How Narcissists Use Your Children to Control the Divorce
When narcissists lose control of the marriage, they often look for another way to maintain influence.
Too often, that pathway becomes the children.
Children may be used to create loyalty conflicts, gather information, undermine the other parent, or keep emotional control alive long after separation.
The hardest part? Loving parents naturally want to defend themselves and correct the narrative.
But children don't need to hear who is right.
They need emotional safety, consistency, and stability.
Your power isn't in winning your child's loyalty.
Your power is in creating the safe, predictable environment they can trust.
Over time, children notice the difference.
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