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Thank you Alysha and Jon for sharing your thoughts and insights. Opening oneself up to a broadcast, is very brave. We go bravely inside to find the answers and truths and then share the beauty of our minds, hearts and souls with another. When two hearts are in alignment, there is where we see our reflection in the other, and the truth shines and trust is there, security and safety for giving of our best.
Thank you so much!
Everyone has the basic Script! Go to College, get a Career, get married, have children because we are here to Procreate and than Survive!
Thank you Alysha for sharing and great job as you were vulnerable and asked great questions! Great advice Jonathan as well! We are cheering you on Alysha!
Glad it was helpful!
I found myself feeling a bit uneasy watching this, especially for Alysha. She brought in a very specific, emotionally nuanced question about staying when things get hard without self-abandoning, and I don’t think that question ever really got answered in a concrete way.
There were some solid concepts mentioned, reciprocity, attachment, boundaries, emotional safety, but they were delivered in a very broad, philosophical way that felt more like a lecture than a dialogue. At times it seemed like her words were being reinterpreted rather than clarified, which can unintentionally make someone feel talked over instead of understood. I also think the age and experience gap showed up in the form of assumptions rather than curiosity.
Where I struggled most was the lack of practical distinction between healthy discomfort that’s worth working through and unhealthy patterns that are signals to leave. That distinction is exactly what people with commitment anxiety or self-protective tendencies need help learning.
Thank you for sharing your pov. Yes, it was a bit generalized. Thank you for acknowledging the good parts. 🙏
Yes I was trying my best to say exactly your last paragraph. If im really serious about exploring that more deeply. I’ll definitely consider some professional help in a more in depth way. 🙏
Very interesting video, Jonathon! Reciprocity is very important in any relationship because you can’t feel alone when you are with somebody. We deserve to expect something in return because our time and energy are very valuable. I wish men were more honest and direct when they aren’t very interested! 🙏💖🤗🔥
So true!
Its tough
After awhile you just give up
Yes that does happen.
Jonathan your saying “That women no longer need Men for income ” is BS. The cost of Living is through the Roof! I see people partnering up at my Apartment complex all the Time. My Ex married a my Ex friend who herself never worked & used up all her Trust Fund & Mother’s Divorce settlement. She still doesn’t work. My sister had her daughter & my daughter’s husband, 3 kids & my brother living w her in a 2 bedroom apartment in Illinois. I am going back to school for a 2nd career in my mid 50’s. Matthew Hussey wife moved to the States, left her work, works for him & made sure she popped out a child ASAP & believe me she isn’t working! He makes all the Money! This new field you are in for Love Coaches w now actual College Degree is High Priced. The guy I met over 1.5 yrs ago, all he does is work crazy hours, lives in a 3 bedroom apartment w 2 teenagers & doesn’t even see them! Much less see me maybe every 3 weeks! Other men I talk to in my over 50’s are so damaged when it comes to being the Protector. I neec a Partner & Protector to Survive. Forget anyone having any kind of Hobby. !
My sister at 48 is going back to school to be a Massage therapist from 20 + years of being a Paralegal and being paid so low that she can’t afford to Live & support her 12 yr old child. No support from the Father! Her current 4 yr BF is useless too!
It Takes 7 Generations to Fix a Family Patterns & Behaviors
Some great advice, however I don’t believe there is any timeline to have sex and believe that is up to the women to decide when she feels comfortable in that situation and if she never does then forget about it. Women, you have no obligation to have sex with anyone unless you are in a committed relationship at least. If a man truly cares about you and likes you, he will wait!
She seems like a very sweet young girl and I hope all the best for her! Praying she finds someone worthy of her!
Johathon, appreciate your time and effort. Just finished the book by Dr. Anna Lempke “Dopamine Nation” it happened me understand more about myself and my partner emotions and feelings!
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