What Women Secretly Admire In Men (But Rarely Say Out Loud)

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  • @CourtneyRyan says:

    Going to therapy is a sign of strength, not weakness. My sponsor BetterHelp makes therapy simple, with 10% off your first month to help you get started: https://betterhelp.com/courtneyryan

  • @Yosef_Maharat says:

    Thanks, Courtney!

  • @Harikejn says:

    Important things: 0:39 First Thing ÷ The Way That You Handle Stress; 2:33 Second Thing ÷ Being Attentive Without Being Overbearing; 3:31 Third Thing ÷ Self-Discipline And Follow Through; 4:48 Fourth Thing ÷ Protective Instincts And Creating Safety; 5:41 Fifth Thing ÷ Subtle Confidence In Social Settings; 6:33 Sixth Thing ÷ A Healthy Emotional Range; 7:29 Seventh Thing ÷ Sense Of Purpose Beyond Yourself; and 9:16 to summarize all the told here.
    Additional things are these: Eighth Thing ÷ Being Supportive; Ninth Thing ÷ Being Prepared For Anything.
    The eighth thing can be partly used at third, fourth, and seventh thing. When I said being supportive, I meant on thing such as being there for your soulmate in every life situations either are the financial support, telling the thoughts about some struggles or things, being present, etc. And that goes equally to men and women, since men also secretly admire good things in women. As for ninth thing, it can be partly used at first, third, fifth, and sixth thing. What I mean by saying this is one thing. And that is this thing: Be a man with the plan. Why? Because, some plans may not workout the way how they should. So it’s okay that is good to have backup plan or backup plans, if something goes wrong.
    The things that people do admire are the following things: being authentic, being charismatic, being clever, and being enthusiastic, because once these things are seen by showing the deeds, they are hard to be forgotten. Also they can trigger in us some things that can make us work on ourselves. Why? It’s also one way of showing the attraction (in this case when woman sees these things in man). You don’t need to do thing such as: Fake it till you make it. Why? It because that can also been seen as well. Be yourself, show that you care (at least show that you care to yourself firstly, and once you show that, even the people will love that – in this case real woman will love the real man).
    Enjoy in your life dear people.

    • @303machine says:

      This are husband material things not thrill and hook up thing. In other words, she will riding c carousel and when she is ready to settle down she will seek those qualities and pretend to be born again virgin.

  • @darshantawte7435 says:

    What i have observed is sometimes its the women who are immature (or became immature of this social media stuff like Instagram). There is a girl (who is my close family friend since we were babies), i genuinely like her and i have all the aspects of my life sorted currently at age 26 ( i own a house, have a great high paying job, good physique, somewhat handsome, great sense of humour, emotional maturity etc all the traits which women find interesting. Even after all these she sort of leaves me in state of confusion, posts weird flirty stuff on insta though she is from a well groomed family with good manners.) All these things she does on the side really confuses me and i personally have somewhat lost interest in her.

  • @AlexanderSkinnerVids says:

    Another to add: *being a safe driver.* If you’re driving a girl around and you’re reliably safe, cautious and courteous, that will *NOT* go unnoticed.

    One of the most straightforward ways to establish a sense of safety.

  • @smartengineering8934 says:

    Some of us have bigger issues than an order gone wrong. Work, family, stoicism is not that easy to practice when nothing you try ever works out easy or the way you want. Being judged unattractive for not being positive all the time feels like having to put on an act and becomes tedious. When bad stuff happens to you and you don’t have many happy things to say you just try and avoid some conversation topics, what if your date brings them up then? Well you sound pessimistic and boring. Welcome to the life of a chronically single guy for over a decade.

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      Bejng single for a decade is your fault. There is at least one woman on Earth who finds you attractive. You all keep complaining, and Courtney points it out. Stop making us look bad.

  • @antoinecharlesdegaulle580 says:

    Have a great Sunday Courtney 😊 Thank you for your videos!

  • @Goliath.Lucifer says:

    From experience, a woman wanted me so badly when I was going thru stress and ptsd. Another broke up with me when I was strong and resilient. Yes. It’s all down to physical attraction.

  • @TheTrentweezy110 says:

    they don’t care if you don’t catch their attention to begin with

  • @nathaniellubin23 says:

    Shoutout Courtney Ryan l try to fix problems without stress in my life

  • @nathaniellubin23 says:

    Emotional protect has always been underrated and l don’t focus on the physical protection l focus on emotional and physical protection but not overprotected

  • @clasicalpices says:

    I spent half my life wondering why girls always friend zoned me. No matter what I tried, nothing worked. Then the book called The Girlfriend Magnet Masterplan by Nira Calden landed in my lap. chapter 3 was the breakthrough…it explained attraction in a way no one ever had. I tested it without changing anything I said, and suddenly girls reacted differently…smiling, leaning closer, even texting first. If you’re not ready to handle that, I’d honestly leave the book alone

  • @amill1563 says:

    What are your opinions on pick up artists?

  • @hrobky says:

    0:39 The way that you handle stress
    2:34 Being attentive without being overbearing
    3:32 Self-discipline and follow through
    4:48 Protective instincts and creating safety
    5:41 Subtle confidence in social settings
    6:34 A healthy emotional range
    7:29 Sense of purpose beyond yourself

  • @danielcobbins8861 says:

    I used to get stressed when things fell apart. My therapy came from an unexpected source. I watch videos, by Mustie1, every Sunday morning. He fixes many things; cars, trucks, lawn mowers, etc. When parts fly off, or something breaks, he just laughs it off. Who would of thought that a mechanic, from NH, would be a great source of calmness?

  • @bud1239 says:

    After going to the gym consistently, I started to gain weight (still at a low body fat percentage) and feel a lot better about myself, physically and mentally. When I go back to the dance bar to talk to and dance with girls, I will feel more confident

  • @juanderuano8969 says:

    Thank you for this video. though it brings up painful memories. At first i was with an abusive and narc wife for 10 years of my life, then I left when i couldn’t bear it any longer, Bear in mind i only stayed that long because of our teenage kids. After two years of being single, I met the love of my life, and we had a fantastic first 5 months, then my P.T.S.D kicked in and I did a lot of things I am not proud of because i wasn’t properly healed. and she left me. I think of her everyday I realize now and I feel so empty and lonely inside. I love her so much.

    • @laurawheeler-px6oz says:

      I am terribly sorry to hear this, trust me. I know exactly what you are going through. loosing someone you love is always tough, i have been there, and it wasn’t easy, but i did all i could to get him back, so I watched a lot of you tube videos especially coach Corey Wayne, Matthew Hussey and Doctor Ramani. I also used the services of a spiritual guide as well

    • @juanderuano8969 says:

      interesting? how did you get a spiritual guide, and how do I reach him/ her?.

    • @laurawheeler-px6oz says:

      Her name is Gabriela Blanca Lopez and she is an exceptional spiritual guide.

    • @juanderuano8969 says:

      Thank you for this information, i just looked her up now online found her website. Astonishing

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      Glad you found someone better. Don’t get married again, though. That would be ridiculous.

  • @n0b0dyw4st4k3n says:

    My wife loves the fact that I’m unpredictable in a good way. If I make a joke and she’s expecting that joke, it isn’t funny. If I make a joke and she’s not expecting it, it’s usually funny. There are also times when you need to be serious as well, and I obviously take that into account

  • @davidabarak says:

    Through personal dating experience – both successes and failures on my part – I can vouch for everything Courtney talked about.

    And the guys who think “yeah, but what about how women behave?” your point is valid but remember that this is a channel for me, not for men and women. Remember too that Courtney has no reason to feed us disinformation – she’d have nothing to gain by it, and if she was giving bad information her channel would slowly fade from existence. Pay attention to what she says, try adopt it all, and don’t get down on yourself if some of it just doesn’t feel right.

  • @Guigley says:

    The older I’ve gotten and the more I’ve observed, the more I’ve come to understand how important it is for women to feel safe and what I can to do to make that happen.

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