Tiktok slang that exposes narcissistic behavior
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There is a lot of narcissistic behaviour in TikTok, especially in TikTok trends. Even some narcissistic abuse creators on TikTok can be quite narcissistic. Let’s not become like what harmed us.
There’s plenty of narcissistic behavior on YouTube including creators claiming to be survivors of narcissistic abuse who clearly display patterns of behavior consistent with narcissism.
@@michele0324 I was just about to say the same thing. I’ve even seen it in the comments of this channel. It seems like it’s rampant not just on social media, but in the world.
Thank you Dr. Ramani ❤
I don’t use TikTok. Got rid of most of my social media last year.
Great! I gave up facebook at the end of 2018
I don’t bother with social media jn less I need to find a business or charity that’s only on Facebook. I’ve never understood the need for influencer culture and the posting of your life everywhere or worse watching other people’s lives.
Drop out! That’s the path to mental health.
Romani saying rizz!!! Made my day 😂
Youve helped me so much … I left a narc a few years ago..i was left traumatized from the abuse. Im single and lonely… yet not interested in dating.. .. everyday im growing closer to peace
Some folks show their lives for the money and some enjoy it. I have a tendency to watch the ones who do interact with others.
To this day I ask am I good enough. I’ve been in narcissistic relationships all my life. I’ve had a few grey relationships the real ones. But being brought up with narc behaviors ( some) inappropriate which I have to address. At 69 I’m really caught in the middle. And still attracting narks but very comfortable with kind folks. Though kind folks still can be a bit uncomfortable.. but if I’m lucky enough to smell a narcissist I’m gone – if possible. Someone with light narcissism I can roll with. Probably something I’m just use to. The lack of closeness I do miss deeply!
As I get older, I find I love boring more and more 😂
Me too
Same.
We are turning into the people we used to make fun of 😂
Dr. Ramani, if you’re anything like your teaching, you’re the coolest, most real person who I would love to one day meet. 💕 thank you❣️
“Main character energy ” is a huge red flag to me.
Same…it’s like everyone’s the “main character” in their own story because people live their lives in the world through their own point of view…but the truth is there is no main character and all of our lives and stories are no more or less valid than the lives of the next human being.
I did not know that. Thank you for information
@@Passionate_Aria If the camera is always centered on them. If what they are doing is always the subject matter, that’s a strong tell. But it’s not 100%, Dr. Ramani usually centers the camera on herself.
My goodness! I always say “ if Dr. Ramani watched this TikTok she’d know it’s narcissism “ it’s insane how many people are unaware and casually enable these folks giving them huge platforms
I know one guy who’s on and talks about the narcissist. I’d give my eye teeth the dude is a psychopath. But hey he knows his stuff.
This is packed full of golden nuggets ❤
There’s so much good in these compilations, thank you! Dr Ramani team.
Rizz I’ve heard also used as a verb (“he’s rizzing me up” meaning making me feel great about myself or my accomplishment). As much as I totally agree with you, I also know that the fact that fills can identify more in the moment that someone is being a “rizzler”, the more some of them will realize that this charisma doesn’t mean much more than surface ability to charm folks. Like toxic, or main character energy, I think the more is being identified and often used negatively (to far too often it’s not) the sooner folks make the connection to how hurtful they can be. But again, not always. Glad to see so much info you’ve done on the phrases that can tell us up.
Ps, I prefer Websters words of the year Too.
Yep narcissism can be so complex.. ten years from now we will have the term complex narcissism. Even narcissism has its gray areas 🤔
@SherryTomlinson-r2y exactly. I think there’s so much of it that’s on a range. There’s milder forms of each trait, there’s more subtle and more obvious versions of each behavior too. It’s complex for sure.
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Mine never had any of those traits. It was alway someday we would have those things. We are in our 80es now and it’s almost comical now watching him trying to rule the roost. I do wish I would have never found the info on narcissist, this late in life. It has made me very angry now that my days are short. To know I could have changed my life and my kids life’s. But now I do what ever I want and refuse to answer to him . At least !!!!
I’m in my 70s and feel the same. Wish I’d understood NPD years ago and saved myself a lot of grief. I’m an intelligent person and cannot believe the red flags I ignored.
I did cool girl in my ‘marriage.’ I don’t even know all the violations and awful behaviors I allowed my ex husband to get away with. I wasn’t jealous, I didn’t harp, I didn’t stick my nose in his business, and I didn’t stand up for myself when he was being a shitbag. It wasn’t that I didn’t care. I mistakenly assumed he was mine because he came home to me every night. I didn’t think he would cheat. I certainly did not want to raise his ire and give him any reason to look elsewhere because I had ANY expectations of him.
Boy, I learned that lesson! Hoo boy, did I learn that lesson!
If I choose to get in another relationship, I will never ever ever be the needless, wantless, go along to get along cool girl.
Thank you, Dr Ramani. I’m glad I’m too old to care about Gen Z slang. Slang is the least of our worries. We’ve left them a mess to inherit. I wish them all the best.
“Exciting” and “successful” profiles give me the immediate ick. I don’t do biz with the rizz.
Unfortunately, my last highly narcissistic ex’s profile was a string of beige flags that gave me a false sense of security. The devaluing started six months into dating regardless.
It feels like there’s no way to accurately gauge from the outset anymore, so the only recourse is to take all intimacy (including platonic sharing) *very slowly*. I recently dodged a bullet when I told someone that I approach dynamics slowly and mindfully. After two months of talking, I never heard from them again. Total ghost. Honestly, I was very relieved!
I discovered Dr. Ramani a few weeks ago, and her explanations was eye-opening in my own marriage. I will never forget something she said in another podcast because it exposed the biggest sources of confrontation in my marriage. It was something to the effect of “A relationship with a narcissist can be great, if you always do what they want, if you always agree with them, and if you can read their mind.”
My therapist sent me to this chanel, and I wanted to say thank you, Dr Ramani. I have two narcs parents and it took me time to realise it because it shows in very different ways. Your content and knowledge is a great help and gives me so much tools to deal with it!
This video is so powerful to me, probably the most relevant to me and my long history of emotionally empty and narcisstic relationships. I was always “the cool girl”. Finially after a very toxic 15 year relationship, I am seeing the light and really doing the inner work. Thank you for what you do Dr. Ramini, you help and probably save many, many lives around the world.