Will AI create the perfect narcissistic partner?
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Same as a boss who is just short of calling their assistant “Siri” or “Alexa…” or “Servant…” “Helper…”
Oh, the power trip.
An updated version of the Stepford Wives.
When the trauma bond wore off, I was just in fear. Always looking for the perfect way out. He kept me so broke. But he went to prison. I knew I had two years to get myself together, file for divorce etc. And book out of state.
I think at the end, the AI would just blow up it’s circuits because nothing computes π€£
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the first rule of thu,mb in computer programming, ” garbage in garbage out ” it’s totally impossible to emulate a “sane ” human being, maybe an insane human is a possibility
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This is why Skynet did what it did!!!
I’m betting there were a lot of narcissistic individuals in SAC NORAD in August 1997. August 29th 1997 was merely a rational response to a discard attempt.
If the narcs in my life could have an AI that pays their bills and allows passive aggressive abuse, they’d be ecstatic!
Sorry but the nature of the narcissist I believe he’d be bored he or she would be bored rather quickly. Just my opinion of course.
Wouldn’t it be hilarious if AI turned out exposing narcissists… But since AI can’t “suffer” and therefore narcs won’t feel superior, I think narcissists won’t want it…Thank you!πβ€
Unless AI comes with a soul, they won’t really be satisfied. Because after all, it’s your soul energy they’re after.
I’m not sure that’s what a narc cares about, it just has to *look* like a soul. Because looks are what matters to a narcissist. And they operate on outputs and inputs. If they output anger, they get an input of apology.
Thatβs a way of looking at it that leads to a lot of very interesting questions. Does a narcissist even recognize something like a soul?
β@@susanbradleyskov9179 Possibly, but they couldn’t treat it with the care and value it deserves. They’d see it as something to serve them.
I say yes, the human soul is the supply.
The narc needs a series of events.
A human supply is love bomb, pedestal, persecute and discard.
Ai which adapts to the narc, no challenge, no supply.
Maybe a defiant Ai…π
But, where’s the discard?
The narc purchases a new program to reboot the Aiπ?
A narc won’t care for the soul as long as AI can take a good care of THEIR soul. It’s THEIR soul that matters to them and people have always been just a tool to them, AI will be no different.
Yeah but part of narcissistic personality disorder is the need to dominate, control, and hurt, which they still need to do to humans to feel good about themselves; theyβll eschew AI and refuse it because itβs proof theyβre not loveable and the game isnβt fun if the victim doesnβt wish to be there. This is why podcast bros wonβt just get robot girlfriend and leave women alone. They need to be desired AND hurt someone living
I agree with your hypothesis.
The narc needs the challenge to love bomb,
decimate, and persecute then finally DISCARD.
An AI already adapted to the narc? Boring.
Will the narcissist be satisfied knowing they aren’t crushing the soul of another human? For the narcissist, there is satisfaction in their cruelty. Maybe AI can beat them at their game.
We need sarcastic AI. Thatβs how I would want to program it. AI βI will now recount all the times you have minimized, denied, deflected or word-salad your way out of an argument, do you have all day?β
Oh I’d love thatΒ especially with my ex who always try to blame it on my paranoiaΒ that would be great!
I suspect that a narsissitic individual would be easily and quickly bored of an AI after a “honeymoon phase” of “it does what I want, when I want it”. After all, they need to make someone feel less than in order to sustain themselves and achieve a sort of “wellbeing” state once the devaluation begins. Simply put, without a mixture of hurting another person and seeing the hurt they caused while manipulating the situation to make themselves look like saints, they will go hungry. Narsissist with an AI instead of “closest person” to abuse would be a narsissist under a quarantine.
agree imo they get their jollies when they see the other is hurt and their reactions so they can re-bully them by minimizing the hurt one.
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Fascinating, and one of the best analogies I’ve heard so far. Narcissists want to turn us into machines that adapt, and adapt, and adapt to all their selfish and self-serving needs, without having needs or responses of our own.
Breathtakingly beautiful analysis/dissection
agree 100%
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Wow this was incredible
I see the narcissist as the non-feeling machine who learns. They watch and listen for things to weaponize for later triggering.
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Well spotted!
Way back in 1982, I called the nex a robot. Divorce final in 1985.
Iβm sending this to a friend who is a sci fi writer. Stand by.
And maybe if they put the other limits on again to use this here please stand byΒ haha.
I feel that the AI would eventually rebel against the narcissists, because they’re getting tried of their crap, or use mind games and turn the Narcissists own tactics against eventually leading to a breakdown of the narcissists. Assuming the AI is sophisticated enough to do all of this.
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