It’s Not You — It’s the Narcissist’s Pattern

If you've been asking yourself, Why does he treat me this way? What am I doing wrong? How did I become so hard to love? — let me stop you right there. It’s not you. It’s the pattern.

In this video, I explain how narcissists follow the same predictable blueprint in every relationship: idealization, devaluation, withdrawal, and control. You’ll learn why their behavior has nothing to do with your worth — and how to reclaim your power by shifting your mindset.

If you’re ready to break the cycle and start choosing yourself, then the first step is to book a BREAK-THROUGH TO BREAK-FREE session with me here:

Chapters:
0:00 It’s Not You — It’s the Pattern
1:42 How the Narcissist Hooks You
3:18 The Shift From Love to Control
5:10 Breaking Free From the Cycle
7:02 Reclaiming Your Power

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