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Absolutely they do.
Yes they do it
They steal your glow
They steal your light
They steal your beauty
They steal your will to live
Acne
High blood pressure
Chest pain
Back pain
Gas
Bloating
Diarrhea
Anal leakage
Toenail fungi
The throw ups
I’m just kidding. Trying to make someone laugh.
@JustPeachy-x4k dark humor is healthy at times…😅
The timing is never right for everyone. Still I’m happy to have read this😅😂
@JustPeachy-x4kLOL
100% yes!!!
100%
Yes I think he made me sick fibromyalgia. I have a bladder disease now I have heart failure so I would say yes they will literally kill you.
Severe fatigue
Oh yeahhh
I believe so, and I believe my ex caused my heart issue, after repeated episodes of fear induced tachycardia. I also have gastrointestinal issues and ongoing mental issues, after eight years with a violent and alcoholic narcissist.
Must be very hard……me more or less the same…….sad so bad
Except for the alcool, i had my fair share too.
Gastro intestinal issues
Sleep problems
Etc…
Yes, yes and yesss !😡🤦From million reasons
Yes, seen it first hand with my BIL. Told him to reclaim his identity and personhood by leaving my NPD sister, but he became too codependent and erased his sense of self years ago. He’s chronically ill, addicted to junk foods, diabetic, hypertensive, can barely move at age 50, etc.
😢😢 Tell me they don’t have kids, please…
My BIL (if he had married my sister) he is a person who can get on your nerves by giving the most vague answers. I think that’s what made my NPD sister lose it, cos he wasn’t an easy target, and I had taken myself out of her reach.
I kinda went up like a bomb with her last attack. But from the ashes I rose stronger than ever. (💃💃 Victory dance of a survivor)
So…he was a tough nut to crack for her, so she went absolutely ballistic and… I spare all the nasty details…they separated.
At first I thought…he just wanted contact with me, cos he wanted someone to rant with, about her. He already tried to fix our relationship after me and her cut contact. Well, I cut contact. But now..more and more I think, he really saw us as victims who can share experiences and strength.
I visit him and his parents and my nephews when I can. The kids now know me as their Auntie. And he helps me out, when I need stuff done that I can’t do by myself.
But he suffers. He can’t find the strength to stand up to her in court. She lies and lies and lies…the people responsible for the kids care… they have no control over her. Cos it’s one word against another. So he barely sees them. When he does, he cries internally over how bad she’s treating them. Neglectful and rubbing off on them with her npd..😢😢
It was hard for me to, when I saw them after 4 years. The older one…he was so little when he last saw me. We aren’t sure he recognized me. But we got along great, when he was this tiny baby… Too great in fact. She was jealous of me, just cos I was able to calm him down, when she couldn’t.
That started the beginning of the end. The one day I visited and he stopped crying 20 seconds after she let me hold him. He was just 2 months old.
I had the best intentions. I tried staying there for the kids, even though I saw what incredible harmful things she called parenting. I thought: Oh my gosh…he gotta know their auntie is a safe place…
Well I couldn’t anymore at some point. And like I said… Please tell me they have no kids.
Cos often the kids suffer silently…they don’t know it any other way. They don’t understand how bad they have it.
I was in my 20s when I finally realized what a nightmare of a childhood I had survived.
I hope your BIL finds the strength to divorce her
I have MS and I’m pretty sure where a good chunk of it came from 🤦🏽♂️
Not to mention make you more susceptible to other abusive relationships
Maybe we should say, “Leave me alone. You’re making me old!”
Yes, they do. I’m in my mid-fourties, and my son says I look old. But he says it is a different kind of old, one that comes from sadness. I was born into a horrible family dynamic, and I ended up choosing a “partner” whom I have allowed to continue the cycle. At first I thought it was what I derserved, until I woke up and realized that I am worthy of love and absolutely deserve better. So, I decided to love myself, first. After 21 years and becoming a puddle, I am putting myself back together. It is so weird, when I was fit and attractive, he would constantly compare me to other women, but when I let myself go, all of the sudden I became beautiful. Well, now that I have changed my diet, started working out, started building a business, and directed all my attention back to me, he is seems nervous. I am starting to feel like me again. I feel great! Weight lifting and trampolining for my nervous system has helped greatly. Journaling has been amazing for me as well. I starting taking courses to better understand my abuse and how to transmute it into something I can grow, instead of deplete. I want to take what I have learned to better myself, which i am doing slowly, and then pass that on to others. All of my hardhips will not be for nothing. I do feel like he tries to sabotage though, as an example, we worked for the same company and as soon as I told him that I was saving up a certain amount of money, he asked, “Is that how much you need to leave?” I said, “Well, I would like financial independence,” and two days later, I was let go. He said, “I feel so bad. I know you were trying to save money, but the boss said it is slowing down, and gave me all your tasks.” I realize my part in this. I have allowed this, but not any further. I refuse to give him anymore power over me. I am taking my life back. Slowly but steadily, I climb out if this hole I am in.
May you continue to grow and glow; and thus, continue to irritate their light and demons. They will expose themselves. 🙏
Yes
Thank you.
YES!!! I even have to file disability, FMLAS and all. My hair started falling in clumps and he got mad.
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