The Most Attractive Men Are Doing This (According To Women)
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@CourtneyRyan Happy Wednesday Courtney! This is Caleb. Your videos have helped me stop chasing and pedestalizing women and treat them like human beings. I’m constantly working on becoming a magnetic man, and I even wrote about some of your advice that really spoke to me in my rough draft of my advice essay for my English class. Instead of letting myself objectify women, I treat them like human beings, and I focus on myself by exercising, doing well in school (I’m in college now btw), etc. I don’t chase anymore. Your videos have definitely helped me become a well-rounded human being. Thanks for these videos. I really enjoy your advice. It’s made me a better person through and through. God bless you.
Thanks, Courtney!
Once again guys, pay attention do what they do not what they say. A lot of women say the want certain things in a guy but they guys they are dating is far from it.
My personal experience is that you can do all those things and the girl can still be uninterested or lose interest altogether, probably she wasn’t into you in the first place. Just a reminder to keep your head up and move on
I believe this speaks more to acting out of your integrity without expectation or reciprocation. Doing things or behaving in a certain way in order to get something is transactional, at worst manipulative.
Which head?
“That’s what she said”
*The most magnetic men aren’t chasing, convincing, or proving themselves. They’re simply moving with direction, and that calm dominance does all the talking.*
As a woman I think this is very well expressed and true, thank you.
very well said, it’s exactly that and everything else is redundant
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The most attractive men are doing this according to women. 1. They pay attention to small details. .. 2. They take care of themselves. .. 3. They have a calming presence.. 4. They are consistent in the little things.. 5. They stay emotionally grounded. … 6. They have passions and Interests. … 7. They put in effort. .. 8. They are dependable and respectful… 9.
They are authentic and humble. .. 10. They have a kind sense of humor. …
Another useful and valid piece of information. Thank you, Courtney.
I can definitely attest to the value of the first point. I had a woman tell me that I was good at remembering the small things and “making people feel seen”. Things like the type of books and films she enjoyed, the names of her friends and family, her hobbies, events she was involved with, etc. That was valuable feedback.
Courtney, I’m listening to you on playback as I’m currently working on French. I’m an upper-intermediate. Working on learning the correct prepositions following certain verbs by heart. Normally à ou de.
The consistency one is bs. The guys that do the opposite of this get results
I was thinking the same thing. The guys I know who get results with many girls don’t put in any work for any of them.
@@ecasino29Exactly. She’s saying this because the ideal guy for them is an alpha simp, which doesn’t exist
Having drive and direction. Having fun doing it while being interesting. Being comfortable in one’s skin.
These I find anyone can do to make themselves more attractive.
Almost always _interesting_ is not correlated with _consistency_ as the theme of Courtney’s video. This is why men fail because most women would rather not be bored (pain point), but still want consistency, comfort, and safety.
This is why Bubba the biker gets more attention than Adam the accountant. Interesting > Consistency or more appropriately Not Bored > Personal Risk of trauma
Trustworthy and dependable? You mean BO-RING aka head for the exits and the next entry on the roster!
The most attractive men aren’t just defined by looks; they radiate confidence, authenticity, and a calm self-awareness that draws people in. They know who they are, what they stand for, and they don’t bend themselves to fit others’ expectations. That inner clarity and grounded energy is magnetic. One book that really speaks to this idea is Let Your Soul Speak Through Your Eyes by Camilla Drosven. It’s thoughtful, inspiring, and gently reminds you to connect with your authentic self and let your true essence shine. Reading it feels like a quiet conversation with your own soul.
Like these women have emotional intelligence!!
Summary –
1. Attention to Small Details – Remembers little things, shows genuine interest.
2. Takes Care of Themselves – Good hygiene, grooming, and clean style.
3. Calming Presence – Relaxed, confident, makes her feel safe.
4. Consistency – Reliable in small everyday actions, not just big promises.
5. Emotionally Grounded – Handles stress well, stable, not reactive.
6. Passions & Interests – Has hobbies or pursuits that show individuality.
7. Effort in Presentation – Clothes fit well, intentional style, groomed.
8. Dependable & Respectful – Follows through, treats everyone with respect.
9. Authentic & Humble – Genuine, admits mistakes, confident without arrogance.
10. Kind Sense of Humor – Playful, inclusive, makes her feel good.
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I put in effort for myself and the women all the time being the best version of myself I am known at the massage parlour as a dapper suit wearer by the women…..
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I’m 53 and have done all these things and never even had a date yet. Watching this channel for a couple of years and nothing.