It’s Not You It’s The Pattern #shorts

It’s not you. It’s the pattern.

If you’ve been wondering why a narcissistic partner treats you this way — stop blaming yourself. You didn’t cause it. You didn’t “become” unlovable. This is the same cycle they repeat with everyone:
✨ Idealize you
✨ Withdraw & criticize
✨ Make you chase their approval

It’s control — not love.
When you stop trying to fix them and start choosing YOU, that’s when you reclaim your power.

#DivorceSupport #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #ToxicRelationships #HighConflictDivorce #BreakTheCycle #EmotionalAbuseAwareness #ReclaimYourPower #DivorceHealing #RelationshipPatterns

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