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CANNOT stick up for myself….
♥️ Keep on learning from Doctor Ramni. Once you know the reasons for others behavior, and your responses, it all becomes easier. Narcissistic and Sociopathic people are our refiners. They help us learn to stand up for ourselves
Id it feels like you can’t, but keep working on progress!
Hi! Dr. I’m from Taiwan, luckily to meet u on YouTube, just bought your book “It’s not you” couple days ago, desperately need the knowledge for healing from an ongoing relationship. They do lack of accountability while having a conflict or quarrel,even I keep apologizing, the rage and resentment…, it was painful to be in that moment n beg her not to give such attitude…
They’re a lost cause
Having severe conflict with a narcissist? That’s when you just up and leave if it’s possible. Exactly don’t even expect any accountability, plus the narcissist is always grooming flying monkeys to take their side, usually other wounded people, unbelievable how the narcissist instinctively smells this! don’t walk – run !!
😂 don’t walk ,RUN
@megdirewolf well yeah , you think I should kill him ? 😮
Lose /Lose proposition .
There is one REAL benefit going forward: once the narcissist has gone from your life, you see the bull for what it is, and the immediate reaction changes from ” what have I done? What xan I do?” To ” 😌 you think this will work with me? I’m LITERALLY trying not to laugh out loud at your behaviour…ive handle SOOOO much worse than whatever this little act is😌”…there will be hard-wired subjects that will kick off the old instincts but you know them for what they are; once you know the shape of the monster in the darkness, the easier it is to brush it off…
I think it’s both for me 😅 I come from a big family and when i started watching these videos I felt so validated but also my head is always spinning. I honestly don’t hate confrontation. I don’t like it but I’ve experienced what it’s like for people to listen and not blow up or “tisk” and dismiss me. It’s so hard to even discuss anything with narcissists because the second it goes too deep or vulnerable it gets sketchy to them. Then I get cut off, cut down, scolded, like I’m the bane of their existence. So I at least always worry about confrontation but am relieved when I can just work through it. Or at least have a chance to make things right and articulate myself better.
Both? 😳
Hi Dr Ramani How are you doing today
I ALWAYS felt like I was around a Volcanoe with Molten LAVA simmering underneath. No matter How much he tried to ‘act’ normal or happy go lucky or flash and dazzle charm he would throw around, I had seen how explosive his hair trigger temper could be, and unpredictable at that. It was terrifying and when I distanced myself, he would notice I was distancing myself and comment and complain loudly becoming more irritable . A Constant No Win situation , or he would Double Down on the Love Bombing , until he thought he had regained control, then he would flip the switch and become the all too demanding Dictator again. I FOUGHT his Outrageous , Inappropriate, Overbearing Demands and Demanding behavior so he would recruit third party flying monkeys that would try to Defend him, criticize me, fall for his engaging flash and dazzle Charm Every Time , until I literally Took Both of my Children, purse over my shoulder, Walked OFF his 3 acre property , caught a ride back to my father’s family property and fled 850 Miles away . No forwarding or return address. I was DONE !
Only with narcissists because they hear no reason. So now I just avoid and walk away, full stop
we should also get into brain chemistry sometimes. many of us become chemically addicted to the narcissist and live an unbalanced life, relying on their breadcrumbs of validation for all our endorphins and dopamine. medications that might give our brains baseline dopamine could be a good tool to break the cycle. i’m trying low dose naltrexone and it’s giving me hope that i can finally start functioning properly and feeling good without a codependent bond.
It’s true. Healthy people talk and take accountability, narcissistic don’t. There’s no intimacy, vulnerability or connection with them. It’s heartbreaking.😢
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Narcissist’s want complete submission. It’s the rage that makes you pander to their needs. That’s no way to live, suppressing yourself?
Ok no the victims becomes like that hyperventilate I would could go quite bc I didn’t know what else to do
He could and choose out of those and call me the narcissist bc I wanted re reciprocity in our marriage
All of the above
Don’t forget “you’re being mean to me, I’m a victim”