10 Things Men Love About Your Body (That You Hate)
There are surprising things that drive men CRAZY about your body, that you might actually be trying to hide! Learn what they are here…
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Here's the truth almost no woman believes: the parts of your body you've spent years hiding are the exact parts he's already memorized. Not the highlight-reel version — the real, specific, unrepeatable you. And most of the parts you're insecure about? They don't even register to him as flaws. They're just… you.
In this video I'm walking you through 10 unexpected things a man loves about your body — the ones you'd never guess, or that you hate for reasons that don't even cross his mind. From your hands to your bare face to the marks that tell your story, this is the insider male perspective most coaches won't give you.
Whether you're newly dating, deep in a long relationship, or stepping back into love after a divorce — this one's about ending the war with your own reflection.
▼ IN THIS VIDEO ▼
→ Why he sees your hands completely differently than you do
→ The vulnerable, trust-coded thing about your bare neck
→ What your "tired" under-eye softness actually signals to him
→ The mirror-twist you do that he has genuinely never once done
→ Why his preference was never a size — it was always just you
→ What gray hair really says to a man (it's not what you fear)
→ The bare face almost nobody else in his life gets to see
→ Why the pre-apology introduces a flaw he never noticed
→ The scars and marks he's quietly moved by
→ Plus the single most attractive physical state he ever sees you in
If you've been searching for what men really find attractive, body confidence after 40, what men notice about your body, or how to feel confident in your own skin — this is the breakdown.
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▼ CHAPTERS ▼
0:00 The parts you hide are the parts he's memorized
1:29 #1: Your hands
2:43 #2: Your neck and throat
3:45 #3: Your under-eye softness
5:17 #4: The backs of your thighs
6:18 #5: Your chest, whatever its size
8:17 #6: Gray hairs and roots
9:48 #7: Your bare face
11:25 #8: The pre-apology
12:53 #9: The marks that tell a story
14:34 #10: The moment you stop bracing
💬 Which of these 10 surprised you the most? Tell me below 👇🤍
Ladies — be honest: which of these 10 did you NOT expect? The one that surprised you most is usually the one you’ve been hiding the longest. Tell me below 👇
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No one 😂❤but I love your vedios mat
❤ I strongly claim this
Claiming it is perfect! You are worthy of it
Wonderful. Thank you
So welcome!
Your channel is to repetitive. I’m out
Cya!
So the jist of this is.. a man that “loves” you.. totally makes sense.. I think us women have been raised up with the stupid media standards of beauty
Also when I get involved with the man that loves me.. he’ll just have to love all of me! I will run around naked idc!! The tomboy in me will always take over vs hiding! I figure he’s not perfect either so who cares?!
That energy is everything. That’s exactly the kind of confidence that makes a man fall harder. 🙏
From the time we’re old enough to understand language , we’re conditioned to believe that, whatever we are, is wrong. Too tall, too short, if you’re blond you should be brunette, you’re too pale, you’re too dark, etc etc. we need to break these expectations *when we’re young*. When you get older, you stop giving a shyte, but when we’re younger, we tend to obsess over these things, and the reason we do is for the male gaze. Stop that. You live and exist for you.
Why do women hate their body parts?
Honestly, years of being told they should. That’s exactly why I make these videos.
See above.
I mean it is absolutely valid to look like a 40 year old, when you are 40 year old…
But beauty industry do not think so…
My goodness! Where can I find a man you are describing?
In a book. They don’t exist.
@kimkats That’s right. They extremely rare.
Well this is refreshing ❤
thanks so much!
1. Your hands
2. Your neck
3. Your under eye softness
4. Back of your thighs
5. Size of your chest
6. Gray hair & roots
7. Bare face
8. Least favorite random body part you think of
9. The marks that tell a story
10. The moment you stop clenching
You’re nice. My soon to be ex wanted me to wear makeup . He also didn’t like when I was pregnant with his children even though I have always been small. So this is not what every man thinks. I will say I would like to be with a man that actually loves me however haven’t meet them yet. I know my future husband will be so kind and I will be ever so grateful 😊
He didn’t love you, it’s pretty obvious. I think he’s talking about a man in love.
lol title reeled me right in 😂 lol interested to hear this. Thanks Matt! Appreciate you.
so glad you enjoyed it!
The caveat here is the assumption of a caring, loving husband or significant other. If you have that you don’t need a coach. If you have that and don’t know it, maybe you do need coaching. Husbands like that are extremely rare.
many women with good men still enjoy having a coach to support them in deepening their relationships 🙂
Thanks for sharing!!! 🙏 I absolutely claim every one of these!!!!! Even though I’m older, pleasantly plump, have white hair ⚪ and a few scars, I still love who I am. ❤️ Love you bro!!! 👊
yess claim it my dear!! LOVE YOU TOO
I love men that think the way you describe in this video. They are a gift!
aww yes they are!! you are too! 🙂
Beautiful ❤ thank you
so so welcome!!!
Im covering this gray because it makes me feel better
absolutely I totally get it!