7 Subtle Shifts That Make You Instantly More Charismatic (Women Notice This)
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Happy Sunday Courtney❤
You too! 🥰
Appreciate your perspective Courtney
Have a great Sunday
Thank you! You too!
A truly charismatic person will make people feel like their the most important person in the room.
ONLY if they can SPELL.
I was at a wedding earlir this month, and i almost knocked over a salad bowl. I turned to everyone in line, and shouted “Ladies and gentlemen! That was cautionary tale. Dont do what i did!” Few laughed and i went on with my business
Love it 😂
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All I can say on this fine Sunday morning is that Life’s good, and it got better by having an extra hour of sleep last night! Also, your quote of “Don’t just impress, be impressed” is super solid 👍
Well said!
Happy Sunday, Courtney! Thank you for the amazing content 😊❤
Happy Sunday! 🥰
Charisma can definitely be learnt. Even a slight shift in your mentality can have a positive effect. I used to ‘listen to respond’ and when I shifted to a ‘listen to just listen’ mode and made the speaker the center of my attention, things changed.
As someone who works in sales, it helps when a speaker remembers you based on just that one interaction.
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Okay, my two cents on charisma: how well your personal charisma translates depends on how intelligent the person you’re talking to is. I could write books about how many times a woman I was speaking with didn’t catch a single specific detail of our conversation because she was too visually “drunk,” lost in looking at my handsome face, in la-la land. If a woman finds you extremely attractive, she’s probably not catching a single word you’re saying. I’ve noticed this is much more common with people who aren’t that intellectual (no offense).
The creepy thing is that it even happens with guys I have a quick conversation with, they drift off, staring into my face like they’re in some faraway land, and begin to have feelings for me, way more common with guys in the Manoshpere types (Man-Child). That is the reason WHY I do not talk to guys, they are too prone to fall for a guy they admire. Honestly, that’s one reason I’ve mostly dated women who are very intellectual; they’re less likely to fall into that deep state of fantasy. They also love looking at a handsome face, but they are way more mentally grounded to stay in focus. It’s a scientific fact that babies tend to stare at attractive faces. Similarly, adults who are less bright also tend to stare longer at attractive faces.
look at Mr. hot intellectual over here, too sexylectual for most women, all of whom swooning at the sight of him
How you treat others around you is very noticeable as well. When I met my wife, she noticed how I was treating the one old lady in the pew to the left of me. At the time, we were just talking about her grandkids, but it showed more character. My now wife noticed that, and when I was getting coffee and donuts after mass, she came up and we started talking. When we were getting serious, she said that she was attracted to me because I was handsome, looked like I took care of myself, and was kind to other people.
Very true, by their fruits you shall know them
Thank you for sharing this! Love it!
0:00 INTRO
0:54 MICRO-EXPRESSION AWARENESS SHIFT
2:13 CURIOSITY OVER PERFORMANCE SHIFT
4:48 SLOW DOWN SHIFT
5:48 WARM ASSERTIVE SHIFT
6:53 PURPOSE ENERGY SHIFT
7:41 UNSHAKABLE CALM SHIFT
8:29 AUTHENTICITY WITH POLISH SHIFT
9:26 OUTRO
*And remember rules 1) and 2) fellas:*
1) Be attractive
2) Don’t be unattractive
Only thing you need to know
Boys, we’re out here completely revamping our personalities, acquiring high level social skills, improving our physiques, our fashion, developing irresistible charisma and charm, and trying to become high value men…just to attract some modern day women who possess absolutely none of these qualities and whose efforts in life go only into scrolling social media for 7 hours a day and putting on make up every once in a while.
I see this argument a lot on videos like this, and tbh I don’t get it. If you don’t care what women think, great, you do you. But why are you even here? It’s like if I commented on a fitness video to tell them I don’t like to diet or exercise.
yeah your comment practically oozes “irresistible charisma” jfc
Courtney looks amazing in this video. Her luscious hair and the grey sweater fantastico ❤
I agree. A charismatic man, who is genuine, has the energy of a warm comforting camp fire on a cold night – absolutely addictive!
Fun factiod: Ladies call me “Third Time” because I’m always the charm.
Charisma- here is an item:
Jennie Jerome (Winston Churchill’s mother) glided through the loftiest social circles in Great Britain. Once, on consecutive nights, Ms. Jerome dined with England’s premier politicians: Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli and his chief rival, William Gladstone. When questioned about her impressions of the two men, Ms. Jerome made the following observation:
“When I left the dining room after sitting next to Mr. Gladstone, I thought he was the cleverest man in England. But when I sat next to Mr. Disraeli, I left feeling that I was the cleverest woman.”
Disraeli absolutely was the one with charisma.
Even if you’re shy, go for it. You might not get it perfect at first, but making an effort will boost social skills and show others you are invested in them. Over time, talking with others becomes easier, and confidence goes up. Even if you aren’t the most magnetic, being a genuine person who listens, speaks thoughtfully and engages others will benefit you in friendship and love in the long run.
Thank you, Courtney! Have a great day!
I used to be pretty insecure, and as a result I wasn’t very charismatic. Part of that manifested as me not taking risks with women and part of it as me trying to impress people in general. After awhile I began to realize I’m no better or worse than anyone else, and that was a huge help. Eventually I got to the point where if I flubbed something I was saying I could often turn it into a joke, showing that being human and vulnerable didn’t bother me.
I listen to you and Coach Melanie so far you both are by far my most favorite instructors in dating or relationships with people period