Why some narcissists go UNDETECTED
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Charm, charisma, confidence, status, (undercover curiosity), condoning … attributes my FIL had and used.
In retrospect, he was not the person I thought he was. He has hero status and power beyond the grave.
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Sounds a lot like what is written about vampires in fiction.
Apparently, not fiction. Before I even knew what a narc was, I called them energy vampires.
I am so incredibly glad I have been watching you for the last several years! I can’t imagine trying to live in this world now, without understanding narcissism. Thank you so much👍❤❤❤ Also listen to the song “Hotel California” by the Eagles and tell me if they are not perfectly describing the Trauma bond…!!!!👍 Also, Also, how is this for a definition of the Trauma bond…The Trauma bond – is a slow dynamic (not static) process of punishments and rewards to condition you to serve your master instead of being free.
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Me too! I’ve learnt alot! 🇬🇧❤️
The reason why we can’t detect them is they appear and act normal when they need us.
Yeah but there are always red flags…..the real problem is we’re always rationalizing our total reasoanable doubts and discomfort about them.
You are so right!!
One sentence. They are master manipulators.
Thank you ❤😢 I wish I had this knowledge 20 years ago
I don’t trust charismatic people.
Me neither, nor the drama queens who MUST ‘entertain’ you….. sorry but the cost of the ticket is too high. LOL
Narcissists go undetected because they’re gold plated.
Perfect description
Or even they fulled us because of our ignorance and we woke up it was too late.
Character is everything! I have learned that just because an individual is charming, intelligent, has good manners, and presents well on paper does not mean they are a decent human being or even share your morals and values. I am grateful I was able to get away with my life! 🙏🏽
Snakes often go undetected until they bite you.
@@wtk6069 I was walking through a corn field one summer. I froze in place like in a trance. When I pulled myself out of my trance I saw the tail of a rattlesnake making her exit.
Don’t step on the snake.
So true. You don’t recognize them till it’s too late. ‘King cobra’.
@@SylPaperworks defang em then mess with their energies lol
To take it another step further. Some snakes bite you silently till you realise you are passing out…master manipulators are so skilled, you will never see it coming
Dr Ramani is describing my golden child sister who is stepping into a far sinister narcissist than my grandiose Narc Mother…
These smart big egos with tons of cash are destroying the planet
They are EXCELLENT at Camouflage , especially when it Matters !
My ex lied through his teeth about his credentials alll the time, he was a super snob, super charismatic could entertain everybody
At 29:55, Dr. Ramani, you say, “A smart phone is still astonishing to me.” I’m 72, and I still remember liking the smell of the mimeograph fluid, and how the copy would come out damp! About my first iPhone that I showed to my mother when she had just turned 100 – She said, “Now that’s the smallest little computer I’ve ever seen!” 😂 I hadn’t thought of it as a computer, but she was actually right!
The “whole” package…. Remember folks, you could package crap in a box and wrap it up to look super pretty too. Just because they look and seem great but you never know what’s underneath until they get “comfortable”
Because they know how to appear “normal”.
“Take the knowledge and RUN !” , I started doing this over ten Years ago …!
I met a man and I was falling for him, and to my horror, I am starting to suspect he’s narcissistic: status obsessed, in need of validation, ghosting, a light dose of gaslighting. It’s so painful to realize this.
Imagine a world filled with both innovation and compassion towards ourselves and each other. I think great innovation can happen without people being narcissistic, but it might take showering with empathy the wounds within us that the narcissists are too afraid to confront, and letting courage to show who we are and what we are capable of propel us rather than fear or shame.
Another amazing video by a woman who has the GOOD smarts! Always coming with the cutting edge content. So relatable. ❤❤❤