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  • @renatamayumikobata says:

    💚 You know best, always. You know exactly what it is you’re feeling. You know your reality. No one (narcissists) has the damn right to say otherwise. They’re most of the time freaking delusional, and their gaslighting unfortunately affects you.

  • @brendaspinella255 says:

    Dr. You make so much sense,and I’m starting to feel better.Thank you..❤

  • @5p4c3c4t says:

    🌷

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  • @sallyjaynes2433 says:

    Absolutely ❗ — * Covert ‘covering’ Covertism

  • @QuinnGee-u6w says:

    Thanks Doc. Much need information!

  • @sylwiapro2791 says:

    I told my trauma therapist upfront that i needed validation. And she only gave it to me a few months into the therapy after multiple reminders and what felt like me insisting and fighting for it. I quit shortly after.

  • @GailScheepers-b9l says:

    TRUE !! My experience was a living experience and no one will tell me otherwise and I will not hesitate to tell them what they don’t what to hear but that is not my problem. Own it or step aside and don’t waste my precious time any longer than what is necessary. 😡😡

  • @bumblebee5990 says:

    Thank you for saying this I really hate the validation that reframe demands cause.

  • @nataliej4653 says:

    Just wanna say thanks you helped me understand what was happening and gave me the ability to finally get away. THANK YOU!!

  • @Listenmtys says:

    Aware that I was in a miserable relationship, my mom said to me, “The important thing is that he marries you.” Ummmm, really? That’s the ‘important thing’?

  • @erictruelove-so1de says:

    I had a therapist who kept asking me “Why do you choose to feel bad?”. She did far more harm than good.

  • @miraalshoum236 says:

    ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊

  • @irenahabe2855 says:

    😘

  • @chrisknowles7443 says:

    Until somebody has actually lived in this unimaginable situation it seems impossible for anyone to realize the damage & never ending excruciating heartache the sadistic narcissist has created!

  • @elcee7800 says:

    Yes – brick wall it! They’ll take the easy road while you hike parallel to them. 👎🏼

  • @SuzannaLiessa says:

    I re-framed. “It is my fault I’m unhappy,” got re-framed to, “OMGoddess, this is abuse!”

  • @Missy-vc3mz says:

    LOVE how you speak the truth!!!!

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