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Barbara, a leading sexuality educator and researcher, Dr Joye Swan, is launching https://pauseprofessors.com to provide the best research and resources on menopause.
This is so great! Really didn’t know that vaginal dryness was such an issue!!! Education and preventive measures are key! Thank you-
Exactly
Oh my gosh, it is so common during and after menopause and can happen even beforehand. Some of the latest research has doctors thinking vaginal changes should be addressed very early in the menopause journey and treated throughout the lifetime, even if the woman is not sexually active. It can maintain and protect the tissue in the area leading to other health benefits. What we’re learning is fascinating.
Part of being a grown up means not being embarrassed by living in reality and asking grown up STD’s questions. No test, no sex. This isn’t the 70s, free love. HIV is still around.
Yes
So agree. I’m a big fan of dealing with the realities of the world, especially when health and safety are in play.
I was 23 and she was 33 when we got married. Been married over 35 years before I lost her to Alzheimer’s. Now I am looking for someone in the 50’s , a widow maybe. May have found her!
Wishing you great luck!!
The sound it is not clear
It will get better…
Thanks
Welcome
You are so welcome!
This was an amazing show! I’m 68 yrs old and I am post menopausal and still interested in sex. I signed up with the Pause Professors!! I can’t wait to see how that goes!
Thanks, I know Jonathon and I were invigorated by the topic and the fascinating questions. I’m in your age range and I know so many of us want to continue that part of our lives. Knowledge about it goes a long way, and Joye Swan and I are so thrilled to have you join us on the ground floor of Pause Professors, Cathy. Welcome!
So, do you need to pull the conversation out of her? I made it about 4-5 minutes. Not to mention the terrible connection.
@@j_filippo it gets better
She seems to have a hard time articulating what she wants to say
Connection is awful
Okay, moving on….😢
hi. i had to listen because i find this topic fascinating. i have been doing my research dating in france… I’m looking for a dominant man (sexually) you can’t expect a sub man to just switch and be dom if he isn’t by nature. I’ve decided that sexual behaviour is linked to ethnic origin… it’s much more natural for me to find what I’m looking for with men who are similar to me – arab mixed with european. i can’t find a truly dominant man if i just date european men. france and uk where i’m from is full of submissive men and i find it a huge turn off when a man is submissive in any way… i think my desire in what I’m looking for is an ethnic origin drive, there’s something in my blood that is craving what i find with men who are similar ethnic origin as me… the point of age. men are not looking for younger women. forget that narrative. men are chasing me for all kinds of relationship types and they are all ages.. of course some older men are trying to find younger women but those men are losing thier looks so if they can’t find a gold digger they’ll find that difficult. most of us primarily are looking for a sexual partner of some kind. my new one is 34, I’m 45. he likes older women because in his experience a lot of younger women have mental problems, they are on antidepressants or have erratic behaviour, but older women are more chilled out and easier company. some men just have an older woman fetish but i think the majority just waht a chilled relationship with no pressure for marriage and kids.
The question of dominant style, submissive style, switching between the two, is fascinating. A connection between sexual style and ethnicity or culture is still unexplored territory. I do hear from younger men that older women have a lot to offer, which you highlight.
She has a hard time communicating. Seemed unsure of herself. Sorry signed off after 5 minutes.
Beautiful woman 💛 Thank you for this
Thanks for listening
This was a great experience. Thanks for listening!
Is it me, or is something wrong with the audio? Tried but can’t hang. Seems like a very interesting topic, though.
Thank you Jonathon — great questions from you and your audience! Connection problems on my end led to my not hearing Jonathan at first. I jump back on at 10:05 and things start rolling. Thanks for your patience!
Hey Barbara, I’m so grateful you were a guest and you shared awesome information.
Good interview. Interesting. Must be fascinating to study dating & sexual practices in different cultures. John Gray will make a reference occasionally, but it likely has not been studied much.
STI? Does that stand for “infection” vs “disease” in STD?
Thank you
Thanks! Being an anthropologist has taught me there are so many ways to solve the challenges we all come across simply as being human. And great question. Yes, the ‘I” stands for “Infection.” Either one is being used now. There’s been a shift toward “infection” for a couple of reasons, one being a person may be infected before developing the symptoms of a disease. It’s not inaccurate to say STD, though, so use whatever works for you.
Thank you for the response. Thanks for the interview. Resilience is the name of the game! People are endlessly fascinating (& frustrating 🤣). All the best 👍
I have to admit, I left this live broadcast after a few minutes with the technical issues that were happening. I did come back to the topic today and forwarded the replay to about 9 min in and was glad I did! They “fixed” the connection and continued in with great topics with two different perspectives. I think Jonathon’s wheels are spinning now with planning the next topic of discussion. Bravo to both of you! Loved this.
Thank you for persisting! There were so many honest, brave questions from the live audience and here in the chat. Jonathan’s group is willing to do the deep dive and address sometimes difficult issues in dating — including sex. I love it.
🌸 I’m very old fashioned
I believe that’s for marriage
It’s not right sleeping with people in a relationship, how many would one have before they settle.
May I point out if it’s a serious relationship, then he should marry the lady
This is why courting can be long, 1-2 yrs so they can both get to know each other and find out if they are on same page
Sleeping around is why so many people are fooled by chemistry and fail to identify compatibility and if they share common goals, interests etc
My mom stayed pure for her marriage so did my grandmother and past generations
They all had happy marriages
There must be something in the old ways, it’s better
The world fell apart when man & woman decided to sleep around
Thanks for your thoughts. We have this perspective in common — this part of our lives is best faced with intentionality. We need to be thoughtful and have a plan. Chemistry can dazzle us, I agree.