Big T vs little t trauma in narcissistic relationships
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You just explained the entire relationship with my mother
Well Idk what PTSD.. is classified under…
But i am free now….😊😊
Happy Saturday!❤
It sucks. Get OUT NOW. Trauma is REAL. SO thankful I’m out and healing and getting very healthy ❤️
How did you get out. Im being stalked.
Unfortunately, and in many cases, especially if the relationship lasted very long as in the case of marriage and having children, the doubts will continue even after the break up, may be such videos from specialists could contribute to the elimination of such doubts since they help to clarify things that were foggy.
Have a great Saturday, Dr. Ramani. I hope your program helps as many people as possible. 💚
Yes im 4 months into healing journey from a 10 yr narcissistic relationship n learning it was just that…textbook
Thanks for the 50% code, I first time joined with your thing and I’m so exciting ^^👍
Morning. Weekend!!! Wwhhooo
Narcissists target whatever is most important to a person—whether it’s a core trait or a core relationship—because people place their strongest boundaries around what they love and protect. The attacks are boundary‑driven, not trait‑driven or relationship‑driven, which is why a narcissist will go after a parent’s bond with their children if that bond is the person’s deepest source of meaning and protection. A person’s bond with their children is something that most people will set strong boundaries around.
You are so spot on.
I have been talking to a man and I told him what my boundaries are and he purposefully violated all of them one by one when I was the most vulnerable or whenever we had a conflict he would do things to purposefully hurt me and he would do those in my most wea moments.
I begged him again and again to not do that because it is hurtful to me but he never maintained that boundary for example after a fight I told him it healthy to talk it out you can take your time but just sort out the matter then and there but he purposefully switched off his phone and disappeared for a long time and I was anxiously waiting for him to call back and I was driving myself crazy this is just one example of how he violated my boundaries even though he knew that it would hurt me.
Relationships are complicated people can only see what’s on the outside not behind closed doors.
True
Narcissists always have their enablers as a supply no one can see behind closed doors rage.
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Thaks Doc.!!1 As always excellent!!!
Thank you!❤
The worst is being a child with such a monster
Thanks for all your work!❤
Could you do a video on anything else unrelated to narcissism?
Dr Tamara Hill explains this quite well too. She explain’s topic’s that you never get to hear about. Yes narcs do gaslight you. So you self doubt your reality. You’re not going crazy. But they will use so much against you.
They leave people traumatized for life. Fortunately, this is not my case, but I do see it in women very close to me, in my environment.