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Dr. Ramani is basically the holder of reality in a world which doesn’t want to understand
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I cringe thinking about how obsessed I used to be with his attention. I would literally celebrate inside when he sent me a dry “ok,” as if that meant anything. That level of desperation honestly disgusts me now. I had become this pathetic version of myself, waiting, hoping, clinging to nothing. Then I found The Obedient Boy Protocol by Lora Calden, and I swear the experience was like waking up from a psychological blackout. The content is so intense, so unapologetically manipulative, that I had to stop reading at one point just to breathe. But once I understood it, everything clicked. I cut my reactions in half, sharpened my boundaries, and treated his attention like it was optional instead of sacred. The result? Immediate chaos on his end. He went from ghosting me to monitoring my online status, asking why I’m “acting different.” This book doesn’t teach you how to keep a man…it teaches you how to control the dynamic.
I got the “you create your own reality” bs
I wanted to punch them and give them some actual “reality”
I didn’t, instead I made them disappear (from my life 😉)
Thank you Dr. Ramani!! 💜💜💜
Hearing how perfectly Dr Ramani’s examples mimic my own experience tells me she must’ve been through it herself to have this level of understanding
someone finally said it
Yes yes yes
This channel has been such a gift to me during the holidays. ❤
Just a gift!!!!
“Law of mirrors” sounds like a great way narcissists can project their flaws onto whoever calls them out
Classic blame shifting to avoid accountability
@Lizzy.12.8.90 Avoidants too love this blame shifting
And also the temporary idealized projection. Don’t forget the lovebombing phase.
Small fish in an ocean full of sharks are going to get eaten. No one blames the small fish, but we routinely blame victims of abuse.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I have been dealing with these issues for so long.
I have been abused by several new age “spiritual narcissists”, it’s the ultimate control over your perception of reality
For example “psychics” who will tell you they know you better than you do (classic gaslighting) and ascribe thoughts/motives to you (that you don’t actually have) to keep you controlled with guilt and shame 🙃
+ the tarot readers preying on ppl with attachment trauma and keeping them in limerence/toxic/abusive/unhealthy relationships 🙃
know you better than you do
that’s exactly what Yuval Noah Harari sad about AI and our future.
narcissists just keep reinventing themselves.
Once I got the knowledge of what are narcissist was the easier way it is to monuver around them or away from them
I must shoot stars out of my head that only a narcissist can see. I swear I can talk to one about two times and they know I know!!! Yeah they are predators but I don’t even have time to slip away! It’s like Bingo ! 😮
Thank you, Dr. Ramani, for saying how my heart has been feeling for about a year now. I have been in the healing arts and have been experiencing this dismissal and “you aren’t saying it to the universe or correctly”…. Manifesting, etc. THANK YOU. It just keeps everyone running in circles and self blame.
Thank you for addressing the attraction/manifestation judgement. My brother is a firm believer in the laws of attraction and judges me for my decision to stay in a bad marriage for financial and child custody reasons. It was helpful to hear you call that out as BS.
It never registered to me as judgmental (I basically thought of it as “luck” or praying)
, but hearing her opinion gave me a fresh perspective. I can totally understand how judgmental it is now, and it’s disturbing.
My third husband used to say him and his first wife went to a therapist and the therapist said their was no helping her. I believe after getting the knowledge of narcissist after leaving him it was him not his ex first wife
I’ve been watching and learning from your videos for three years. Only thing that amazes me now is that you come up with some new facet of narcissism with each passing day.. I learned something from every one of these videos. Thanking you doesn’t seem like enough❤
The law of mirrors sounds like the fools who scream that anyone who points out racism is the actual racist.
Dr. Ramani is correct about her characterization of new age ideology. I saw the essential victim blaming nature of it decades ago when new age ideology became a trend. It is a religion of narcissism. I live in a city in the US where new age ideology widespread and longstanding. I have seen many people live and die by it; plenty field tested by now. Narcissists are attracted to new age ideology because it provides for them a mask from behind which they can harm people and obtain money and other resources.
This Is not joke
Yesterday overcome a suicidal moment.
Sometimes you feel like being in jail..