10 Things Men Love About Your Body (That You Don’t)
He sees your body differently than you do. The things you obsess over? He barely notices. The things you try to hide? He might actually love. Here's what's really going on in his head. 🔥
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Your body isn't a problem to be solved — it's what he's attracted to. Men don't experience your body the way you do. They're not zooming in on your stomach, your stretch marks, your cellulite, or any of the things you try to hide. They're taking in all of you — and what they see is someone they want. When you understand what men actually love, you can stop hiding and start letting yourself be seen.
In this video, I break down 10 things men love about your body that you're probably insecure about — from your stomach and thighs, to how you look naked in daylight, to how you look during sex — plus a bonus insight on your age and how your body has changed over time.
These aren't empty compliments — they're real insights into what men experience when they're with you. And most of it? Will make you feel really good about the body you already have.
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Unbelievable!!
Thank you 🙏🏻 I needed the one about pores and acne today.
absolutely!! men really dont care about that stuff I promise!! we dont see pores and blemishes lol
Thank you for this reminder! I’m a woman and have had this exact feedback in my previous relationship and it allowed me to show up fully & in turn the intimacy was mindblowing. Though the relationship ended after more than a decade but it allowed me to show up as me with all my perfect imperfections.
Interesting why most women have bought into the idea of the impossible perfection standards overtime.
aw THANK YOU for sharing this!!! im so glad you had that experience and your relationship and it allowed for so much deeper connection – your authentic unapologetic imperfect expression is truly what activates men and makes them crave polarized relationship with you <3
Amazing video❤
Thank you so much, I’m really glad you enjoyed it! 😊
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for this!!!! ❤
you are so so so welcome!!! <3
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Oh my gosh, Mat, I cried when you got to the bonus😂. I’m going to listen to this over and over until it becomes part of my consciousness. Thank you for releasing me from unreasonable expectations. ❤
YESSS Im so happy to hear that my dear!! you are FREEEEEE!! <3
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in a while! I just turned 64 in January, and I have to attest that you are correct, much younger men are approaching me and it makes me smile! I’m single I have been divorced for a couple of years. And I am more confident today than I’ve ever been in my life. So, I am believing that the Wright man and I are going to get together and have an amazing life!
Matt, do you honestly know what cellulite is 😮. It has nothing to do with cushion or curves. P.S. video timing is off, your voice over isn’t matching/syncing your mouth movements
its fat pushing through the dermal layer of skin so it definitely plays a role in the appearance of curves in the body… it’s a wonderful part of the character of your body <3
Only 2% of women do not have Cellulite. They tend to be infertile, too.
Women’s tissue is softer and more stretchy and squishy. To be able to go through pregnancy. It comes with Cellulite.
Hating on Cellulite is like hating on breasts. Fatty lumps dangling around our front. How awkward. Yet somehow… we decided they are hot. Guess what men for centuries liked about Women’s thighs… just now some gay Designer from overseas decided it’s not en vogue this autumn season. As if that would have impact. They tried that with hips since the 90’s. But hips are enticing our males since our species first perforned the upright walk. No matter how much you Photoshop models into little boys – instagram models that men look at: hips baby! The wider – the better!
Since I’m transmasc and taking testosterone, I am more used to things I love about my body that men don’t 😅😢
haha love it thanks for sharing! 🤗
1. Tummy
2. Stretch marks
3. Cellulite
4. Breast
5. Body hair
6. Body weight
7. Skin
8. Thighs
9. Naked in daylight
10. How you look during sex
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