understandably bitter. Women need and crave a certain degree of conflict in a relationship to feel fulfilled.
Amen. Couldn’t have written it better myself! Especially that last part
agreed. all the responsibility is always on men to adapt and react to women’s behaviour regardless of how inconsistent, no expectations for women to hold themselves accountable for things like not leading men on or taking advantage of men they know they aren’t attracted to
Its the Single moms and settled for husbands. The snowball built up and is crashing hard now. A worse form of polygamy was created.
I’m glad you can all agree on something. But tell me this, can you agree that you all also have problems that hinder your dating life? Generalizing the opposite sex because you can’t find a partner will get you nowhere. Actually it will just keep you where you are right now. In the comment section of a video meant to help you, praising others just like you because you have the same thoughts on women. Be critical thinkers not echo chambers.
Great comment. And this is very sad that someone define good character as a “weak”, “people pleasing” or “intentionally manipulative”.
Important things: 0:42 First Thing ÷ Being Nice Is A Strategy; 1:36 Second Thing ÷ Attraction Isn’t Based On Fairness; 4:19 Third Thing ÷ Don’t Be Her Emotional Sponge; 5:21 Fourth Thing ÷ Confidence Is More Attractive Than Compliance; 6:12 Fifth Thing ÷ You Can’t Fake Your Way Into Genuine Connection; 7:01 Sixth Thing ÷ You’re Doing Right Things For The Wrong Woman; 7:43 Seventh Thing ÷ Being Attractive Takes More Than Just Not Being A Jerk; 8:44 Eighth Thing ÷ Respect Doesn’t Mean Submission; and 10:23 To summarize all the told here.
These kind of “nice guys” let’s call them that way, are called differently. They should be called People with no self-care. I know that it may sound a bit contradictory, but, like it or not, those are kind of men (also can be applied to women as well). Why? Because those kind of people do think that they are either guilty or that they are always wrong, even if they didn’t make mistakes. Those mindset has to be avoided. Do a self-care (not in a selfish way). Do a self-care, in a way that if you see that you don’t receive good things, that you leave these people, and find the one’s that can accept you for who you are.
The third thing that you have mentioned Courtney, that is a bit similar to Karpman’s Drama Triangle. In that triangle there are these three things. Those are Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor. For more details you can find them on either psychology or in psychotherapy (doctors can correct me if I’m wrong).
All in all we have to be the people that are doing self-care for themselves: knowing to have boundaries, knowing when to say word NO, to know what to accept and what to reject, and many other things that can show the good outcome of good and better behavior for the essence of normal life behavior, and also normal connections (colleagues, friends, family, jobs, love, etc.)
When I was listening to you Courtney, I have remembered 3 quotes that I’ve heard them before, and couple of those I have mentioned them before in some videos of yours. Those are:
1. First one goes like this: “I’ve always admire those people who speak two languages. The ones who speak directly and those who speak honestly.”
2. Albert Einstein once told this: “I am grateful to everyone who told me no. Because of them I achieved everything by myself.”
3. Third one goes like this: “Be so good to yourself that you can get up from the table where you are not served with dignity (you have to know when to leave if you don’t want to be with those people).”
Stay safe people.
Yes I am a nice guy and I do understand what (most) women want in a man. But I don’t want to be energetic, interesting, passionate etc. I want peaceful life. I don’t want a woman who requires constant attention and entertainment or she’s gone. I’d rather be alone and sleep well.
Amen!!!
You should’t feel like someone is forcing you to be happy
But if you really want someone that is already happy at their own to be with you, just be don’t act like bad
Yesss!!!
“I don’t want to be energetic, interesting, passionate etc.” Okay, so you lack those traits. Do you have any male friends? I’m not insinuating that you are gay, I just mean if just being nice and going with the flow or whatever is your thing, people might not notice you in general. Again… not knocking the way you live your life or seek happiness.
To say we are nice as men would be a naive and conceited statement. No one is nice other than God. We all have fallen short of the glory of God, except Jesus, and we definitely are not him but strive to be like him. I promise you God’s plan for your life is not to be going to bed alone but with your lovely wife. My suggestion is to humble yourself with the truth. Women will find you very interesting, because like us they just want a peaceful life with a man that knows where he came from and where he is going. Loving helps, too. If we as men do not possess love, then what do you have? The Bible tells Husband’s to love their wife as he loves his church, and he gave his life to the church so that we may find peace and strength (a true friend). Start going to bed with Jesus, and he will send you a helper, your Eve. It’s your job as a man to lead her down the right path.
Above all else “LOVE”
The #1 commandment
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Being nice is not being a simp. But women often confuse the difference. Conversely men confuse being a simp as being nice. Being nice means you treat people with respect, hold doors for people regardless of gender, and over all being a decent human being. Simping is giving unwarranted compliments to women and giving money etc
A nice guy can be perceived as someone who is a politician giving a bribe for sex
I think you are confusing being a kind man with being the nice
guy big difference.
This is so good and it utterly destroys @CourtneyRyan
@@bobdillon1138 Wrong. @CourtneyRyan is the one who is doing the confusing. Here’s a good example, notice how Courtney is saying “attraction is not something you earn.” But her videos are about earning attraction from women by doing (fill in the blank) and buying Tiege Hanley products. 100% grifter.
I’m going through a heartbreak at the moment and i feel my life is over and depressed, its not easy loosing someone you love dearly. I feel so much pains right now and wish to have my love back
Heartbreak is always painful and depress and i also go through a terrible heartbreak 2months ago and a friend introduce me to a spiritual counselor who helped me to reconcile with my lover and we are happily living together now
Oh, really? Can this person help me to get my partner back?
Absolutely, Father Osoba Salama is the spiritual counselor who can help you reconcile with your ex
Thank u so much🙏 indeed sharing problems bring solution and I curiously make a research online with the name and found his website, Thanks
It’s .. not complicated. If she’s not attracted to you, being nice make up for it. If she IS attracted to you, being nice is just a bonus, not a requirement. Women will put up with all kinds of mistreatment is the dude is attractive enough. So basically, being nice is pointless.
Being nice is seen as being weak and submissive. Being aggressive is seen as being strong and valuable.
Genuine kindness doesn’t come with confidence most Genuine kindness people are shy
On what grounds, other than anecdata, would you make such a generalization? I guess kindness stems from empathy and empathy correlates with sensitivity, which in turn may lead to timidity, but that’s the only argument I can come up with.
It’s about being handsome or have money. Always remember this guys!
courtney I think you are still stuck on telling men how to improve, but we are so deep into hoeflation that women are just not worth the effort. 5’s dont get to do this anymore
So true 100%. Notice how Courtney is saying “attraction is not something you earn.” But her videos are about earning attraction from women by doing (fill in the blank) and buying Tiege Hanley products. 100% grifter.
I am so fed up of women decrying “where are all the good men” they deserve all they get from the Chad’s & Tyron’s, getting pumped and dumped, they don’t deserve decent (Good) men!
If she calls you to vent and cry about the guy who just broke her heart, she’s not looking for a rebound, she sees you as one of her girlfriends 🤣