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How to Turn Him On Without Touching Him | 8 Texting Tips to Active a Man

You can turn a man on from a distance in SO MANY WAYS if you use these 8 powerful and creative texting tips! It's simpler (and more fun) than you think.
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How to turn a man on over text? What can I text him to get him hot? How can I spice things up when we're apart? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life… so here is a video explaining how to text a man in a way that activates him and makes you truly magnetic to him!

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  • @dani58301 says:

    Hi everyone 🙂 My favorite takeaway is the first principle, giving a man a window into our feelings and thinking. This is the basis for all future steps. Without it, women won’t get encouraged to send a voice message, a memo or anything mentioned in the video. No solid relationship without solid foundations 🙂

  • @xhenish says:

    I love flirting through texts! And memes are the best way to start the conversation and tease! Hehehe!

  • @sirineelloumi2550 says:

    My favorite principle is the second one ” use future pacing to draw men into connected experiences and feeling ” I like it because it represent the feminin energy by allowing us to talk about our feelings and connect with our bodies and it needs

  • @laurenj432 says:

    I love your content on relationships, they’re so informative! Do you think you’ll ever make videos in your experience as an attorney? I’d find that really interesting, and I’m thinking about that field maybe

  • @AnnetteT1 says:

    This was super helpful and left me feeling empowered. I can’t wait to use these tips with my man.

  • @elisebethgipps6369 says:

    #MOC my lightbulb moment was the using of voice message !! Omg yes !!! Powerful ! Thank you Mat 😊

  • @deliag8826 says:

    I like how in depth you describe everything , that you provide examples and also thought about sharing us links to pages and telling is how to use the voice clip.
    I am really surprised with your hardworking and willingness to share with everyone.
    You are the best honestly.

    I took away a lot from this video but I like the suggestive tease/picture or video .
    Thank-you so much for sharing
    #MOC

  • @kiritasio8628 says:

    Definitely principle numero uno for me … allowing men to know the effect they have on me and them knowing and understanding my feelings. I have a tendency to forget this key principle because I’m so focused on their needs, wants and desires so I tend to push mine to the back burner and wonder why I feel so much frustration – this is key for me as this is one I need to create a mantra for to ensure I put this one into practise; the rest will inevitably follow suite. Thanks Mat.

  • @louannbristol8708 says:

    OMG Mat!! You are so right about the voice texts. I sent him one last night instead of my usual sexy tests. Let’s just say he got so turned on I’m sure he had to take care of himself!

  • @swanerly says:

    #MOC I always walk away from your videos with the knowledge that I’m on the right path or learning a whole new different spin on how to touch my man’s inner feelings and making that connection with him on a one to one deep level of being open and excited on how we make each other feel by communicating our deep inner feelings as we grow as a couple and friendship level of being vulnerable which sometimes is such an exuberant feeling to share with someone. I absolutely love it thank you, Mat Shaffer, always learning on this path of enlightenment, oh yeah and taking that smile on my face with it priceless

  • @tere24 says:

    Hi Mat! My favorite take-away is using your voice in a message. We hide so much behind texts but I can see how a voice would resonate. I mean, who wouldn’t replay a voice message? 🙂
    I also appreciate the future pacing idea of making a guy imagine… I think a text with an image of the past or future will make him respond quicker too! Thanks!!
    #MOC

  • @robynsarahstocker says:

    Wow, a great reminder. In a long term relationship it’s easy to forget these things are still important ❤️

  • @lovemrj4ever says:

    This video is pure gold. I’m smiling!
    Can’t wait to try more new things (as soon as stay at home order goes away!)
    Wooh. Thanks Mat

  • @crystalgoddess6941 says:

    Oh my god. I was so clueless. This video is so informative. I love it. Will try later.

  • @dzanasaynes4782 says:

    You have the best relationship coaching content that i have ever seen…keep up great 👍

  • @shreyaabaranwal877 says:

    Such beautiful voice omg!
    Listen to him with eyes closed…

  • @ernelladalumpines7695 says:

    Mat I love all your videos and I learned so much from you. Thanks for this video.

  • @naomiblanchard5917 says:

    We’re seventy plus. These are techniques we use in text and together. If you are healthy sex doesn’t have to stop with age. Words and touch can build intimacy

  • @isaibizalife says:

    Thanks Mat. You don’t know how much you helped me in my long distance relationship. Thank you so much!

  • @andreawashington1199 says:

    He sounds like a airline pilot.. It’s amazing!

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