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I am trying to say this to a woman but she doesn’t want to listen to me. “I am not the right person for you, leave me alone”.
Then shag it and keep going. Doesn’t mean you have to marry her.
have you considered a restraining order?
I think the Internet and social media has skewed our perspective of morality. We have come to believe that the world is just full of terrible, impatient, and disgusting people when in reality most people are fair, decent, and dare I say good people. All of this datinc and relationship content makes us think everyone is trash, when it isn’t the case.
Depends on who you take advice from. I used to follow a dating coach on her content until 2 years ago when I found out she’s all about the money, luxurious lifestyle, going to the clubs, flakes on men, treats people like garbage, the list goes on…
Hope she finds what she’s looking for
What it is is that the craziest voices are often the ones highlighted online, and we start to think that’s the norm
Great to see you here!!
Rely on history textbooks, not social media. There’s a reason why modern human relationships lasted 345,000 years, prior to the invention of marriage. Marriage is too much of a risk.
They make money by feeding both sides. LOL. They tell you what you want to hear. I wonder how her real life is working out. Probably no better than anyone else’s.
This doesn’t just apply to marriage, but life as a whole. When people see someone who has what they want yet don’t have, they are quick in calling that person “lucky”. However the concept of luck is quite vague when you think about it. Can I be considered lucky if I simply spent every single day of my life believing in something and working in order to get closer to it? I was skinny in the past, now I am fit. Was it because I was lucky? No that happened because I’ve spend my last 3 years upgrading my diet, working out and practising sport every week. Did Eric Clapton become a great guitar player out of luck? No he became what he is because he spent his life believing he would and he practised obsessively every day. Relationship need work, maintenance, energy to be and stay healthy. It takes commitment, it takes sacrifice. Others are not more lucky than you, they just believed and worked harder than you to achieve it.
When you say someone is lucky a lot of the time its just a figure of speech for the other person being in an enviable/desirable position. Like calling a man lucky cause he has a hot wife for instance.
@@benross9174 Exactly because it’s a self-reissuring mechanism “It’s not me not doing enough, it’s just that this person was very lucky”. We struggle to admit that often times we don’t achieve what we want because we did not do the right things or did not work enough
Many things in life do involve luck. You could be born with wealthy parents. You didn’t earn that, it just happened. You could be born to grow 7′ tall. You didn’t earn that height, but that height could make you an NBA star. Some people are born with severe disabilities. They didn’t deserve that, but they’re unlucky in life. Also, somebody eventually wins the powerball lottery, they’re extremely lucky. Also, some people meet the perfect life partner randomly in high school. They’re lucky. Luck exists
@@jasonbooberry8363 Luck exists BUT you gotta put in the work to achieve your goals. A 7 footer still has to put in a lot of work to become an NBA player. You don’t believe me? Just compare the amount of 7 footers around the world with the amount of 7 footers that end up making it to the NBA. Also, a disability can be an obstacle for certain things but not for others and I dare to say this: we are all disabled in some way. Some people are disabled in motivation, some are disabled in empathy, in emotional intelligence. Life is a matter of perspective. There are those who will complain, who will find narratives and excuses to justify their mediocrity without taking accountability and there are those who work through it and keep on chasing greatness. The good news is: we all get to choose who we want to be each day. Each day is a new opportunity. What you are today doesn’t necessarily shapes who you will be tomorrow. I know it sounds cliche, I know I am sounding like a Nike commercial but TRUST me when you actually get out of your comfort zone, when you are motivated enough to work hard to chase a certain goal and you start seeing the results, you start to understand what it’s all about. I was a TOTALLY different person years ago. If you told my old self that one day I would have become who I am today, I would have laughed at you. Finally, guess what, luck or bad luck eventually runs out and when you hustle every day, eventually there will be the time where luck is on your side. We all get lucky and unlucky, it’s just that some actually make good use of it while others don’t or don’t show up at all
The harder one works–and the more conscientious they are–the “luckier” they tend to be.
Go watch the movie Unfaithful from 2002. She has a Good loving husband and a good father to their child. But she goes out and has an affair with some player. When you have an affair, you’re not just betraying your spouse but also your children.
That was an amazing movie. Diane Lane was awesome in it.
“Love, Actually” has 1 case of cheating (unless you count Rick Grimes’ kiss in the alley).
@@gumnaamaadmi007One of my favorites! Sexy milf vibes in those 🔥 scenes!
Fee mails base there decisions on there emotions
It doesn’t matter how good someone is. She probably didn’t want him in the first place. Some people go through life never experiencing love. It takes luck. It really does.
“I knew who he was…” Honestly, that was very powerful to hear from the woman in the TikTok
At her age, I doubt that you can know someone so well…..
@@rosehiver6262 You can get a really good idea of who someone is by knowing who their closest friends are and being around their family for some time, basically folks who have known them for years. Clearly that’s not foolproof but it’s a start when so much of dating is often done sequestered from other people.
@@Matt_is_a_Boring_Name I’m a firm believer in two people knowing each other for years, before pursuing romance. Your partner should be your true friend.
How they handle disagreement. How they grew up. Who their closest friends are and how they are quality wise. Daily habits. Beliefs and value system. Can tell you a lot about a person
@@Csepowertrip123 That’s cap. What she knew is how much money he was making and he just happened to make enough to be a “good man”
Good husbands aren’t a matter of luck; they’re the result of mutual respect, effort, and commitment in a relationship. Both partners contribute to building a strong, loving marriage.
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@@CourtneyRyanI don’t know what kind of woman you are, but I do know that you are very pretty woman and charmy… Lucky go ever is in relationship with you…
@@user-yh1bc1pl2s Stop giving women compliments on their appearance, especially over the Internet. You’re fueling their egos.
@@DDD11239 keep the instructions for your yourself and your friends. I don’t accept any kind of instruction or suggestions or anything like that. So, you would better do your own business.
My mistake cost me $1,500,000 in a lifetime of wealth accumulation and 2.5 years to get the divorce and financial separation complete. That’s how critical it is to choose wisely.
Did get a wonderful son out of the marriage though. (Manic-Depressive/Bipolar? Run for your life!)
Yeah right. LOL. Sucker comes to mind if you didn’t get a prenup. LOL
There’s a reason why modern human relationships lasted 345,000 years, prior to the invention of marriage. Marriage is too much of a risk.
@@DDD11239 Yes, but those relationships were much closer to today’s market place than more recent societies. Kings and princes (think Genghis Khan) would have harems of women while most other men were peasant (or worse – unpaid) laborers or canon fodder.
Back then – It’s good to be King. Nowadays – It’s good to be Chad.
its hard to tell a healthy woman from one with mood issues frankly.
I was trying to diffuse constantly with someone with BPD, in my defense(didnt know she had it) , she simply seemed more “feminine” than others, which is apparently what alot of people view BPD as.
I think this is why guys end up in these situations, because a normal women still has mood swings and we still have to assume the best and pull through , so its sets us up for giving to the wrong person since we are programmed to cater as gentlemen to varying degrees and deal with their unwillingness to communicate directly.
mental illness is definitely a deal-breaker. Not only in the person, but in the family- it’s genetic; if you had kids with a person who isn’t manic/schizophrenic there’s a VERY good chance your kids will develop a mental illness. Genetic hygiene.
Almost like “pick better” is actually good advice. The women who get offended when told to pick better are the problem.
And the men who are told to “pick better” give up after seeing such a large hay stack one needs to find a needle within.
@@pace1195 It’s worse than that. To quote someone from a men’s forum: “It’s like trying to find a needle in a needle stack.”
The good men get burned bad by the one’s that don’t think that way. Courtney has the best facial expressions!
No ears though.
Hi Courtney!
Some will be on their best behavior while dating, but they will show their true colors after the wedding. There is always that risk.
Hope that you and your husband are having a great week!
Yep that’s what happened to me. They change once they have you locked in and then they can ruin your life, take your house, etc.
@@fabulousglamlife There’s a reason why our species’ relationships lasted 345,000 years, prior to the invention of marriage. Marriage is too much of a risk.
Most people aren’t that good at being con artists.
@@DDD11239 Here we go again. How many of these responses did you type?
Life for most men was too much of a risk back then. At least with the invention of marriage, especially religious marriage, men weren’t roving gangs of bandits causing chaos. Unfortunately, feminization went too far and society swung the pendulum back to marriage being too risky because too many men said yes to women’s societal demands over their own well being.
It’s always funny when a woman tries to change a “bad boy” into a good man.
Women chase “bad boys” because either 1. they love drama, or 2. they want to be abused so they can lay claim to being “oppressed by the patriarchy”.
Never happens. They just get worse. A badder boy.
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“But, But he’s 6’0 though.” Just ignore the fact he also has a rotating roster of 10s too. Yeahhh
Especially when she’s well into her 40s or older and should know better
What she also didnt say is when you are a good woman you are more likely to attract more good men than a bad woman would. So it’s not luck it’s her being a good woman that helped her land a good man.
Exactly. You attract what you are
Do you really believe they’re both good just because she said they are? Hint: good women spend very little time online and they definitely don’t have tiktok
“He’s a bad man, what makes you think he’d be a good boyfriend or husband?”
Say it louder for the Delulus in the back, Courtney!!
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What is a delulu? You’re allowing social media to influence your vocabulary. Read books older than the 21st Century.
@@DDD11239 Someone’s a grumpy boomer today.
@@DDD11239The only thing I can think of is another way of saying delusional people.
@@DDD11239 😆
“Women marry men thinking they can change them and men marry women thinking they’ll never change. In the end both are disappointed”.
– Winston Churchill
Which means that men are more likely to love women as they are. Women are, then, less likely to return the favor.
@@wanyelewis9667 Exactly
This is so important to hear. Too many people treat relationships like it’s a matter of blind risk that we have no control over. It’s a huge lie, and it’s severely damaging relations between the sexes.
I fell into the mental trap with my ex, thinking “I can save her.” Nope. That’s just who she is. I needed to change my preferences because the trap is self-inflicted.
Being a good woman first is an essential requirement. Same applies to men. You got to think about who you need to start showing up as.
Great, is non-choker on the Ick list yet? I haven’t watched all 600 videos.
I was just reading a book on healthy marriages written by a pastor.
*After counseling for years he realized women didn’t understand how to respect men, infact , they flat out said they didn’t respect their husbands but they “loved” them.*
And men in return after being constantly disrespected distanced themselves from their wives.
So the pastors point was to love past those moments and it turns the other around. Also another point was that women literally had to be taught the significance of not belittling their husband constantly.
*What stood out to me was that women had to be taught to be respectful and had apparently had no clue respect was part of love.*
The pastor was obviously graceful to the women in his stories. His point to men was be more affectionate because she is disrespectful due to not feeling loved overtly.
*But what’s that say about women that they have to be taught respect comes with love? In other words, they don’t even know what love is?They cannot instinctively identify what respectful behavior is? Or just have almost no self awareness*
That tracks with my belief that women don’t understand men at all. I’ve really started to think that some part of the misandry in feminism stems from women expecting men to act like women, and therefore “men are trash” when they don’t. The lack of respect (which men live and die on) is one of those points where women are clueless about men
They know. Women choose to treat their boss with respect. They choose to treat their man with disrespect. They know there will be consequences from one, but not the other.
@@brandondegraaf yea in the book some knew and then some claimed to not even get their behavior was literally disrespectful, its possible they got used to it and are on autopilot.
But they somehow overlook their resentment as being connected to disrespectful behavior.
I always notice this, female behavior is fairly normal until they like you, then thats when you see what the deal is
thank you for this courtney!! as a teen girl i see some of my friends fall into dysfunctional patterns in their relationships and its so sad to see. no matter how much i tell them it’s not healthy to declare their desire to marry only after 1 month of dating, or that the boyfriend’s behaviors are scary / toxic, they keep falling to this cycle. i really hope these girls / people, who i wont see anymore due to graduating, will realize the weight of their relationships and reject the boys who cause them pain / distress.
“You’re going to make someone a great husband someday.” Hearing that since I was 18. More recently: “You’d be a good father.”
Still single, never married, over 50, with no children.
Had several long-term relationships, but unfortunately none that worked out.
Telling someone over 50 they’d make a good father seems actually cruel. You should check out the book “No More Mr Nice Guy”. It sounds like it might resonate with you.