Dating The Bad Guy Is WAY Worse Than Women Think

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  • @romanlee8287 says:

    I love her analogy with the frog and prince LOL

  • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu says:

    They find nice/good guys boring, but bad boys exciting.

    • @christopherstevenrankin says:

      Yep. Like a friend told me once…most women seem to love the abuse.

    • @StillAwesome21 says:

      Even 2Pac was called ‘too nice’ lol. This will never change, as long as women don’t change.

    • @odious2000 says:

      If they didn’t have a vagina, no one would care about rhem

    • @odious2000 says:

      If it weren’t for the vag, no one would care about them.

    • @fernandocastrovargas6843 says:

      Well, nice guys give women everything they want even before that woman like the guy, nobody wants that, she s not a little girl and this man is not her father. Give a woman what she wants when she wants to be wih you too

  • @fishjungle9 says:

    Then they want the nice guy to fix all her damage. Gentlemen, don’t try to fix her.

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      Canโ€™t fix people!

    • @migz341 says:

      Never fix a problem that was never your fault in the first place

    • @SanVic says:

      โ€‹@@CourtneyRyan You infantilize women, making them sound like they cannot make competent choices. Okay, fine, you can do that, but be consistent and demand these women be institutionalized for their own safety due to incompetence.

    • @HonorableHombre says:

      @@CourtneyRyan , people lol? Literally reduced your people to the level of the African American community in a few decades lol

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      @@SanVic Plenty of women make competent choices lol in no way am I infantilizing women

  • @Ava-lt6es says:

    Nice guys are seen as red flag .

  • @whitebot925 says:

    ๐Ÿธ THATS CALLED TRICKLE DOWN FROGONOMICS

  • @ajtaylor8750 says:

    The dangers of your youth is this false belief that you have all this time to have dating “phases,” but it’s just not the case. Having a phase where you date crappy dudes eventually just turns into your type, so please wake up and recognize that you don’t have as much time as you think you do.

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      ๐ŸคŒ๐Ÿผ

    • @NGAOPC says:

      And swampspread can go on into adulthood. it can be just wealthier, well-dressed frogs, โ€œ6,2โ€ in financeโ€ frogs, on and on; if you orient to the frog, you can even manage to feed the frog in a good man, a prince. I began to date and then โ€œI dunno, dateโ€ a girl *Iโ€™d met in Bible study*โ€ฆwe all fall, but falling into a swamp – is nasty.

    • @Nick_Nightingale says:

      Nice/Good Guys are learning now to avoid “Frog Collectors” because they know the damage done from these toxic relationships will ruin the Nice/Good Guys life if he dates a Frog Collector.

    • @shaolinotter says:

      and alot of women are delusional about how long they will be considered attractive. a competent man can be attractive to 20 year old women when he’s 60. the opposite does not happen

    • @PhillipMasters-bd7ci says:

      I make $200k a year, 37 years old and in rock solid shape and I am done with American Women!

  • @HB-mj2jz says:

    Its always the same women that fall for that kind of guys. A have a couple of friends who are like that. Warn them everytime in front because its like waayyyy obvious what kind of guy they want to date you see them. Still they date, get in a toxic relationship, break it off and hate every man after that, because “they are all the same” and then it starts over again. If you point out normal men, they strangely enough always point out stuff they find wrong with them…lol

    • @SanVic says:

      Still they date, get in a toxic relationship, have children, get married, get divorced, fight for custody, get restraining orders, fight for child support…. and guess who pays for all this family court costs? @CourtneyRyan won’t mention it’s your tax dollars.

  • @90sshuffle says:

    The princes have awakened in 2024. They see that a girl that has ventured into the swamp have destroyed their brains to a degree that she will never be satisfied by any prince

    • @shaolinotter says:

      the want a cinderella story, but do they think cinderella kept flirting with other guys and giving the prince an attitude after he picked her?

      honestly not sure

  • @maxwillson says:

    It’s literally no different than alcohol. At first it’s fun and then it slowly starts to take over your life and next thing you know, you’re wasting half your income to try and feel happy but it leaves you feeling hungover and miserable.

  • @brettbeyer73 says:

    As a nice guy, I saw so many frogs getting picked up that I must have been a slug.

  • @vinces.5523 says:

    Instead of doing inner-work to heal their traumas, they go out and get more traumas… and then blame everyone else.

  • @legaleagle1971 says:

    As a “nice/boring/stable” guy now in his 50’s I experienced this phenomenon a lot back in my 20’s. The funny thing is that these girls’ moms always liked me more than the daughters did. The moms had years of wisdom and all knew that “bad boys” lead to nowhere good. They knew that wasting time with frogs meant letting a lot of potential long-term mates slip through your fingers. But some people just have to learn the hard way. For lots of people though, by the time you learn this lesson, it is too late.

    • @kevinbayless7952 says:

      These moms had the wisdom of experience. They probably made the same mistakes in their youth and didn’t listen to their moms, just as today’s women won’t listen to their mom, and their daughters won’t listen in the future, and on and on generation after generation.

    • @Snake369 says:

      dad women’s moms, fellas. Look, they may be older but they need and deserve love too.

  • @edinnorthcarolina--ovelhog5786 says:

    This is civilization ending stuff. When I was younger, we thought that it was nuclear weapons.

    • @shaolinotter says:

      I think civilizations just have a natural timeline and this one is phasing out

      ancient rome was conquered from the inside as well. and I wouldnt be surprised if it was mostly because of roman women trying to double dip and cheating with the goths

  • @devilsadvocacy says:

    The fact that so many women never learn from their mistakes demonstrates the power of the pull that sociopaths have on them. It is black-hole level gravity

  • @krisdavis3888 says:

    A few weeks ago I was talking with a friend I knew from high school and got back in touch with through circumstance. We were talking and she was explaining how her last few relationships had been abusive or based around a narcissist. She was complaining that all men are like this or just the ones interested in her and I told her in all honesty she could get any guy she wants. After she listed off the very practical things she expected from a guy, I was like, you havent found a single guy who meets that standard and is interested in you? Fine, let me take you out to dinner. We went out and had a great time and she said she was looking forward to the next date, but the next day she said she wasnt ready for a relationship and wouldnt be for a long time. Fast forward two weeks and now she is dating her exes roommate. I told her I honestly didnt expect her to accept my offer for a date, I was just trying to point out that she only picks A**holes, and she’s proven me right.

  • @deadbeatSad says:

    The mindset is “bad is better than boring”. There’s no changing that mindset. Certain people hate good because it’s boring and love bad because it’s active.

    • @adrianparker-e9f says:

      I was a ‘goody’ until my early thirties and had zero attraction to women. So i decided to try new things out, experiment and make discoveries. I’d agree with your observation; the ‘bad’ was completely lacking from my character so i added some and that worked for me. ( In the Ying and Yang symbol, the ‘good’ half has a small circle in it showing the bad in the good. So maybe this is a necessary element of a human being ?)

    • @christophercrawford777 says:

      @@adrianparker-e9f So you sold your soul.

  • @szef6869 says:

    She dated a bad guy then I came along, gave her genuine love/kindness, and she ended up telling me this isnโ€™t what she was used too. Told me she wasnโ€™t over a dude who lied to her, cheated, and did her wrong so I walked away. It is what she was used to and what she accepts. Please donโ€™t deal with women like this guys and if you do break the cycle.

    • @szef6869 says:

      Donโ€™t get me wrong.. Like an idiot, I tried to keep it going for a while but realized it was hurting me more than anything else. It hurts but learning to walk away is the best thing for you if you end up in a situation like this.

    • @lolmmbat1 says:

      Dated a damaged goods girl who told me her stories of her “masculine” stud ex gf, who was extremely physically abusive, and would secretly still see dudes behind her back. She left her son with her parents for 3 years to be with this chick, almost marrying her. She went from telling me I was the least toxic partner she’s had, she loved me, I was “her person”, to cheating on me after 3 months with some other stud lesbian who was seemingly trying to give off “bad girl” vibes. Pathetic. Women like this never change, even if they voice otherwise. Never be captain save a hoe. They want to suffer, let them.

    • @User-fo8yx says:

      Chad cheating while coming back to her for another round validates her twice. Her own sexual satisfaction and surplus sexual value in the market place. The chad delivers the emotional rollercoaster that she is addicted to. Good guys never understand how to spin, feed, drive her inner engine. She will continue to push the buttons in hope to start that engine but that overdose of emotional abuse is just to much for an emotional sensitive good guy

    • @shaolinotter says:

      its very rare that she would tell you that instead of just cheating while spending your money as long as possible

    • @szef6869 says:

      @@shaolinotter Iโ€™ll give it to her for being honest about that but then SHE was the one calling me at midnight, still trying to hangout with me, then pulling away, starting the cycle over and over again and doing more damage. Took a lot for me to finally let it go cause I do really care about her lol but itโ€™s whatโ€™s best.

  • @MessageInABottle869 says:

    Iโ€™m 100% sure some people give really bad advice so they can keep complaining about how thereโ€™s no good men/women out there. Because if they keep choose the same type over and over again they can just point at that and say I told you so he/she is bad. I saw a video yesterday saying if you want a man fall in love you should be emotional unavailable and donโ€™t be a safe space, thatโ€™s a person who donโ€™t want to find a healthy person so she doesnโ€™t want anyone to find one either.

  • @dovakeen1179 says:

    Don’t save em lads. Be her first choice or move on. If you aren’t her first it will end in divorce.

  • @michaelsantangelo7997 says:

    This will all fall on deaf ears. Women don’t learn and don’t want to learn. Learning from your mistakes requires accountability for your decisions which women are incapable of. Also, if they fixed the problem, there’d be no drama to whine about.

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