Nice Guys Don’t Win After Divorce — Here’s Why
Nice Guys Don’t Win After Divorce — Here’s Why: They say nice guys finish last, and after divorce, that truth hits even harder. In this video, we break down exactly why being the good guy — the safe, predictable, always-available man — didn’t save your marriage and won’t save your dating life either.
You’ll learn how the traits you thought made you a great partner—kindness, loyalty, emotional availability—can backfire when they lack edge, confidence, and sexual tension. We’ll explore how seduction, masculine energy, and self-worth play a bigger role than anyone ever taught you.
This isn’t about playing games — it’s about reclaiming your presence, learning new rules, and refusing to let divorce define you. If you’ve ever wondered why she left even though you did everything right, this is the video you need to see.
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The video explores the struggles and painful realizations when a wife emotionally detaches, leaving her husband in a state of **heartbreak**. It highlights the challenges of "nice guys" in relationships and touches on **relationship advice**, offering a raw look at modern **dating advice**. It also touches on **boundaries** and **relationships** in general.
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This is so true Rene. There is a thin line between being a nice guy (which most women abhor) and being real. I learnt this when I said F it, I won’t stop caring BUT I won’t care as much.
Armando, I know you’re the take charge kind of guy. There’s no doubt about that one. We also, however tend to become complacent and often, our spouse ends up emasculating us. Looking good in Miami brother.
Boah. Just what I needed to see and hear. Thanks, Rene. Hope all is well with you & yours.
Crazy Rafi, both you and Joe wrote almost the same thing! HAHA. I guess this was needed
Exactly what I needed to hear today. I make myself too available. Its a diffiuclt switch to turn off when you like someone. It can be hard to find that middle ground of showing interest vs coming on too strong!
Crazy Joe, both you and Rafi wrote almost the same thing! HAHA. I guess there was a need
@@MensdivorcecoachI just read his response! Funny!
I know I write a lot, I need to know that I’m not alone with waking in a panic often.. like I don’t have my kids and though I’m getting them today.. I often have a panic attack with how life is! Broken family and divorced.. I can’t say that I am where I feel stable or thriving, in life. I just hate this situation and I know that it’s real and this is how it’s been for years.. I’m not raising my kids or living how I planned or even thought could be.. but it’s just lonely and painful and sad.. I try to have so many positive thoughts and see my wins. But maybe I waited to long and grew my negative emotions and thoughts of my self and when I thought things would one day feel real or normal,,,‘it’s legit just everyday feeling like it’s a broken life..
Anyone know how to stop the waking up in panic and even though live for more kids, time and moving forward still just has you hurting?. That life just feels forced and just not ok?.. so much is out of my Comtrol it never is feeling like things are fine. I’m still and always will be connected to my ex through these kids and it’s like a constant struggle to live a life together.. I don’t want her anymore but it’s a living death/ grief
Jimmy, have we ever talked? If not, why not? I appreciate your comments but you’re allowing yourself to spiral down a very dark place. You need, I mean, you need help and guidance but you have to let people in to help you. I went through a depression when I lost my opportunity to practice medicine and that scarred me. When you scar, contrary to popular believe, scars are weakness in the skin. It’s dead tissue. Prone to re-injury. My divorce on the other hand did the opposite. I thought I would want to die but it liberated me. I bruised but didn’t scar. More like broken muscle when it repairs becomes stronger. You don’t know this. But this can become your comeback!
Keep going Rene!