Staying “For the Kids”? The Hidden Harm of Narcissistic Marriages

So many of my clients tell me they’re staying in their marriage “for the kids.” They want to protect them, shield them from chaos, and keep their home intact. I get it—it comes from a place of love. But here’s the hard truth: children in high-conflict or narcissistic households aren’t shielded. They absorb the tension. They learn unhealthy lessons about love, power, and relationships.

In this video, I break down why staying in a toxic marriage may actually cause more damage than leaving, and why creating a peaceful, safe home—whether in one household or two—is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children.

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