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Ur right narstics people Often spoil your work and don’t listen to to you they deliberately waste your time and money
Yes….. I attended a wake recently & he did too. The whole time he bent over backwards being extra x 3 considerate towards me. I know he was doing this to look good to his family who were also there. Trying to convince them that I lie about what he’s done & doing still to me.
What ya do then is act very sweet towards him, make him regret what he lost, and save some face. But ONLY because he was playing you. Keep your chin up! 🙂
Mine did this crap all the time. It’s all coming back on him now.
I see this all the time. The only time he ‘helps’ is if he gets some kind of benefit out of it.
Holy Hannah this is spot on! It used to frustrate the hell out of me and every once in awhile it admittedly still does. I just don’t engage in it. And now I understand what is behind this repugnant immature passive aggressive behavior. I sometimes feel somewhat sorry for the unaware narc that I foolishly included in my life so long ago. I often amuse myself now playing a BPD Behavioral Bingo card game in my head with his behaviors and the behaviors of his family. It keeps me amused and the frustration down if I do have to be in contact due to family obligations. Which I keep to a bare minimum and only to support my sons. FYI I never fail to score a BINGO ! 😂😂😂
😂 Should arbitrarily yell “bingo” when he plays the game, get a good laugh out of it at least 😂
@TheNegOneThat is brilliant! 😂😂😂😂
My father LOVED helping the neighbors bc it made him look like a good person but he was a pos at home.
Also there is a new discovery they will shock you with a new lie they will introduce a new character for the sake of lying which doesn’t even exist so that your mind keeps wandering
You are GENUIS! Everything they DO is contrived! EVERYTHING!
Exactly!Thanks Dr. Ramani!❤❤
Bingo or a coworker needed a transport to the hospital.
I remember dad started to smoke outside to keep his cpap machine clean
She came to my rescue said she would help me look for the kitten in my yard, upon walking in she immediately asked can she help herself to all my home grown veggies to which I agreed and before I know it off she walks getting what she wanted and never even bothered to help me look for my lost kitten, another time she asked me to fetch her son from up the road because its going to rain, I never bothered checking out the weather anyway jumped up to go and help and before I know it her son is loading plants and boxes into my vehicle because she needed to move things her daughter in law gave her thats why her son was there. Tell me she will help me out in the studio with all my clothing as a have a small thrift store set up, again, shes walking out with an arms length of clothing that she still hasnt paid for. Im freaking done with her now.
Narcissists have no empathy.They can manipulate people into seeing them as empathetic.
And moreover they may stalk looking for opportunities to jump in and help to convince you they are who they are trying to make you believe they are…
Absolutely!!! Left with several messes in my backyard after I asked the housemate to leave during a tirade….was only what the arrangement was for living here ….went well until it didn’t!! Jumped to do all kinds of handyman for all neighbors…all that faded with time as I backed away from supply to grey rock to silent!!
When they can get something, including being seen as healthy, they can mimic empathy. They watch others who are empathetic to know what to “do”.
Yes!!! And it makes me question if I was wrong about the last 40 years and whether I am being too sensitive. But then a serious emergency arises in which I desperately need just 30min of help as I contemplate dying in the ER versus my own bed and I kid you not, “can’t help. Going to play bingo with your sister later. Next time.”
Next time?!?! She still doesn’t understand there might not be a next time! And when I try explaining the severity of my conditions, she literally says “I don’t want to hear it” or “I’m changing the subject now.” She’s going to throw the most insufferable funeral or do nothing at all but tell every waitress and customer services rep the plight of her dead daughter 😂😂😂 good luck with that!!!
So true.
That’s so dam funny pulling trash can in hahaha ur the best
Always an ulterior motive!
Yes! 👏