The Biggest Divorce Mistake Women Make With Narcissists

If you’re going through a divorce with a narcissist, there’s one mistake that quietly costs women time, money, leverage, and peace: expecting the narcissist to suddenly become reasonable once divorce begins.

In this video, I explain:
• Why hope—not weakness—keeps women stuck
• How narcissists become more strategic during divorce, not more fair
• The subtle ways this mistake shows up and erodes your leverage
• Why “waiting to see” can seriously damage your case
• How radical acceptance shifts you from emotional reaction to strategic action

Divorce does not change a narcissist’s behavior — it exposes it. Once you stop expecting decency and start planning for reality, everything changes: your boundaries, your strategy, your emotional safety, and your outcomes.

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