Why Do They Come Back After Rejecting You?

A tale as old as time… she breaks your heart and as soon as you get back up on your feet she's sliding back into your DM's for another chance back in your life. In this video, I give you my best advice for what to do in this situation.

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  • @kc270352 says:

    “they never wanted you when you was Nothing, always reject them when you become something” 💯

    • @miniweeddeerz1820 says:

      I mean isn’t that kinda what you want. You improved yourself so now you are more desirable.

    • @kc270352 says:

      @@miniweeddeerz1820 Obviously

    • @raularmas317 says:

      I think you are looking at things from an upside down position.
      Neither of you is nothing.
      You are both worthy of all the love and respect any other miracle is.
      Your job, should you decide to accept it, is to find/be aware enough to recognize when someone is willing to start mirroring your own behaviors.
      Imitation being the sincerest form of flattery.
      Are you willing/able to reciprocate?

    • @kc270352 says:

      @@raularmas317 stop taking things seriously, its just a “saying”

    • @bazrezna9963 says:

      The woman should want you for the person that you are. If you don’t have a lot of money and you’re working on a minimum wage job and she loves you still and stays with you through your journey, she’s a keeper. She should encourage you and you should encourage her. It’s about team work, working together and helping each other out

  • @devonjones5200 says:

    They come back just to see if they still “got you” in her circle. Once she realized you still want her, she ghosts again

  • @josephstevens9888 says:

    A girl once told me I was her “back-up” guy in case the relationship she was in didn’t work out. I responded to her she better get a different “back-up guy”. I don’t play second string in relationships.

  • @alanguages says:

    Never accept a person who rejected you. Never attempt to go with a person you rejected. It is best for both of you.

    • @boywonder2120 says:

      Yeah ugly men don’t have the luxury of that option

    • @theworldisimmense says:

      @@boywonder2120 black pill the truth

    • @user-kcrpine says:

      Boy Wonder – B S you don’t. The world is literally packed with equally ugly women. Your problem is the fact that far too many like you are eager to be friendzoned, simp for, or orbit such women, freely giving them validation they do not deserve and have not earned. Many take it one step further and end up pumping so much B S into such chick’s heads they end up truly believing they’re top notch and deserve nothing short of their delusional version of Prince Charming. This is why 80%+ of average or under women today think 80%+ of men are below average.

      Women are human just like you. The difference is they’re generally coddled from birth whereas we are not. Stop treating the fact they’ve a front hole as if it makes them all goddesses. There’s more of them than there are you…

    • @tomasdeleondominguez7693 says:

      I fully agree.

    • @UnexpectedWonder says:

      Why were you rejected? How old were you two?

  • @Coyote-wm5op says:

    They want your attention back but as soon as they get it they’ll ghost you and play games because they think they have you wrapped around their finger. Best thing you can do is completely ignore them.

    • @mortenlarsen7220 says:

      Actually no blow up their phone and act deseprate, works 100% of the time they will get annyoed and in the long run they will never want to comeback to you. It never fails to do that, it pushes them away forever.

    • @aquarius9043 says:

      @@mortenlarsen7220 Power move right there.

    • @mortenlarsen7220 says:

      @@aquarius9043 Yea it is and funny enough i learned acting that way pushed females away, so then i started to use it as a way to have my butt cleared forever so i would never have them comeback. And to this date it has worked FLAWLESSLY, perfect move to do to get rid of them for good once they start moving outside of the relationship.

    • @kerryfoster1 says:

      Say ‘I’m already someone else’s baby’……..

    • @gargoyliangaming6556 says:

      @@mortenlarsen7220 Reverse psychology. Must admit pretty creative.

  • @bartunthegreat2999 says:

    Funny thing when you are single, finding a girlfriend is really difficult. But the moment you get a girlfriend that’s when many other girls suddenly decide to give you the time of day.

  • @samreen. says:

    Never give somebody a second opportunity to reject you again!

  • @TacticalNuke321 says:

    Stay in no contact and focus on you. The best way to respond to rejection is to walk away and mean it. That is how you keep your dignity.

    • @milliesaysokboomer says:

      Why do people always say to never be friends with the one who rejected you? I mean sometimes I do that but most of the times i don’t cause I hardly ever am ‘down bad’ for anyone, like if they reject me I’m moving on within the day. I don’t mind being friends unless it’s clear they’re still using it against me

    • @TacticalNuke321 says:

      @@milliesaysokboomer Because it’s better for your mental health if you didn’t want to get dumped and if you’re heart broken and send you through a hell of turmoil. And it also increases the likelihood of getting back together with an ex partner

    • @jackjacky8105 says:

      coach corey wayne was here…

    • @TacticalNuke321 says:

      @@jackjacky8105 Hell yeah

    • @debanikgoswami4834 says:

      @@TacticalNuke321 I would keep her as side chick

  • @Philosophyoftruth_ says:

    Once they reject you, don’t accept them back into your life. There’s no point surrounding yourself with people who are like that.

  • @theharshtruth8563 says:

    I had 2 of my exes (one from 20 years ago and one from 8 years ago) try to get in touch with me
    during the pandemic lockdowns. They made it seem at first like they were checking up on me to
    see if I was ok… but eventually, their true motive came out and they asked to move into my place
    to get back on their feet because they were still living paycheck to paycheck and their workplace
    closed down.

    I deleted / ghosted them both.

    I paid off my mortgage in 2015 and it wasn’t for women to invite themselves to move in and get
    comfy. They weren’t present during the majority of my struggle so they aren’t invited to share in
    my success.

    • @Vex916T says:

      The Covid lockdowns caused crazy people to come out of the woodwork because my older brother’s girlfriend that he separated from 10 years before 2020 randomly called him a few months into the pandemic to move in our house. When my oldest sister heard of this scheme she gave my older brother a long lecture and told him that his ex-girlfriend is prohibited from coming near our house especially because she cheated on him and has kids with another dude. To this day my older brother has not spoken a thing about his ex haha.

    • @bbc20231 says:

      Amen 🙏🏾Champ

    • @casebycase_904 says:

      Good for u
      I hate when people try to crawl back into ur life for the mulah

    • @priestesskatherine2640 says:

      I can help u

    • @Dynamic-cb9jy says:

      Well done.

  • @Poudiy says:

    She didn’t want me in her prime, I don’t want her in her decline

  • @zyx777zyx says:

    29 year old male here… I would NEVER accept a woman back into my life who broke up with me for 3 reasons…
    1 – My feelings for her go away quickly after the breakup
    2 – If she dumped me once, she’ll probably do it again
    3 – There are so many other girls out there to choose from

  • @djonin91 says:

    Inconsistency is the biggest red flag for me, being in a relationship with someone like that just makes you miserable and there are people out there more deserving of your time.

  • @Sorenthaz says:

    If anyone wants to come back, they need to earn it and things need to move slowly. That’s a great way to filter out the more negative intentions because you aren’t fully giving yourself back to them, and if they grow frustrated by it and try to rush things along then they aren’t committed to it and just wanted an easy escape from stress or so on.

    If they genuinely care and want to work with you, they will do so.

    • @gregoryjanczak7013 says:

      Best answer I’ve read. Thank you for the time to write it.

    • @iZerodark30 says:

      Agreed. All these dudes talking about “never becomes someone back-up plan”. Like they already wasn’t a back-up plan. These women have a wide selection to choose from.

    • @JudiciousJaguar says:

      Completely agree on this one, I always give a second chance but not for free

      The broken trust need time and right choices to be fully repaired

  • @hmanfilms says:

    It’s simple: they thought they could do better in life without you, thought the grass was greener. Then realized they wanted you.

  • @tmcorey1 says:

    They come back when things don’t work out with the person they left you for. Simple. And they will leave again just the second they find another person that they think is “better”.

  • @philipepling says:

    You deserve to be with someone who chose you first. Know your worth; you should never be someone else’s backup plan.

  • @TheJasmincika says:

    They rarely come back because they see how good you are. Usually somebody dumped them and they want use you..

  • @albertshinskiy says:

    Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @deboralaw-on9od says:

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @albertshinskiy says:

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?

    • @deboralaw-on9od says:

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex

    • @albertshinskiy says:

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @koshenn4702 says:

      @@deboralaw-on9od
      It will end in tears because it no longer natural

  • @JessieCarlo-e7s says:

    Nice video, I’m still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can’t seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I’ve tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don’t see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can’t seem to stop missing him.

    • @SophiaChloe-h7m says:

      It’s hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @JessieCarlo-e7s says:

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

    • @SophiaChloe-h7m says:

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @SophiaChloe-h7m says:

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @JessieCarlo-e7s says:

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

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