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Andrew McLaurin
Every woman says she “wants a good man,” until she meets one who requires her to be a better woman.
DING DING DING!
Or she meets one and she gets bored and leaves anyway because she’s too used to dating toxic men.
Lots of them are around. They’re either not tall enough, not wealthy enough, or too nice for you. Never satisfied.
Big fedora energy here ⬆️ I would bet my life savings you you regularly post on Reddit
@@JackDeLadyou you? You might want to learn to spell check before trying to insult someone. 😂
and guess what you as a man can never make them satisfied. doomed relationship
@@JackDeLad*Yawn* the whole fedora/incel insult has been abused to the point of meaninglessness.
@@brettstarks1846yeah it’s just like leftists calling everything racist it’s a joke
She should probably be asking herself, “How come the men I am attracted to are not good men?”
💯👏🏻👍🏻
thats “accountability” and they’re allergic
At 56, I’m older than most of the people in the comments.
My satisfaction comes from other sources than my job. Careers often go away.
@@real_fjcalabrese Congratulations! You’re 12 years older than me. I know more than you think I do
I can relate. There’s a reason my job has to pay me well. My part-time job, on the other hand, barely pays me at all. I love it and I get fulfillment from it, so the money’s not important.
Exactly. Made some sacrifices in early 20s, to land a good job by 26. Focus on passions outside work (and manage your time).
52 year old guy here. I hear you, bro. Well said.
Also, turning your passion into a career could ruin it for some people. Attaching schedules, meetings, bosses and objectives to something you love doing can kill it real quick.
They always ask ‘where are the good men?’ and never ‘Does a good man want me to begin with?’
It’s always the most entitled and vocal women, like the one in the tiktok video, that demand top quality when they themselves aren’t up to par. They show that they are the ones to avoid.
Truly, if you have to ask, you’re not qualified for outside the bedroom. No ifs ands or buts
maybe 1 out of 100 will think critical about their behaviour. they think they are perfect. hypocrits
Excellent post.
@Jumpyman_thegamerYT if you have to ask, you’re not qualified. Plain&simple
8:55 yes we are, but no we aren’t projecting how we feel about ourselves onto other people. What happened was we treated others the way we wanted to be treated and got walked on as a result, so now we’re treating others the way they treated us instead. My guard wasn’t up before but it is now.
Yep. Women will say “that’s not fair because women are experiencing the same thing!” Well, maybe if you didn’t only choose the top 2.5% of guys, then we wouldn’t be in this predicament. Those guys treat the majority of women the way the majoriy of women treat the majority of men. Guess it sucks to be on the other end huh
Good men are often humble and that doesn’t always stand to them in the dating world
Under no circumstances does career fulfillment have anything to do with a man’s character – which you also say in different words. However, a non-fulfilling career can have a negative impact on a relationship. In a “good” man, it can bring him down, and the whole relationship vibe can be brought down with that. In an “evil” man, it can make him behave in an unacceptable, even downright criminal in extreme cases, manner towards his partner. In any case, if a woman wants to see if a man is “good” or “evil”, career fulfillment is definitely not the place to check…
I love your perspective on good men. And it’s true what you said. Personally, I never like being someone who’s in the position to be cruel to people, regardless. Being mean is not cool. Really wish people were more nicer.
Being in that position is a challenge. Unfortunately it’s easier for people in positions of power to lead through threats of firing and fear. Leading by example and through inspiration of others requires actual work, so many would rather take the easier route of being a dictator.
They are with the good women.
Loving your job is a luxury, and is largely outside of your control (boss, coworkers, work assignments are all not within your control). I had a girl reject me partly because I “wasn’t passionate about my job”. Like, sorry. I live in the real world, not a disney movie. Work is not always going to be something you love, especially when the expectation is that the man will make good money. High paying jobs are often stressful, require long hours, have mundane tasks, or you have a sociopathic manager. But if a guy loves his job putting fries in the bag, then they won’t want him because he’s broke.
I have only met only a few people in my life that really loved their jobs. Most people honestly just want their job to pay them money so that they can live and enjoy other things. I find it silly in interviews when the employer wants to know why you want that particular job in their company. When the honest answer is you want money.
The working class dude trying to feed his kids can’t really be assed to feel like he’s living out the job of his dreams. That being said, my under-employed and unemployed friends really get up their own asses with aimless fecklessness and terminally online nonsense. They rot from within.
Exactly. Focus on passions outside of work.
This is why the world is so messed up. Women who put there expectations in men in dating. They should go out and find the job they love and then maybe they will solve their own issues go work for your money honey ain’t no man gonna be your sugar daddy
Meanwhile a successful lawyer friend of mine gets turned down all the time by his dates telling him he works too much. You just can’t win. 😂
Yeah, you really can’t
I find it interesting that there’s so much emphasis on this ambition toward career. I’m not happy with where my career is at 39 years old. I probably do complain too much about my career but there is nothing I can do about it until my daughter graduates high school. My wife passed away when my daughter was 6 years old and I’ve had to work with clients that pay more to free up more time to be available for raising my kid. I’d rather be a good father that’s miserable for 3-6 hours a day than one who loves his career and is a terrible father for even one second. I work hard enough to be able to put food on the table, and the rest of my time, energy and attention go to raising a teenage girl, 9 years later. She’s well-adjusted, shows respect, and is a 4.0 student … so I’d say I made the right choice. I can focus on my career again at 42 when she graduates. Thanks again Courtney for correcting these extreme views, and introducing some subtlety into the value of men and women.
Yeah to be completely honest, I don’t expect to ever love my career. I’m not delusional enough to believe my passions could ever pay the bills either. So long as I don’t hate my job and it pays enough for me to afford my actual passions, then I’m happy.
Good on you for prioritizing being a father. Your daughter will appreciate it I’m sure.
There are plenty of “good men”….that aren’t 6 ft tall, don’t have six-pack abs, and work jobs for less than six figures that they don’t like. I’m glad I’m old, have grand kids, and don’t have to deal with “Tik Tok” girl nonsense. I feel bad for young men today.
Women that are actually good women know where the good men are, they recognize good men when they see them, and (most importantly) THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO GOOD MEN. If someone is having a hard time finding good people, that’s usually a “them” issue, not the fault of the people they’re looking for.
As a 56 year old blue collar man, divorced and been told decent looking lol. My experience of most of my dates is being a blue collar man is a non starter for sooooo many women which leaves me concluding that they want a meal ticket and not a man.
Even if a man is having a rough time at work, the reassurance from his woman that no matter what his work experience is like, he is appreciated at home for providing for his loved ones will carry him a long way.
My dad had the same job for 31 years – some days he liked it, some days he hated it. And sometimes he told us that, sometimes he kept it between him and our mom haha. What mattered most was being there for his family. He worked to go home. His sweat equity kept us going to school and kept our tummies full.
There is an unbelievable amount of honor in that and probably 80-90% of the world is made up those kinds of people; they make the world spin.
So many great Comments from “Good” men! Love to my brothers.
I’ve never had my career as a priority in my life. In fact, work talk bores me to death, I just check out. Now, I’m doing what I love and what I studied, but as a designer I’d still be a creative whether I had this job or not, it’s just who I am. But I never use my job as an identifier.