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Thank you Dr Ramani for all that you do! ❤
Empathy is a choice-based action fueled by your heart.
Enabling (however well-intended) is fear-based and life-depleting.
Wow!
Good qualities make you a target. 🎯
I am so glad I am not the target of any narcissists anymore. Very good. The clarity I have is. insane
I see it more as others step away from narcissists and those good quality people are what remain until they learn a bit of self-protection.
Only if you don’t know how to enforce your boundaries
@@deborahklinkner1730 Thaty I did.
Hey thanks Doctor. I realized yesterday that I’m DEFINITELY covert npd (also probably my dad, his mom, and my daughter). I’m going to work as hard as I can on this. Thank you.
This is beautiful. I wish you only the best. Good luck with everything ❤
It ends with you.
Be careful of a self diagnosis because most narcs aren’t admitting anything & you may simply be the victim of abuse who is now engaging in covert but reactive abuse like my mother 💔❤️🩹♥️
Happiness with a narcissist is a BIG FAT LIE.
Thank you for this powerful content. Much needed and appreciated 👍🏾
Thank you so much for all your videos. Dr. Ramani, I know that I’ve made the correct decisions in my life. BTW, ……..swearing is a sign of an intelligent person.
If you do it right. 😁
@@ericaz1494 😂🤣🤣😂
I agree a little bit more self love , the less you’ll put up with. Less excuses for someone who always harms others!
Brilliant. The most healing words around! Thank you so much. I nominate you for the Nobel Prize in Sanity!!! 👍❤
I’m feeling heard !
Thank you so much doctor 😊
I had a family member who was an elder. We got into a fight over something small, and she said, “You should respect me, I’m your elder.” I told her, “Respect is EARNED NOT GIVEN!” I think that’s when the conversation took a turn, and the narcissistic family member decided I was no longer good for them.
After our argument, I sat there thinking to myself, I don’t care who the hell you are—if you don’t show me the respect I deserve, I won’t show it to you
“Seeing something clearly does not make YOU unkind.” Dr. Ramani, you BOOMED that quote and threw the toxic enabling mindset right to the mat.
The most common types of enablers in any relationship are those often said, “Blood is thicker than water” or those who are promoting the “patriotism types of martyr” for any causes regardless whether it is involved religious beliefs organizations and/or specific political agendas or any matters of particular interests..Period..
Ahhh this is so spot on and good!! I have been there, still am there in some ways, and watching it play out to my chagrin in extended family. I have a story for everything you said here. Thanks for your wisdom and encouragement!!
Forgiveness …”You gotta know your audience ” so true! It is weaponized against you. Empathy is good for you knowing and accepting your worth. Narcissists definitely will not. Accepting their bad behavior is and always will be expected as long as you are in relationship with them.
25:12 thank you Dr. Ramani! This statement is my pet peeve. Exactly because of what you said. Respect your elders mean no matter what they do to you, you still kiss their hands and feet and say please abuse me more. I always said, why can’t we all respect each other? Thank you!!!!
I knew at 4 years old that my grandmother was pure evil. It was only as an adult that I came to realize the depth of her evil. She gave Mrs. Bates a run for her money.
Thank you so much for all this information about narcissism and enabling. I learn something about this every day
Amen, Sister! Spot on!
So DISABLING them is a form of love towards them too!!! If we keep enabling them, it breaks them too! It continues to lead them into a path of destruction. WOW! 🤯