When a Narcissist Suddenly Becomes “Parent of the Year” During Divorce
Have you ever watched a narcissistic parent suddenly become extremely involved with the children during divorce and wondered, “Where was this parent during the marriage?”
In this video, I explain why a narcissistic parent may suddenly become much more involved during a high-conflict divorce, why trying to expose the performance can backfire, and what you can do instead to protect your credibility, your peace, and your relationship with your children.
I talk about the importance of creating contrast rather than competing with the performance, why you should avoid recruiting your children as witnesses, and how consistency over time can reveal patterns far more effectively than trying to convince everyone that your ex is performing.
I also explain why being right and looking credible are not always the same thing, how to document meaningful behavior strategically, and why your children should never feel responsible for managing either parent’s emotions.
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