Why 70 to 90% Of Women Initiate the Divorce
Why 70 to 90% Of Women Initiate the Divorce: 70 to 90% of divorces were initiated and insisted on by the female. Census data show that between 1825 to 1866, 60% of divorces were initiated by women.
Nearly two hundred years since the first survey given, a 2017 study by the National center for health statistics quoted similar number with 69% of women wanting to call quits on the marriage. The same publication states that if the female has a higher educational degree like a bachelor, that number jumps to 90%.
Nine out of every ten women want divorce if they have a college degree.
But why? Why Are women so prone to leave men and file for divorce. There are 3 key reasons why according to sociologists.
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It’s cheaper to get a sugar baby than get married a second time lol
I work way too fucking hard on mind, body and soul to settle for that. When I was single, there were quite a bit of them and I’m grateful they were upfront. I just asked if it looks like I’m in need of a sugar baby or if it looks like I can take care of myself. I do understand your point though. Men are getting raped in the court system. Women’s DiVo coaches are aggressive. Tried to collaborate with a few and from the get go, it was clear that it would have caused them more harm than good. Other women also encourage divorce to other women which is rather disgusting. A guy asks me and I say it’s not for me to decide but them. A women asks and they hear “go for it girl”.
@@Mensdivorcecoach you’re absolutely right about that. My neighbor got a divorce recently and threw a “divorce party” and got pissed when I turned down her invitation. Why in the heck would anyone in their right mind want to celebrate having a broken home? He never hit her and was always working. She divorced him because he was too “vanilla”. I almost couldn’t believe her reasoning. I could never see my mother leaving my father because things were too “vanilla” and they were married for 50+ years (until death did them part)! I blame modern day feminism.
My wife also divorced me. She thought the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. It was actually Astroturf.
How you holding up?
@@Mensdivorcecoach Everything is great. I am fully in control of my emotions. The blue pill sucker that I was is no more. I don’t hate women, I understand them. When you understand them, you can’t love them. It is something in between.
@@davec3487 You get it…
I’m sure the astroturf is much better than the real grass when she was with you
She wants to find herself but needs your money to do it.
Unfair isn’t it? Then they say stuff like “You aint my daddy”.
@@Mensdivorcecoach so your misogynistic and blame women?
@ アナグマ this is why studies are so unreliable. Finding yourself is NOT a reason women leave but rather a vague explanation to cover up the real reason you left. In a study you can write down this “explanation” and walk away but in real life no woman would accept that as a real reason. I’m a nurse who has worked mainly with women and I have never heard this as a reason for leaving a spouse. Perhaps a cover up for abuse infidelity etc. Women want our relationships to work. We don’t leave on a whim and as far as needing your money. I have worked with many single STNA/ nursing single moms who work full time jobs (and do jobs you couldn’t fathom)to take care of their children. They don’t need your money. They just want out or have been abandoned. Think before you assume you know all or even most women. It is easy to take sides when you are angry but understanding goes so much further.
If you married it is not yours. It belongs to both
‘Find myself’ = already involved or interested in another man. Very few women leave a relationship to be alone.
You should make a video of numbers how many women get remarried after a divorce? How many do they divorce second marriage? Stats that could better understand if it is or if it isn’t better on the other side
I looked for data on that and couldn’t find any. In the FB Group I can do a survey but it wouldn’t be statistically significant. Are you part of the group? I remember being told by my 2nd spouse, I left my husband who I had kids with, you think I wouldn’t leave you? Gosh what a simp.
@@Mensdivorcecoach no I am not part of a group. I just think that there isn’t a lot of information out there of what happens after getting a divorce for women.. I more youtubers showed results of divorced women staying single or the percentage of divorce after your first marriage and finances I believe that less women would choose divorce.
Sorry buddy, don’t understand your comment. There’s so much more literature on post divorce women than men by far. So much I have to develop my own.
@@user-xl6vt7ev2s 😂😂😂 most women do not get remarried as they do not want to make the mistake of living with a man again
Women tend to not want to ever remarry after they’ve been set free. Maybe there are stats to support this. Marriage tends to be a burden for women.
The person who initiates the divorce is not the person who files for divorce. It is the person who is first to violate his or her marriage vows.
Modern western women are incentivised and encouraged to divorce by the media and government so courts can make money. Look at all the hollywood movies where men initiate divorce vs women initiate divorce.
It is so ingrained in western culture that lesbian marriages end up in divorce 2-3x more often than gay marriages.
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@@evelynm2530 YES
You’re delusional:
Women file divorce because they’re totally illiterate dummies who don’t work out. don’t initiate sex, need constant “affirmation”, can’t really cook, don’t get drunk or stoned, and just kind of wither away until one of their friends suggests ambushing their husband with an order of protection, and then finding a scumbag lawyer who will destroy everyone for money.
💯💯💯
Women initiate divorces more because they usually hold onto grudges while men move on. On the same token, they get fed up with tolerating problems that shouldn’t be tolerated. Beyond this, it’s interesting how gay men have the lowest divorce rates while lesbians have the highest divorce rates. I wonder if it’s because women are initially too eager to commit & force relationships that should have been examined closely.
very interesting take. by chance do you have any articles and studies you can link? Id be interested on reading more into this. what youre saying makes sense.
gay men have the lowest divorce rates because we fight for the marriage
Good insight.
Probably has to do with tolerating infidelity. Gay marriage is never exclusive. The lesbians still try to have kids or come with kids. They still expect exclusivity.
What an astute perspective…
I know its hard for Men to accept the reality. STOP GETTING MARRIED CONTRACTUALLY.. The 40’s and 50’s is over. Either learn to play the game or dont play at all. Not tryna sound cold, we just gotta move forward…
Women get a deal thats hard to turn down. She gets the house, land,children, savings, alimony, furniture, tv and child support. It cost about 25 % of the support to raise them. They get 75 % for a new car and clothes. And the courts uses the mans money to pay for it all. Young men think the sex is more important than this risk.
You live in a fantasy. 99% of divorced women live below the poverty line. Child support doesn’t come close to covering the costs and men can remarry and do immediately. Most divorced women are stuck raising your kids while aging out of getting a new life.
You have stats to support this theory? I’m interested in whether divorced women on average live off less.
I wonder if studies show many women would rather live under a bridge than remarry
@@shellylen4582Women do get more, on average, in divorce as most men actually own the assets in the relationship. Don’t care about who makes more money, but who’s money is actually buying the furniture, cars, and houses? Usually the man. Not even coming from a “hate women” attitude, it’s just reality. Also cmon… do I really have to bring the stats about the role of children in divorces? Women always get the kids.
If a woman has stayed at home there are many stories online where the dude gets all, not the woman. Some of you need to seek therapy instead of listening to dudes online like this.
And also, other women brain wash and encourage the other.
Women initiate divorce even when they don’t.
The sentiment that you are asserting is good, and I admire your positivity. However, in actuality, you seem to be making the best case for a man to not get married in the first place…because no matter how good he is or can become as a man, it will most probably never be good enough to discourage his wife from divorcing him anyway. The system has encouraged and financially incentivized women to divorce for cash and prizes if they become bored or feel that their expectations (no matter how unrealistic they may be) are not being met. Therefore, many men are finding that the uncertainty of actually having a successful marriage is just too great and the risks too high in a postmodern world.
I watched NAT Geo a strong lion killed a weak lion and its offsprings while lionesses just watch and do nothing. What I’ve learned from this is women are easily persuaded by strong evil men. Women are quite emotional but not for very long unlike men who never forget their beloved wives. Man is a farmer and his wife a barren land which he cultivates and grow fruits with his own seeds on it. If wife leaves him one day his hard work and investment goes down the gutter. Thats why it’s too painful for men to divorce.
😂 whoa, funny you didn’t learn men are vicious killers from that NAT geo scene.
`Please` stay away from women.
(Not a plead, it’s an order)
On today’s episode, women are lions 😅😅
Bcz she knows, she’ll get huge amounts of alimony or maintenance. She’ll be free from all responsibilities and be independent. And enjoy at cost of alimony.
I got $1000 a month. Still had 6 kids living at home. Been married 31 years. Too old to start a career.
The reason people get divorced is to their hardness of hearts, disfunctionality, and emotional immaturity. An issue not mentioned in the comments feed is in our cultures mindset is the complete lack of accountability in the minds of those divorcing to extended family memers, children and God. Every woman who divorces a man hurts another mothers Son. Every man who poorly treats a wife and divorces her disrespects her parents and the trust the put in man. Society needs a rethink on on dealing with rekationship breakdowns and how to proceess issued. There should be huge repussions for those who bail out without facing a panel of older and wiser jury panel to gain approval based on a defined “Just Cause”. The cost to everyone and society is huge
Take away financial incentives to divorce without proving infidelity, and remove social welfare benefits and watch marriage rates skyrocket.
Well said
Avoiding conflict creates disconnection, and disconnection leads to resentment and eventual failure of a relationship. Both partners need to learn to resolve conflict in a way that has empathy, respect, and a mutual desire to meet the needs of both partners.
I think that “marriage“, as a concept, needs to be updated.
Why would a father teach his daughter such nonsense
Men only act right when women leave them. Men don’t think they need to act right if women are still staying with them. So, women have to leave to remove that poor behavior from their lives.
I’m 52m never married and *learned* from other people’s mistakes. It’s just too risky — particularly when you have lots to lose.