How Narcissists Use Chaos to Control You

In this video, I dive into the one thing all narcissists have in common — their love for chaos. I’ll explain why chaos gives narcissists power over you, how they use it to manipulate your emotions, and share my own personal example from my previous marriage. If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear your stories in the comments.

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  • @andercat4480 says:

    Ha, perfect timing for my life. Somehow they can create chaos even if divorce is final, you have a no contact order and your kids are all adults. They just cannot help themselves!

  • @barrybark3995 says:

    my ex caused a full air sea rescue [said saw kids bodys in sea] search went on into the night,i can still hear the noise of that chopper 30yrs later .We were camping nearby

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