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Their single by intelligence. Maybe focused on goals and not drama!
“Why are so many intelligent men single?” This question could get twisted. 😂
Intelligence turns people off and pushes them away even for friendship and in business. People don’t care how much you know. They want to know how much you care. That’s just human nature. If you are highly intelligent you have to learn how to make people feel seen and feel comfortable with you. It’s something you can learn. It’s not even an act it’s just leading with what’s in your heart and not what’s in your head.
I think people confusing intellegence and arrogance here!!!!!
@@123bwlchoh arrogance definitely drives people away. But Intelligence does have a negative impact on building a connection. It also slows down the pace of banter because intelligent people tend to over think things. But intelligent people also lead with that as well as logic and that’s not what attracts. Thing is smart people even know this but often can’t help themselves.
@@darrenskjoelsvold People find similar people to themselves as far as intellegence is concerned. This fear of intellegence is a specific US issue of constant dumbing down. Live
d in Arizona for 15 years
@@123bwlch Well not all the time. Sometimes people who are of different intellectual strata get together. The most important one to be smart is the woman. Genes for intelligence are mostly located on the X chromosomes and if the mother is intelligent then the baby or babies will be as well. So for men, always marry a smart woman.
They are single because they are intelligent and they won’t put up with childish nonsense.
I’m too smart for my own good.
Perhaps we are tired of the games…..
For the younger gents who may be reading this, and who may be seeking a relationship, Courtney is 100% SPOT-ON. Even if you aren’t that confident, “fake it till you make it,” as the saying goes.
But then, after you’ve made that initial connection, the focus needs to shift to judging one another’s life goals, values, and perhaps most importantly: CHARACTER!
The key word here is “fake” , no thanks, I rather stay authentic , alone and dare I say it , happy.
@@hermanspaerman3490 You are correct, sir. My choice of wording was poor.
Maybe “practice” being confident would be a more suitable wording. than “fake” being confident.
Along with that comes the willingness to walk away without remorse, without apology, and without being resentful or RUDE, obviously. No point in either of those. Would be counter-productive anyway.
And NEVER, EVER put her on a pedestal! That is the opposite of what women find attractive, and it would suck for you in the long run, in case you do end up in a relationship with her.
Along those same lines, and IMHO, bent-knee marriage proposals should be reserved for maidens (or perhaps widows… something like that).
Also, many paths to success are just physically unhealthy, and make you less attractive.
Working long hours in one position tends to make you fat. Even working out multiple times a day doesn’t outweigh the effect of moving your body less in little ways throughout the day. If you don’t cut your calories with intention to compensate, you can easily gain 5 in a year and 50 pounds over ten years.
This lady knows more about men than males do.
Honestly, I’d feel safe sharing all my secrets with her.
-Simp level 1000 reached.
@@Void_of_Light Amen..
@@Void_of_Light Thank you.
simpleton level 9001 attained.
There’s no desperation or neediness to be with a partner.
I am a 43 yo single since November. never had since my 14 yo more than a month alone. This week I had drinks with 3 different women met on gym and around. 27, 40 and 48. no differences: only talking slogan on freedom and their bad choices (of course I think so). I am still single and even do not spend the night together because I cannot stand childish. I work with kids and children. Honestly; they are smarter and more respectful on average woman I am meeting. Sorry, but they are boring, standard and predictable.
You are a legend 👏 😂
@@palashtrivedi5622not at all…. The opposite. I am sad and alone but accept my decisioni. Those women? nothing more than a buffet lunch. Sad and bad quality. I am italian so food is quite a topic….
Eazy cause they are intelligent.
No, intelligent men value rationality and don’t put up with drama.
Intelligent men tend to be high stress individuals. I’ve learned to my cost that keeping my stress low is necessary to stay healthy. My energy levels, sleep, everything is messed up when I’m stressed. The primary contributor to that stress, women I’ve dated. So single I stay.
Facts
So called ladies you attempted to date with in your past sounds like they enjoyed being detrimental over seeking to be beneficial in terms of failing to reciprocate care and attention back towards your direction during your valuable time and efforts you unfortunately squandered attempting to develop a relationship towards their all to common emotional availability.
@@mechanocraddo1 Your comment is grammatical error soup. I can’t even tell if you’re complimenting or insulting me.
I can definitely over-think conversations. Maybe the pattern of thinking through my words is why I have had better responses from women on chat sites (not dating sites) than in person.
“Not too deep” that’s what she said 😂
Nope I don’t put up with BS. Tons of partners I decided to leave behind because too much drama and no peace of mind. Every ex still wants me but I don’t. Men be picky. It seems like this woman tries to focus on some men who are insecure and think they need a woman to grow when most of them want the winner at the finish line.
ALL THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO CHADS. THEY PREFER PRISONERS INFACT. BUILD YOURSELF FOR YOURSELF MEN. IF SHE WANTS TO BE ON YOUR PROGRAM GIVE HER A CHANCE, IF NOT, STAY THE COURSE😊
I don’t need to feel like I have another full time job.
Don’t over think it. Go for it.
Sometimes, if you’re too polished as a man, that can intimidate some women