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The problem is, women want you to be both the nice guy and the bad guy. They want you to be them at different times which can be confusing.
Women want to find a romantic connection with a good man who has his life in order and takes honest initiative to continue enriching his life.
No, not at different times. There are aspects of both you need to integrate. They want the risk and adventure of the “bad boy”—-thats the only aspects you need while still being a kind, respectful person. Take risks in what you say. Don’t be afraid to say no or walk away. Stand up for her. I always use this example for very basic adventure: In Central Park here in NYC, they close the fields for 2/3 of the year. Well….tell her: lets hop that fence and have a picnic. The fact you are willing to hop the fence (you aren’t hurting anyone, you aren’t risking jail time) is still a bit of a thrill to her. It takes on “bad boy” qualities. This is the energy you need you have and exhibit. Basically, just have balls
No, women want a good guy, not a nice one. A nice guy is someone who just wants to be liked, he tries to keep things pleasant, avoids conflict, and doesn’t really rock the boat. A good man, though? He’s solid. He’s got values, knows when to take a stand, and has real strength, but he keeps it under control. He’s not just nice for the sake of it; he does what’s right, even when it’s hard or unpopular.
@@Celi.S.00 Ted Bund y’s courtroom footage proves that women flock to bad men. Watch the interviews. Also, a woman agreed to marry him.
Don’t be a bad or good guy. Focus on yourself and become a VILLAIN.
While this wasn’t really addressed much in the video, I do want to point out that having a positive and engaging first date with someone doesn’t necessarily mean there’s a romantic connection. This is something I’ve dealt with a few times since re-entering the dating scene, but I haven’t let it discourage me because I know I’m meeting good women. Now, it’s just a matter of staying patient and continuing to try until I find someone with mutual compatibility and interest!
It’s hugely refreshing to hear that being introverted isn’t something WRONG with me that needs to be fixed. You never hear advice for extroverts on how to be more quiet and introspective.
You don’t know how often I hear people make that exact statement about extroverts.
That is such a beautifully put and important insight — thank you for sharing it. 🙏
You’re absolutely right: introversion is so often framed as a flaw to “overcome,” rather than a strength to understand and embrace. Meanwhile, no one tells extroverts to “tone it down” or “reflect more” — it’s such a double standard.
What part of embracing your introversion has brought you the most peace or personal power? I’d love to hear more about how that shift has changed your perspective.
You really have to hope that your date is not one of those women whose biggest turn off is when a guy is boring. Those are the hardest women to date for introverts.
Neither being a nice guy is something that needs to be fixed
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Casual but clean style – Check
Shaven, both head and beard – Check
Hygienic – Check
Being open and easy to talk to – Check
Talk to a lot of people and not one type – Check
Ask women out – Check
Got a date?
Nope
Everyone these day:
-is an introvert
-has adhd ocd etc
-has anxiety
And ofcourse , everyones ex is a narcissist smh
😂😂
could nice guy habits be interpreted as:
“I’m nice, even kind, but I’m not emotionally mature enough to be open abt who i am”?
i’ve felt like i had this issue
Wat you tell yourself becomes ur reality.
A proper timepiece is the only accessory I wear. I agree with you, it just simply looks more stylish and refined than tech watches do. I do follow your husband’s channel by the way. He has great taste and knowledge for watches.
Well as an introvert. All i can say is shhhhhh. Thats the main thing we like. Shhhhh. We can feel. Not many words needed.
Courtney, what are you thoughts on wearing sneakers with suits? Its been so normalized in recent years feel like I’m the only one that hates how it looks 😂
I am. Its the internet that pumps in stuff that im not. Im typically quiet.
Best advice for nice guys, DONT change. Get the popcorn and watch their lives get ruined by the bad boys they want
Courtney should start a podcast based on dating and why relationship. that would be good
Hello courtney! You are so inspiration for me and looks so good!❤😘😘🥰
Again with the heydudes, they’re so comfy tho haha
Your number 2. When I was younger the best dating times came when I would meet a group of single friends at a dance club. I also dod know the bands that cam in. But the big thing I learned was “You are never more attractive to a woman than when you are with another woman”. I would ask my friends to dance (women watch other women). Anyway I would be up dancing with friends having a god time, the ladies I was dancing with had a good time. The end result was I was dancing with more women saying yes to a dance and having a good time and some even asked me to dance. I did though have a bad experince I got a stalker once. Even sitll to day I laugh aabout it,
Courtney, you are a VERY KIND Human being! 🌹
12:07 Right on with this one. I’ve heard that in the past, people used to dress up nicely to go to the airport or even just to the store. I believe dressing well and putting in a little more effort would go a long way toward boosting a lot of people’s confidence. Similar to the concept of making one’s bed first thing in the morning.
HA! I had to laugh even though I can’t say I disagree with hardly anything you say. I heard the “you’re a nice guy, but…..” routine so much in my life that I genuinely believe I must be a pretty nice guy. But my once extroverted, good humored nature has been chewed down to a nub so now I’m a full fledged introvert who doesn’t much care anymore. My life is all about me now. It’s kind of refreshing.
Speaking of watches….the Hamilton Khaki Field watch with the brown leather band works in nearly every situation. Just my personal opinion, though.