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Happy New Year, Courtney! 😮 Congratulations on your first child this summer—your baby hit the jackpot with a mom like you, one very lucky little guy! 😅
You’re so sweet, thank you 🥹🤍
@CourtneyRyan you’re welcome.💜🦋
@CourtneyRyanIt’s a boy?
Women should know, a relationship is the farthest thing from being comfortable. It’s about supporting your partner.
Not always true. Mastering yourself as a man will make it far easier to provide an environment of stability and safety, small things like emotional temperence, disciplined empathy, and presence makes a big difference. She even said that when she said comfort, she was really meaning safety. Listen to the video bro
ehhh le what??
The reason so many men struggle with dating is that we have convinced ourselves that happiness and purpose magically exists on the other side of a relationship or a family. While marriage and kids can be deeply enriching, they also take a LOT of work and a lot of sacrifices are required. Whenever people convince themselves that happiness exists in someone or something outside of their direct control, it’s a recipe for heartbreak and disaster.
For me, as I’ve learned to just enjoy life and go out to social events and bars with the only goal to be making friends and having fun, it changed everything for me. I feel so much calmer and confident around women knowing that if they aren’t romantically interested, that I’ve at least potentially made a friend, and that I’ll be fine either way since I have an endless number of other women I can approach and talk to that will potentially reciprocate interest (friendly or romantically). Once that shift finally happened for me, all of these green flags women look for just naturally become part of your vibe, but again, the only way for it to be real and not faked is when you KNOW you’ll be okay, no matter what, even if you’re single.
Hope this helps someone.
In reality, these pointers only applies to a mentally stable woman looking for a healthy relationship. Not all women fall in that category.
Bingo. Courtney tends to present from the viewpoint of young, immature, insecure women with unrealistic standards. The man has to be everything because that kind of woman has nothing to offer. He has do everything right because she’s so wrong. He has to make her feel secure because she’s insecure. He can’t show any anger or frustration because she gets scared too easily. The kind of woman she’s describing is weak, without a strong foundation, without resilience. That’s too much work and it means a man can’t be himself with her because she can’t handle him in his inevitable bad moments. He has to tolerate and forgive hers, but she gets to run away from his.
This is huge. These days, mentally stable women are rarer than you would think. One false move and you’re a creep or being falsely accused of SA
Why would a man want any other type of woman?
Was going to leave my own comment about this, but you nailed it. You’re lucky to find one who isn’t being completely hypocritical in these categories. Case-in-point, when she complains about her ex: If you agree, she thinks, “He’s agreeing with me, he sounds weak.” If you disagree or try to question why she thinks so, “He’s getting defensive, he could be the same.” If you change the subject, she thinks, “He’s not listening to me, I feel like he’s putting me in a back seat.” What’s left, sitting there and staring at her while blinking? She thinks, “Wow, is this guy stupid?” And the whole time, she’s doing the very same thing that causes her those red flags on that date – HE should be the one forming those conclusions at that point, not her.
You do know that most women aren’t insane, right? Go out and talk to people on the street. You’ll quickly see that real life is nothing like on the internet, which hyper fixates on the bad – making one voice seem like a thousand. Most women are normal. If all you ever come across are crazies, then you’re the one keeps looking for, finding, and approaching them.
How do you express interest in a balanced way?
As a man, I also want safety in a relationship. There is pressure for men to be the leader and take responsibility for mistakes. I want to know that a woman will not withhold affection or keep reminding me of decisions that do not work out. I also seek the safety of knowing a woman will not abandon me if I reveal a weakness or insecurity in a non-trauma dumping way.
Or leave you because you got mad at another driver in traffic. It’s too risky to be with an insecure woman who never feels safe. Men don’t want a women who can’t handle masculine energy. Get with a woman who likes that and is attracted to it, not afraid of it.
I do not let my emotions control me. I’m stable, calm and do not get overly angry. I don’t like to say things or make decisions in an emotional state. I don’t need to dominate situations. But…I’m single because all of those behaviors…over time…are BORING.
Im usually able to be this for women, but Ive been going through a lot lately and inadvertently do hot and cold behavior. Ive been surprised at how quickly something gets interpreted as manipulative or something. Im very physically attractive, and it leads to polarized positive or negative projections quickly. Such a headache
Thank you for simple and sage advice Courtney, its appreciated. Happy New Year and congrats on the nuptials and soon to be motherhood.
‘I can breathe around this person’. I like that, very well put. Happy New Year from an European subscriber, Courtney.
Happy new year Courtney, I always walk closer to the road to protect the lady from traffic. 🙂 Jon
So a woman will pick the abusive cheating bad boy because she feels safe with him….. right.
Good point(s) 👍.Thank U.Have a 2026 full of BLESSINGS.🙏
Wishing you a satisfying Sunday, Courtney! I hope you had a wonderful NY and I know this year will be a good year for you ❤️
This is great information and I want to put it into practice! The problem is there’s so many things it feels like you have to do to get or attract a woman and so many videos and so much information. It’s very overwhelming like if I don’t get all of these things right, it’s over and I fumbled. How would you filter out what to focus on? Love your videos!
One woman said too me today all the girls like me in my suits and she ask do I always dress like this.
Strange how book called Elite Mind of Seduction by Nico Raye has flown under the radar. It’s one of those hidden gems that can seriously change the way you approach dating.
The fact that a book like Elite Mind of Seduction by Nico Raye exists and isnt everywhere is insane.
It’s almost criminal that book called Elite Mind of Seduction by Nico Raye isn’t being talked about more, this thing changes everything.