What Women Actually Find Attractive In Men (The Female Gaze Explained)

@48vfl says:

I don’t agree with the first part (kindness, fit, good hygiene), because that’s bare minimum stuff. Sense of humor, drive, interesting as opposed to boring does matter. Broad shoulders, attractive face obviously also play a role.

@DirtnapJack says:

The reason why i think men may doubt some of these points is 1) they are broad and widely open to interpretaton (not all things to all people). 2). We have personally seen so many examples of contradictions to some of these points. The hygiene being maybe the one constant that is the exception.
Edit: you also have to be 6’3”, have abs and cash. She did not say that here but all these nice guy qualities only apply if you are also an outward Chad.

@pace1195 says:

1. This is a great trait once a man becomes a boyfriend. No man is taking a cell phone video of himself helping and old lady cross the street to promote on dating apps or social media. Men might say they volunteer, rescue animals, or coach children. That might be a tick at the bottom of the check list (the cherry on top), but these “nice” things are a signal of future investment, not a signal of current status, influence, or dominance.
2. Obviously, good health is preferred by both sexes. Harrold the skinny and scrawny high school history teacher is not getting a date over Bubba the biker who looks like a linebacker. Harrold might wear oxford button downs, but Bubba wears exclusively denim and leather sleeveless jackets. I’m betting the vascularity of Bubba’s bare and muscular arms is going to beat Harrold’s rolled-up wrists.
3. In the online world, credentials are a proxy for intelligence. A man is 90% more likely to get a date with a Master’s or PhD. Scott Galloway is the quintessential academic. He sees women are approaching a 2:1 ratio of college grads. He also sees women getting advanced degrees at an even higher rate. He wants more men in academics even if the system is going broke.
A man who has gone through nearly 20 years of school, especially in the modern western world, is probably not going to be a maverick in the world. He’s going to be #1 nice. Depending on his network connections, he may have a great career with a good to great salary, on average. He’s probably not giving many women the butterflies though.
Additionally, who is more likely to get a date? Is it the comedian with a TV show or podcast making good to great money, or is it the floundering stand-up guy or script writer who can never seem to break through? It’s like the moody guitar player in high school or college who will make it big some day with his band only to be working at a bicycle shop by the time he is 30.
4. This is another credential heavy item, especially online. It is true the more education one has, the greater one’s lifetime earning potential on average.
However, many male dominated jobs, especially blue-collar jobs, are seen as low status and disregarded as worthwhile by the female culture these days. Many women have respectable jobs in climate-controlled offices and hired for their credentials. They don’t want to be seen at respectable events with a man who drives a cattle truck for an occupation.
They want to show the world the man in the oxford button down provided he has a higher level of credentials and income. Otherwise, the woman would really like Bubba the biker until Phillip the physics PhD professor comes by with a fat wallet and invitations to fancy parties.
Conclusion: Professor Galloway’s kids will be fine. He has the means, assets, and the temperament to get them all the credentials they may even want.
Some poor trailer trash boy in [insert least favorite rural area/country here] is screwed. He won’t be able to afford the educational debt, nor will he be able to afford the American DreamTM house. It cost 9x more years in inflation adjusted dollars (2 vs. 18) between when the Boomers purchased homes to when Zoomer will want to purchase homes soon.
There is more to the problem than roll up your sleeves, go to the gym more, and just work harder men! Society has inverted human psychology for over a half century, and it’s failing.

@ManFinest says:

Before you do anything, make sure she finds you attractive first, if no then everything you do towards romance has minimal affect