Life After Divorce for Men | Men After Divorce | Divorced Men | How Divorce Changes a Man
Men After Divorce | Divorced Men | How Divorce Changes a Man | Divorce Support tells the story of how men handle divorce harder than women but also tells the good parts of being single. Moving on after Divorce for men is difficult. As a men's divorce divorce coach, I've seen how divorce changes a man and have seen that men handle divorce harder than women because it's usually the female that's been checked out of the marriage with on average giving it 2 years prior to telling their spouse. Even if you're single this video is a must see for every guy because it can be a cautionary tale of the risk factors that may lead to the fall of a marriage. It will help you understand more about yourself and others going through one of the worst traumas in men's lifetime. This isn't a fluff video but a raw, data driven representation on some surprising facts for single men. The data begins with the not so good parts about being single for guys and discusses why men handle divorce harder than women. Men just handle divorce differently than women. The shock of what happens to guys after a breakup leads to health, social, economic, emotional deterioration and even suicide. Brokenhearted guys don't want to hear this, many want to stay in the "I want her back phase" but like it or not, if it's over, the one commonality seen in men who thrive through this process is their ability to embrace the single lifestyle. Then there will be some cool surprises that happen when you're single for guys. The second part of this video are good parts about being single for guys. Data shows that once embracing the lifestyle, they have more options, hold themselves to a higher standard and everything comes together; their social life, their family life, their youth! So what happens when you're suddenly single after the smoke clears is really your choice in the matter. Men feel helpless but if done correctly they're powerful. They get more in touch with their masculinity as they start working on themselves and even how to look single.
Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
0:37 When your wife wants out
2:03 Why Men Handle Divorce Harder than Women
3:18 Not so good parts about being single for guys
4:30 What Happens when guys suddenly go through divorce
5:57 How Men Handle Divorce
6:39 Good parts about being single for guys
8:32 Surprising facts for single men
9:43 Changing your Paradigm
10:09 What Divorced Guys Have in Common
14:36 best way to getting over a divorce for guys
15:20 Men and Remarriage
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What a great topic. ! All my friends who are divorced – it’s been the women who leaves the men ! Then they left them – gets the house – the kids and their pensions !
What a great point you bring up and I hope you share this vid with them. I’m very curious as to how they’re doing now? Usually, the anger is the last to leave but it’s not crippling.
@@Mensdivorcecoach once you accept you are being f*cked and you can’t do anything about it and it’s not worth the Agro fighting – they just accept things / they get on with it !
I hope they embrace it. Take it a step further. Take charge and enjoy it. Many guys as mentioned (and including me) get married right away. Happens all the time.
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Im going through it aftet 18 years married
@@kingdino849 Schedule a 1 on 1 Brother. http://www.mensdivorcecoaching.com I know it hurts.
Love the channel,it’s been helping alot
@@grahamodonnell4980 Join our Free FB Group. It’s private. Just write that on the questions that I recommeneded you. Thanks for the compliment. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
I need help .
This video is everything! As a relationship coach, everything Rene says in this video is pure truth. Men do have a very difficult time with divorce and Rene’s advice is spot on. I’ve found it takes men 4-8 years before they are to change their lives after divorce but if they follow his advice, they will be much happier way sooner. Men, listen up! It’s time to take back your life.
Stacy, you’re too kind and appreciate your feedback. Funny, you’re a relationship coach and I’m a divorce coach. LOL. The biggest take away I can give is the change in paradigm; from saying STBX to just X. 4-8 years was the number I was looking for so thank you for sharing. If you ever want to add your link, feel free, I’ll accept it (I have to approve each comment because I get a lot of literally witchdoctor to cast a spell on your ex comments or “I wanna have a baby with you” comments).
I’m taking my freaking life back!
Correct, took me 10 yrs and another women, sooooo maybe not????????
Thank you for this, I was not married but together for 13 years. All this felt close to home and I’m embracing the single life and rebuilding myself. Stay strong guys
Great to hear and thank you for your comment. Yes, embracing it is what’s most helpful. Also, thank you for letting other men know that they will get beyond this.
Thanks a lot my bro! Back at ya!
My wife served me with papers two weeks ago. This video is exactly what I needed. More affirmation on what I am feeling.
Thanks. Very true that you need this and that’s why I did it. CW has it so wrong. Please, join our FB Group. Free, confidential and it is the fastest growing group for divorcing men on FB. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
This guy is speaking a lot of truth man! I went through this … and still growing…. 🤜🤛
Naturally, I would hope that perhaps y’all work things out and reconciled and all that. I think it’s pretty dirty pool love the way that women initiate divorces. I don’t suppose she could’ve sat down with you and seeing what y’all could’ve worked out. Anyways my dude God bless you best wishes. One last thought, if she did that to you thank God you found out now instead of being in a more critical position when she pulled this stunt.
Absufuckinglutely man…me too!
How you doing after 2 years @phoenixrising451
I’m a week deep into my divorce and feeling miserable. I know what needs to be done, although I’m struggling to find the motivation. A huge hole now exists where I once found comfort and stability. I’m confused and hurt and for a lack of a better way to explain, I’m addicted to a substance that has been ripped from me(my ex wife). I appreciate the blunt honesty in your words and advice.
Hey buddy, thank you for your comment. That huge hole in your heart will get filled but it’s up to you how you want it filled, with anger, disappointment and resentment or with fulfillment, growth and understanding. I’m glad you found my channel. I hope you join our FB Group and schedule a free one on one with me because, I wish I had the help I needed when this happened. Can I help? Absolutely, but I need you to find the strength to talk. At minimum, you’ll walk out feeling better and with a plan. Do it for yourself and no one else
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Hang on bro. It is a huge stressor. It’s traumatic. I’ve been where you are. You probably don’t even feel like eating and can’t sleep. If you do sleep you probably have nightmares. It’s hell on this earth. But I promise with every fiber of my being you can get through this. And remember you are not what she is telling everyone. That’s just what she is doing to cover her tracks.
I see this comment is 9 months old. How are you doing now? I hope you’re feeling better and doing better brother!
@@Minnow4397 I appreciate it’s reading your reply. I’m going though a separation and she is poisoning the minds of all the people in our circles to ensure I am the bad guy when I truly did not do anything wrong. Nothing that cannot be worked on. I need to see past this. I cannot and I’m really depressed and in a negative place.
Same here brother, 30 yrs, she’s fucking another man that she ended up marrying. Sucks big time, I’m still struggling.
Agree with much of this – my ex-wife knew (and had made up her mind) long before she broke the news and moved out.
Mine 2
Everything you said was exactly how my divorce unfolded. Thank you so much for sharing this.
My pleasure and I hope you’re doing better. Join our divorce support group.
40 minutes ago the judge granted my divorce 35 months later. Finally I can move forward. Just subbed
35 months is unfortunately only about 3 months longer than the average. Thank you for subbing but why don’t you do this for yourself, join our FB Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978 or make sure you make a 1 on 1 with me. First one is free and I’m not one of those that hides the price so it’s on the site but again, first one is free and I swear, it’s not a commercial. Believe me, you’ll walk out thinking FACK, should have done this a while ago. http://www.mensdivorcecoaching.com
Whoever said money can’t buy happiness, has never paid for a divorce.
Man you nailed it! I was miserable in all of 2022 grieving. This new year is exercising, embracing my new status of single and reinventing myself
how is progress eddie?
My marriage to a money hungry single mother ended years ago. Got drunk ,for 6 months.Sober up and started doing stuff.For me.I succeded and never looked back.I did not get involved with women.I lost my trust in them,but I did have lovers that I cast away after they started having ”feelings” That was the 90’s. Now in my 50’s I do just fine,retired at 45,bought houses,flats,farms.I do not ever want to get married.Women are such a drag on a man.
Rich women will divorce Does nt matter whether she was rich to start with, or you made her one
Nailed it, My wife filed last week, and I’m now a single dad of three. Everything will be ok
Going through the same thing. Got served on the 21st of September
@@trisno112I’m currently in process. She went on a trip with family, came back with “her eyes open”. Called me many things that didn’t make sense. I showed up to our home with all her stuff gone. Guess I’m now a divorced man 🤷🏻♂️
@@trisno112but how bro? It’s 2023 , this information has been out there for years , why didn’t you see it coming?
@@jorgetalamantes8674dude if you haven’t spoken to her since then , I recommend you don’t at all , things would go a lot smoother
I filed last year. In the final stages. I have met many single dad’s along the way. One was at the gun show with some of his kids. Sold me some nice accessories. He is director of sales for the East Coast.
No wife happy life. I regret getting married. Now I have to pay cash and prizes and reward her for Not doing a heck of a lot
Divorce is the gift that keeps on taking. Heard that one.
Hope you learned your lesson. I know a guy who got married three times. The probability of third marriages getting divorced is i think 80 %
100% Going through a divorce after 34 years. She was already checked out and when she sprang it on me, she screamed about everything I ever did real and imagined. She used to be sweet and caring, but now she’s angry all the time, dismissive, and cruel. I’m pushing through one day at a time.
Amazing how cold they become. Keep the chin up!
looks like my reality for now divorced 2 weeks feeling very bed. + 1 kid
Same! Going through this now! I can’t take her abuse anymore!
Head down, forward movement. We’re all in the same boat on this thread.
Divorced men know the divorce laws very well. A single guy has no idea what the laws are in their state.
Married for 15 years to a drop dead gorgeous Russian women. She cheated, I divorced her 3 years ago. She didn’t come out good in the divorce. Kept my house and my business. Remodeled my house, learned to play golf and just bought a new 2023 corvette. Life is good
See, the data is correct. I hear that a lot but for many, it’s hard to move on. Congratulations
My Man!!! Exactly…Now thats some good inspiration
Got divorced over 10 years ago. It was a nightmare. Just wanted men just starting the process to know that the misery really is temporary. It doesn’t feel like it now but with time life is going to better than what it was before.
Take care of yourself. It’s worth getting through the crap.
I was really hurting in the beginning but as long as keep healing my heart it’s going to get better for me. I’m starting to feel a different way about the situation and not really care about what she is doing 😕
I wish this guy had been around when I went through my divorce 19 years ago. He’s solid.
for sure