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Never could I find a happy kind person like you
Narcissists Dominate Power Control
Narcissists make other friendships relationships and marriages complicated because everyone’s different as well as confusing
Narcissists have the road map to everything in life.
No they just think that they do because they are clever and can read people well.
Narcissists almost feels like they know everything in life
This is also an autistic trait that sometimes gets confused with narcissism. But they are not the same thing. Autistic people have empathy and narcissistic people don’t. That’s the difference between them.
@ifionlyhadaboatOne is based on manipulation and the other is brain chemistry. As I said they’re not the same if you ask for clarification of something an autistic person is not going to make excuses for their own behavior or blame you for something they did, only a narcissist will act like that. There definitely is a great difference between them.
@donovangray4246 I wasn’t aware that anyone was comparing narcissists with autistic people. They’re VERY different. Autistic people struggle with social cues. Narcissists are masters of social engineering…and also of manipulating me….
@ifionlyhadaboatI’ve met some people who are confused about the difference between them that’s why I mentioned it.
Darvo used by narcissists often something sinister
Don’t Go DEEP:
🚫 Don’t Defend
🚫 Don’t Engage
🚫 Don’t Explain
🚫 Don’t Personalize
💯 and 🚫take them too seriously!😀they are not worth your time!
Why do you say DON’T go DEEP? Instead of Do?
Added:
Don’t Envision
Don’t hope adding on to hope, Do not need hope and do not desire to correct or educate the person committed to misunderstanding you or I.
Grey brick or bolster the grey rocking process because in a decade the person being a narc to you the narc DESIRES YOU TO EXPLAIN it all it’s just a way to drag you or I further into confusion.
By staying DEEP technique it’s how to stay clear or on balance they want to make us explain to incurious narcissists. Their incuriousity factor is how they refuse to even consider what the person is trying to explain is saying always recall they are committed to misunderstanding you or me.
Narcissists are very drunk and absent minded about how they talk about other people
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This I Needed To Hear This I Was Horribly Abused Emotionally And Psychologically By A Malignant Sadistic Narcissists.I Became So Overwhelmed And Suicidal.When I Was Messaged By The Narcissist I Had To Immediately Stop What I Was Doing To Service Him He New I Had Anxiety And Fear Of Being Alone He Used That To His Advantage I Was Abused Horribly
1/The Narcissist Would Use Intense Forced Intimacy
2/ Rapid Future Faking .
3/Horrific Devaluation And Lengthy Silent Treatment.
I Was Discarded Cruelly I’m In Therapy Know Getting Help.Narcissistic Abuse Is Brutal.
Narcissists would use their exes, their father, mother, and friends (especially of opposite gender) so badly as part of the triangulation.
Yes, one of the narcs I dated would go behind my back and remove ANY attractive men in my dating range from my social media. I was single at the time. He was always meddling and trying to destroy any other man’s interest in me so he could have me all to himself. Behind my back… I later learned… he was saying terrible things about me to his friends & others. Sound like a narcissist??? If we were at a restaurant out on a date he would make very direct eye contact and openly flirt with other women right in front of me. He was always trying to make me jealous. It started on the very first date. He was also a sexual deviant I later learned and had stolen money from acquaintances & friends in so called “investment” schemes where they never saw a return on their money. Just writing this makes me bristle with anger. I absolutely despise that monster now. A total con.
Everything about this sounds awful the entire relationship you needing the praise and admiration of many men at once, but all sounds icky
Same!! 🥺
covert narcs deceive others into feeling bad for them.
100%
Thisss!! Especially in friendships!!
Never forget: Narcissists” promises MEAN NOTHING. They consider promises, vows and agreements just spoken words that don’t mean ANYTHING. They will break their promises instantly if they aren’t convenient at any given moment. Seriously, never forget this.
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I do not engage in any form of relationship with someone who is already involved, not even just texting, not friends, not pals, not buddies, and I don’t hope for a future with someone who is already involved no matter what they claim.
I was so stupid.The end was so easy for her. That’s what it took for me to get it.
My husband would tell me, “you look cute when you’re angry”. I then asked him is that why you want me angry all the time, he just smile. 🤨
I can’t imagine what is like to live a life where people are just pawns on a chessboard…these people are the most pathetic, pitiful, miserable, anxious and sad human beings…I’d rather be at the end of the rubbish they spew, rather than be a hollow, wicked and nasty person like this. 💯pure evil.
Truth, you speak truth yet I just want no part of the whole process these days that’s the best
@menotyou6254 😅100% we haven’t signed up for this!
I experienced narcissim with my brother and now I am going through it again with my ex husband. The worse thing is I couldn’t see it with my ex until I started walking in my authentic self. God, I will always thank you for showing me the way out. He destroyed everything about my life to make him feel good. I feel so bad for my 2 sisters as they are going the same issues and they can’t see it, so I feel bad for them.
Thank you ❤