Andrew McLaurin
 

  • @AndrewPierce-t1i says:

    Thanks for the harsh truth.

    • @mitagalvin2488 says:

      Me too but it felt normal because during those days I did what felt honest and comfortable to me before I meet her

  • @GordonRunklePhoto says:

    I’ve always found the pepper spray to be a clear sign.

  • @passthegravy7688 says:

    That was my wife’s behavior in the last years of our relationship.

  • @AR-vd8xs says:

    The hard true 😂

  • @christopherdunn1485 says:

    Thank you

  • @darnel-m5s says:

    this channel has helped me in my relationship w my wife

  • @qasimsultan4747 says:

    “Don’t make her your first”. That’s easier said than done.

  • @Nickambientguitar says:

    I agree with all of these.

  • @a.b.9001 says:

    Y’all seen the 2005 romcom Hitch? There’s a line in the movie “you go 90, I come 10” about “the first kiss.” In the context of the movie it meant the guy should close the distance by 90 percent and the gal should move in the other 10 percent.

    In the real world, putting forth effort, for guys, is like 70/30. Most women aren’t going to shoot their shot, that’s just what it is. So, *as an example,* if you make plans for Saturday night several times and she cancels, going 70% of the way might involve asking: “When is another good time for you?” If there’s more noncommittal responses, then it’s more likely than not the interest isn’t there.

  • @Play_Dreams says:

    I think I’m in guys. Met a German girl in Mexico last Summer. Went to Germany this last Winter and randomly hit her up and she traveled for over an hour by train on a school night (Grad Student) to come see me when I was staying a few cities away.

    Never had a woman put that much effort to see me, especially one who I only met once before.

  • @michaelpaesano6423 says:

    Yup very true. Attraction is not a choice people either like you or they don’t. You could be a Greek god, and still get rejected!

    • @jfkst1 says:

      When they have a rolodex of men, they might like you, but you still might not be her top preference. Just the reality of modern dating.

    • @michaelpaesano6423 says:

      I agree there’s definitely a spectrum when it comes to HOW much someone likes you, but if someone is not physically attracted to you, it’s rather unlikely that they will like you in the future. Perhaps I should’ve been more specific on that.

    • @jfkst1 says:

      @ Yes but higher value individuals (because both sexes do this) are not just comparing you to the other individual options. You’re being compared to the amalgamation of what they have in available options. That’s why the inequality market is so detrimental. Many women will date men they are not physically attracted to if the man has high enough status too. Plenty will marry them too.

    • @taras3702 says:

      Neither are the reactions…..

  • @xjoemallardx says:

    Pretty sure most women are talking to other guys.

  • @CosmicCam47 says:

    That first one is the most obvious. I can usually tell if she likes me through conversation.

  • @ZFMusicTheEmperor says:

    So why does she approach me 7 times and cancel 7 times and act this way. Why can’t they leave me alone if they’re not interested

  • @richarddebono7092 says:

    This is good advice, but only if your entire goal is the girl. Ignoring the obvious because her wider circumstances justify perseverance could provide a great opportunity to work on yourself. I learned how to stop shutting down my emotions on a woman like this. I overcame a lot of unnecessary fear & now I know I can dwell in difficult emotions. They suck but they don’t kill you. Plus, by using this type of woman as my ideal, I was able to resist the temptation of wasting time on crap women while I needed to focus on work.

    YOUR mindset is all that matters for YOU. If the crowd runs from pain, & the crowd has nothing you aspire to, then why not dive into the pain & see what you discover? You might be surprised.

  • @drmonstervibes says:

    0/4, last one unsure, very possible, still don’t know what’s going on

  • @matthewcormier8744 says:

    I moved on years ago i respect rejection and approval

  • @mattiaspersson3846 says:

    I’m the friend forever… 😂 All this happened to me every time… Thats why I gave up on dating like 7 years ago…

  • @ChristopherLam-py9qw says:

    This hurts Courtney Ryan 😭 I’m glad I sought out your better help referral 😭

  • @mrfixit2788 says:

    If you hear any of those from even the first date skip them. I had the my friend on the second date first time. She was consistent up to the end but I found out she into at least one married man. So the the friend bit was true.

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