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April 22, 2026
Andrew McLaurin
Honestly, I think this is why so many people want a label for a narcissist. If we KNOW they can’t change, we can let go so much easier.
No.
Only to become a more savvy npd
Unicorns and Transformed Narcissists are both a figment of your imagination!
NO, THEY DON’T (NOT CAN’T) CHANGE!!
If someone puts *intention* into hurting you, why do you care if they change?! We’re not discussing immature adolescents. Save yourself! Dr. Ramani has helped me see this
I actually feel sorry for someone who may live the rest of their life in such a condition. What a terrible life sentence. But we don’t have to serve their life sentence along with them 🙂
I have personal experience that a narc never changes. They will believe everyone else is the problem but them.
Exactly. For them to want to go to therapy to change, they need to have insight into their problem and the people they have hurt. Im not sure what level of crises theyd need to be in to think therapy is their way out. My sister is my narcissist abuser and my parents coddle her and punish me. They are also cruel but it happened my whole life. I became a nurse and now disabled with little family. But all the work is in me. They dont need to admit anything was wrong. Im the problem. :*( I have to change but veing alone really sucks when bed ridden level of disability.
As do I. It’s a horrific nightmare. They will never change because they like the feeling of power and control. They feed on fear and enjoy hurting you.
No no no no. No change ever.
Only if they have new different trauma, possibly physical in nature. Their deepest behaviors and brain function has to change.
No way they can change! I was influenced by a narcissistic father. I had to study and observe the narcissist to heal myself. They’re the creator of my wounds! I also listened to a genius narcissist describe his narcissism. They can’t change! Unfortunately for them and us !
If they were willing to change, they would not longer be narcissistic
For all the reasons you listed, I believe they can change. I don’t think they want to though. It’s a lot of work.
No. Been married to 2, neither thought they were the problem.
No, they cannot change totally – temporarily, yes, when they realize they need something
NPD shows up on a brain scan. There is no cure.
Anything is possible , but unlikely. If it takes years sometimes ti manifest as a dysfunctional coping mechanism, I’d love to hear what triggered the motivation to seek therapy, especially if empathy is absent?
I did, with no money at all. I found God and sacrificed myself to the highest. I believe i have died a few times(shadow work) and will be until my job is done. You have to want to change and not be lost in the matrix. I asked God to show me the truth.. i have lost contact with everybody. Even my own siblings. They are trying to break me down psychologically, but they have no idea that my conscious has been awakened… with the guidance and help from Shiva/Shakti, Yeshua (my King/Master) Mother Mary, Angels and Great grandmothers. YOU CAN DO IT, JUST GIVE YOURSELF TO GOD. P.S. get ready for your whole world to flip upside down… Follow the rabbit, for it will show you the truth. It’s so beautiful on the other side.
Yes esp in localized areas of our lives such as workplaces. I do think that a narcissist can change in some cases of opportunitistic abuse of power. So long as the power structure that they enforces certain explicit acknowledgements of what processes as re healthy or not in practical or matters of respect
Not without a major life crisis to force them awake.
NO narcissists cannot change!